Who Pays On A Date? What Women MUST Do!

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  • Dessy R
    Dessy RΠριν ημέρα

    I wonder where a man should properly take a woman for a first date

  • Shirtless64s
    Shirtless64sΠριν 2 ημέρες

    This is spot on, and as a man it hurts to see the lady pay for the meal, the only exception is that the bill must be split is when the invitee has ordered an absurd amount of food to the point that they are taking advantage of the person paying for the bill.

  • Brad1156
    Brad1156Πριν 4 ημέρες

    Women can work and earn a living just like a man. So ladies pay for yourself

  • anonymous
    anonymousΠριν 4 ημέρες

    Lol i totally agree btw beautiful dress

  • Mud Yuppy
    Mud YuppyΠριν 5 ημέρες

    I always pay on first date.. cup off coffee, choclate cake, 1hr check each other out. Move on unless you connect. Second date picnic.

  • Jyothi Jayaprakash
    Jyothi JayaprakashΠριν 9 ημέρες

    When I invite him I pay the bill and when he invites me he says he forgot wallet or take me to very cheap places. I broke up with him

  • Karyna
    KarynaΠριν 9 ημέρες

    AMEN!!

  • Thanh Xuân
    Thanh XuânΠριν 10 ημέρες

    I totally agreed with you in this video, also LOVE your look, hair, makeup, outfits, lighting, background, absolutely gorgeous!

  • Kizzy Yang
    Kizzy YangΠριν 13 ημέρες

    I just love you so much! Even my mom never taught me such things

  • Emma B
    Emma BΠριν 15 ημέρες

    Hopefully not too late to comment but what happens if its just a man friend and not a potential partner?

  • Charles Russell

    Charles Russell

    Πριν 5 ημέρες

    Split

  • Angela Zuluaga
    Angela ZuluagaΠριν 16 ημέρες

    How can I tell this to my former self on time? I am a fool. Always have been. No one taught me this.

  • Charlotte Lmbt
    Charlotte LmbtΠριν 16 ημέρες

    A short simple way to handle the situation is "Thank you for treating me to such a lovely evening ". Say this while gazing into his eyes and flash him a sweet, demure smile. This should be done just after he asks for the check. In latin culture its an unspoken understanding that if someone says "te invito" (I invite you), it literally means its their treat, they are treating you. So Anna is right, the one who invites is the one who covers the expenses.

  • henoov yourslavangi
    henoov yourslavangiΠριν 17 ημέρες

    I just asked my friend if he would let me get the bill. He said NO!! He said he would feel less than a man! How can a man let a woman pay and call himself a man????????

  • LANA REALTOR&INVESTOR
    LANA REALTOR&INVESTORΠριν 19 ημέρες

    I shared it everywhere , people attacked me

  • Elaine Tan
    Elaine TanΠριν 19 ημέρες

    I don't know if I can find the gentleman in Asian country

  • Liberal Looney
    Liberal LooneyΠριν 19 ημέρες

    Women complain that men feel entitled to their bodies, yet they feel entitled to men’s wallets. I can see why is happening- it’s because men are not respecting themselves.

  • Emily Hart
    Emily HartΠριν 21 ημέρα

    It's really important to read the clues that tell you how suitable someone is going to be. Investigate. I had an aunt who said that, contrary to what she had expected, she had to go on working outside the home after marriage -- even after having children. On the honeymoon she learned that her engagement and wedding ring was bought on time and not paid for and that the furniture her new husband had bought was also purchased on time and still owed on. His salary was much less than he had let her think it was and they needed the two incomes to make ends meet. He TOLD her she had to keep her job. They were Catholic and she didn't think divorce was an option so she stayed married.

  • Emily Hart
    Emily HartΠριν 21 ημέρα

    Once a gentleman told me he was just starting a new job and didn't have much money, but would love to take me out when he got paid. I liked his honesty and the fact that he was trying to "lock down" a date with me for when he could treat me nicely. I told him he didn't need to have money -- that I knew lots of things to do that were free -- like concerts in the park, going to free lectures, free night at the planetarium, receptions for art exhibit openings -- dozens of fun, educational, elegant events. I showed him I wasn't materialistic and that I was creative and could adjust to any circumstances. Even though romance didn't happen we were good friends and had lots of fun together. When he could afford to take me out he made those times very special and whether it was a free event date or something else he always treated me like a princess.

  • Emily Hart
    Emily HartΠριν 21 ημέρα

    If a man puts gas in his car while on a date or stops at an ATM to get cash it looks like he is hinting that I should contribute financially. So tacky.

  • Vegan Bloom
    Vegan BloomΠριν 22 ημέρες

    Ok. For dates, I understand. But what about when u go out on shopping or for visiting temples, sightseeing with male friends or male relatives or elderly? What if I wanted to buy something for him or one of his relatives (mother in law, sister in law) etc.. in this case I should be paying right, because I wanted to buy them? Is it still considered a masculine action? Pls advise.

  • Bren W
    Bren WΠριν 24 ημέρες

    Firstly, yes if I invited out for the meal ,yes I'd pay for the meal( unless she starts ordering lobster🤣, second date lobster may be ok), secondly is pay for the meal right up until she pops her phone out under the table(etiquette?), 🤣🤣Don't be surprised if I'm gone( having paid my half on d way out) before you finish checking the messages that are more important than me🤣🤣

  • Van Gina
    Van GinaΠριν μήνα

    The more i watch your video the more i admire you.. the world need alot of woman like you.

  • Shona M
    Shona MΠριν μήνα

    High Value women don't pay❤️ Femininity is receiving ❤️ Compliment is more to a man that he did a great job ☺️

  • Sidratul Moontaha
    Sidratul MoontahaΠριν μήνα

    This woman literally changed my whole life 🙂 literally.... Endless respect for you dear Anna 😍

  • furubaqt4
    furubaqt4Πριν μήνα

    it's interesting because it's not like a meal is a big investment. when you have a solid financial income, it's like asking someone to help you pay for a gumball. even so, guys who aren't wealthy but love to treat the women they like are great catches too.

  • Jeremy Lunsford
    Jeremy LunsfordΠριν μήνα

    WHo pays on a date? SImple...The person who initiates the date. If the man asks for a date,he pays. if the woman asks for a date,she pays. Sounds fair to everyone?

  • Hilu !
    Hilu !Πριν μήνα

    Uhh I made mistake on first date, I offered ro pay my food.. and when he next time offered to pay, I made such a big deal of it and he became embaressed of it... not cool from me

  • Karen Diaz Borg
    Karen Diaz BorgΠριν μήνα

    I wish I had listened to this in 2009.

  • Niki Togias
    Niki TogiasΠριν μήνα

    He excuses himself to go to the bathroom, pays without me even realising every single time and then I say babe did you already pay awwhh hug hug. That's a man ❤️

  • Vanilla Bourbon
    Vanilla BourbonΠριν μήνα

    I did this one time :( I regret

  • Nancy Mercado
    Nancy MercadoΠριν μήνα

    you’re very pretty. I love your look here and I love it when you laugh.

  • K Sakaguchi
    K SakaguchiΠριν μήνα

    I'm one of those people pays my own bill but i always consider how the other person would feel. When they said "it's my treat" I won't insist on paying.

  • sundas afzal
    sundas afzalΠριν μήνα

    I wish I'd seen this video 3 years ago... I fear it's too late now

  • Sidney Wallace
    Sidney WallaceΠριν μήνα

    But y’all ask for equal right tho...

  • Julia Mary

    Julia Mary

    Πριν 21 ημέρα

    @Jeanne D'arc ?? this woman's entire channel is about how to act like a lady

  • Larissa Luxe

    Larissa Luxe

    Πριν μήνα

    @Jeanne D'arc Yes and the girl can ask for what she wants. It’s her life. She has the right to say who she will entertain. Do you understand? No one is forcing the man to ask her out you dummy. And btw the women that like traditional roles aren’t the same ones doing that hardcore feminazi stuff. In fact if you like 50/50. The feminazis are the ones you should be dating 😂😂💀 Ps: I know your a man so I’ll address you as such. There has been an influx of men pretending to be women recently so Il address you according to what I think you are based on how you respond.

  • Jeanne D'arc

    Jeanne D'arc

    Πριν μήνα

    @Larissa Luxe but y'all only bring up "traditional gender roles" when you want a man to take care of you but god forbid he ask you to actually act like a lady then he's misogynist

  • Larissa Luxe

    Larissa Luxe

    Πριν μήνα

    Funny you guys only bring it up when money is involved. Any other time she’s a ‘feminazi’ am I right? 🥴😂

  • BackToTopic

    BackToTopic

    Πριν μήνα

    @Bigol Coco one thing i didnt quite get through That video is what if she asks me out.

  • Star soul
    Star soulΠριν μήνα

    😅💖💕💕

  • Maria Regina Ibeng
    Maria Regina IbengΠριν μήνα

    i was laughing alone in my room while watching you🤩i can't imagine myself paying the bills🤩🤩🤩

  • Judgment Proof
    Judgment ProofΠριν μήνα

    Can you do a video on how to elegantly handle a decanter? I’m talking out about specifically the type you’ll find in a limousine. I have such a decanter for my wine and I’m looking for how to properly handle decanters, specifically that particular design. I know there’s a video out there on how to properly handle a wine glass. That video along with yours inspired my question: how to elegantly handle a wine decanter

  • Brogan
    BroganΠριν μήνα

    Damnn I love you 🤣💖💖

  • Isha Brown
    Isha BrownΠριν μήνα

    Etiquette in China is exactly the same. A friend of mine who lived in Hong Kong looked after me so much she paid for most of our nights out and wouldn't let me pay lol. She explained in China I'm the guest and it's in their culture to look after guests, was so amazed by their hospitality and kindness

  • Juss Jess
    Juss JessΠριν μήνα

    Wow lol. Times have changed. When Used to go on dates, it was never this hard. The man would always pay. It was never awkward or weird. It so sad how things have changed.

  • jeupshaw Last
    jeupshaw LastΠριν μήνα

    If men don't invite, dating would be almost non-existent.

  • Tarri Meeks
    Tarri MeeksΠριν μήνα

    Coming from someone who guilty of doing that i agree with this and im going to stop

  • Yvonn sant
    Yvonn santΠριν μήνα

    🤭🤭

  • Todd Williams
    Todd WilliamsΠριν μήνα

    The person who does the invite should pay, for the first couple of dates, after that the couple should split the bill. If the woman doesn't at least make the gesture to pay she wouldn't get invited out by me again this isn't the 1950's anymore. Ladies, if you take her advice your going to end up old cat spinsters.

  • Lauren Adecha
    Lauren AdechaΠριν μήνα

    This is nothing to do with the 50/50 society ! 💯

  • DOOMS DAY
    DOOMS DAYΠριν μήνα

    Split the bill

  • Poise Grace
    Poise GraceΠριν μήνα

    I have finally found a woman who thinks like me when it comes to paying on a date. I don't pay if I am invited on a date I dont even make a fuss or flinch.

  • AJ Hubbell
    AJ HubbellΠριν μήνα

    Thank you.

  • karen klausse
    karen klausseΠριν μήνα

    Split the bill😂

  • C. Alexandra Rüther
    C. Alexandra RütherΠριν μήνα

    What do you do when it’s normal in your country for the waitress to ask if you want to split the bill or pay together? Do I just wait for him to answer? Because often times he’s waiting for me to answer and it gets awkward.

  • C. Alexandra Rüther

    C. Alexandra Rüther

    Πριν μήνα

    Germany 😂 lol

  • Larissa Luxe

    Larissa Luxe

    Πριν μήνα

    Wait for him to answer. What type of country is that? Lol

  • Aghata Bitar
    Aghata BitarΠριν μήνα

    Thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you. Like the starving girl who is thanking a dinner.

  • Dieu Cao
    Dieu CaoΠριν μήνα

    Some men think, that we are crazy about them when we accept to go to date with them. So we have to pay. I find it very funny, because those men are not grown up but want to play adult things. ^^

  • Larissa Luxe

    Larissa Luxe

    Πριν μήνα

    @This Guy loooool sweetie. No woman deals with a successful man and gains nothing out of it. Cut it out. Lol. If we’re going to deal with broke men. We will stay with broke men. Silly imbecile.

  • Dieu Cao

    Dieu Cao

    Πριν μήνα

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 brain is awesome, I wish you had one. Money too.

  • This Guy

    This Guy

    Πριν μήνα

    @Dieu Cao High value men date other high value women in their social circle, these women have their own money, that's why the man doesn't need to spend even a penny. A high value man doesn't go anywhere near some broke sugar baby who is too stupid to find a job to support herself. These high value men are not "feminist boys", they simply prefer to date other women in their workplace/social circle. These men have ladies all over them, they do not need to hire some low class sugar baby pr*st*tute in order to get some female attention :)

  • This Guy

    This Guy

    Πριν μήνα

    @Larissa Luxe I know many successful men that pull lots of women. They don't spend any money on broke sugar babies (pr*stit*tes basically) that are desperately seeking a provider to rescue them lmao. These are high value men dating multiple hotties without ever spending a penny. I know for a fact they stay faar away from cheap broke females looking for free stuff 😂😂😂

  • Dieu Cao

    Dieu Cao

    Πριν μήνα

    @Larissa Luxe "high five". Only losers trying to find successful women to lean on because those men have a big part of feminism inside and don't want to spend a cent, because they can easily get broke after that 🤣🤣🤣. I find interesting to talk with those "feminist boys". They teach me, how lucky I am.

  • Wendy Wendy
    Wendy WendyΠριν μήνα

    Excuse yourself to the toilet so it will nòt be awkward feel uneasy.

  • Anne Marie
    Anne MarieΠριν μήνα

    I just was wondering: if a man proposes to take me to a restaurant, hoping to go further in a relationship with me...suppose I am not ready for this kind of relationship with him...If I let him pay, he can conclude that I agree with that...How can I avoid to feel gulty in such a situation? In my opinion, if I consent to be invited by a man, I should have to be ok to give him a chance...what happens if I’m not sure to like him ?...what do you think about it?

  • Larissa Luxe

    Larissa Luxe

    Πριν μήνα

    You ladies really need to love yourselves more and get high self esteem. Why would you feel guilty? It means you think you do not deserve it. Why is this? Maybe watch videos on confidence etc.

  • Zainab Hijazi
    Zainab HijaziΠριν μήνα

    I LOVE THIS

  • Kai Palmer
    Kai PalmerΠριν μήνα

    What if you force him to go out with you on a date or something. Does that mean you pay the whole bill, because from what you are saying, that is fare

  • Jewelnvrmnd
    JewelnvrmndΠριν μήνα

    about this part of setting things from the beggining of the relationship: IT IS SO TRUE! By my experience, i used to "try to be nice", and show that i could "treat him too sometimes" and what happens is that after a while (sometimes more, sometimes less time) men simply forget they must treat you. They get used so easily that everything is 50/50 that they start no to 100% anything unless you ask! It is not because they dont value you. It is just because every human being get use to what is best for them. Period. So follow this video tips, to avoid really uncomfortable situations.

  • Sama Ashleigh
    Sama AshleighΠριν μήνα

    Additional: Assuming you're dating a foreigner in your country, Don't help ask for the receipt .... i am telling you it sends the same vibe ❤️ be patient and let him be in control

  • DemJem
    DemJemΠριν μήνα

    I'd love to be more feminine but I have this thing inside me that makes me feel im rude when I don't offer 50/50. Welp guess that's gotta change lol

  • Anoosheh Kalantari
    Anoosheh KalantariΠριν μήνα

    I love you ! Keep up the amazing channel because we are losing the best values we had and replacing them with vulgarity and tackiness

  • Dalía
    DalíaΠριν μήνα

    I’ve got a question: what about if I invite my girl friend out or she invites me? Does paying for another female still count as a masculine activity?

  • Dalía

    Dalía

    Πριν μήνα

    @Abi 43 thank you!

  • Abi 43

    Abi 43

    Πριν μήνα

    Well, technically talking, she's not your girlfriend, so you can split the bill I guess

  • MANGOZZZ
    MANGOZZZΠριν μήνα

    Damn that woman deserves to be on a hall of fame!!!

  • Tamara S
    Tamara SΠριν μήνα

    I asked to split the bill and the guy was like “you sure?” I said yeah it’s fine. He was very surprised and laughed and said “when a woman offers to split the bill it means that she doesn’t like the guy” I said oh I didn’t know that. I just thought it was fair to split. Now I think I messed up. He’s cool but his comment kinda turned me off. But now I’m thinking I should have let him pay.

  • Larissa Luxe

    Larissa Luxe

    Πριν μήνα

    Don’t ever pay. It’s desperate.

  • Yan Liang
    Yan LiangΠριν μήνα

    Women: “Pay if you want a date”

  • This Guy

    This Guy

    Πριν μήνα

    Yes, if you are a sugar baby. LOL

  • MikeZinAcoma
    MikeZinAcomaΠριν μήνα

    This kind of mentallity is harmful to yourself and others, when you are only a woman who has no value, you should not have any right to someones fortune especially when you do not recipricate any value to the relationship.

  • This Guy

    This Guy

    Πριν μήνα

    @It’sMicha Milennia Asking a girl out is fine, but he needs to make sure he isn't feeding some cheap broke female looking for free meals (seems to be the majority of women on this page).

  • Sel Nurum
    Sel NurumΠριν μήνα

    well,I have a story. When I was student at university, I met the man who was tall,strong ,handsome. So, first time we talked it happened face to face. We talked and we just a for a walk. So , I didn't see any problem for that ,we were so young ,both of us were student, and it was for the first time we met. However, next meeting he didn't pay also. he didn't took me any resturant or coffeeshop. We again walked. even we went to the mall and sit there everyone was eating and we talk then moved. I felt so awkward. I needed to withdraw my stipendation from machine.I excuse and said him to wait me a bit. But he come and stand to by my side when I was taking my money then he told me that, wow, you get the money now let's offer me a coffee. I was just a shock . for the first time it happened to me I didn' t know what is the proper way for acting. so , I didn't wanna look that it is a big deal. But It was. I bought a coffee, and even he share me his problems,I listened so nicely

  • Diananas

    Diananas

    Πριν μήνα

    Horrible !

  • Michael Thibeault
    Michael ThibeaultΠριν 2 μήνες

    Funny how all guys looking at this intro are thinking.... where can I find this first lady at the table who offered to pay. She is the keeper.

  • Sandy Allsopp
    Sandy AllsoppΠριν 2 μήνες

    It is not about men or women paying, it is simply who invited who. Maybe a very rich woman invites a poor guy for dinner, should he pay?

  • Lin Lin

    Lin Lin

    Πριν μήνα

    @Sandy Allsopp OMG dont cook for a man. You should not playing wifey nor you should show your wifey side just to impress a man. He should be the one impressing you.

  • Sandy Allsopp

    Sandy Allsopp

    Πριν μήνα

    @Abi 43 I take your point that it might be embarrassing for him. I think it would be better if the woman invited him back to her home and cooked him dinner. This way he would also find out if she can cook and keeps a tidy house.

  • Abi 43

    Abi 43

    Πριν μήνα

    A woman should never invite a man and she should never go on a date with a man who is very poor, it will only make things very embarrassing for him, it is better for him to make money and for him TO INVITE a woman he genuinely loves and him to pay the bill

  • kiul44
    kiul44Πριν 2 μήνες

    she should pay it's that simple. man is the prize.

  • kiul44

    kiul44

    Πριν μήνα

    @Abi 43 for a blue pilled man you would be right as for those who are red pilled.. not so much; o )

  • Abi 43

    Abi 43

    Πριν μήνα

    Since when are men the prize? It was always the other way around lol

  • Kamila Kamila
    Kamila KamilaΠριν 2 μήνες

    If you live with a guy, do you share the costs of living? If so, which cost you're sharing? Rent? Grocery?

  • Al Kian
    Al KianΠριν 2 μήνες

    i will often pay for a first date but if a girl doesn't at least offer to split, that's a red flag and i won't be seeing her again. this dated idea that a man has to pay because he asks a girl out is wrong because casual dating is about spending time with someone and enjoying their company, not buying them whatever they like. treating someone is never an obligation. if you want to leave a good impression, be considerate and offer to split.

  • Pamela Johnson
    Pamela JohnsonΠριν 2 μήνες

    I love your lace dress

  • Vive Hoy
    Vive HoyΠριν 2 μήνες

    If you want a stable and long relationship ladys, you have to work to accomplish your own dreams remember nothing is forever. There is a lot gentlemen at there who want a independence woman even they pay the majority of bill. Nobody is a money machine dont be selfish. Some women believe man have to pay her everything even if she make more money them him that is embarrassing.

  • Selina Y
    Selina YΠριν 2 μήνες

    I just got out of another “first meeting up”with this guy who works in finance. We went to dinner. Everything was so far so good, he suggested to go somewhere else for dessert and I agreed UNTIL he got a nerve to ask me to split a $64 bill(it’s Manhattan, NYC). I also agreed, FINE 😡. He offered to to get dessert again and walked me to the train. I said I was now too full and too cold for ice cream, and okay to walk by myself. 🤬🤬🤬 He actually suggested to meet one hour earlier so he could take advantage of the happy hours of the place, yes even for 30 minutes 😖

  • This Guy

    This Guy

    Πριν μήνα

    He treated you exactly what you are worth. I don't see what he did wrong. If you are looking for a sugar daddy, then you should have been upfront with him LOL. Just fyi, women earn the same as men in liberal places like NYC. If you don't pay your share, you will simply be replaced by a woman who will. I am also from NYC, and I never pay for women.

  • Samsconfessions
    SamsconfessionsΠριν 2 μήνες

    I was so disgusted by a boy who I explained I would be late and expected me to pay for the whole date . 😂 Blocked .

  • Kathrin Schwarzbach
    Kathrin SchwarzbachΠριν 2 μήνες

    When i am going to a dinner with a man, and its time to pay the bill, i am always heading to the rest room....

  • sofia morales
    sofia moralesΠριν 2 μήνες

    Once in a date at the very start he said to the waiter that the bill would be split. What should I do in that kind of situation?

  • This Guy

    This Guy

    Πριν μήνα

    @It’sMicha Milennia A date cannot be a waste of time. It is a necessary step for a man to figure out if it's a high value female or a desperate broke female with a hungry belly. Him splitting the bill right at the beginning sends a clear message to the woman that he isn't desperate, and that he's not there to play games. More and more men are waking up!

  • This Guy

    This Guy

    Πριν μήνα

    He did that to protect himself. He doesn't want to waste his time on a cheap broke female looking for free meals lol.

  • Selina Y

    Selina Y

    Πριν 2 μήνες

    Say it in fronted the waiter “oh, I’m sorry. With your invitation, I thought it was a date.” Get up and leave.

  • Raluca Ganga
    Raluca GangaΠριν 2 μήνες

    Maybe I am not a classy lady like most of the women commenting here, but I do think women should pay 50% of the time. I have also offered to pay for a guy just to make him feel nice even on a first date. I fail to see why not - equality of sexes doesn’t only have perks, it comes with responsibilities as well. How do you think men feel when on one end women cry for equality in everything and “breaking glass ceilings” and on the other enc still expect chivalry and being treated like princesses? It’s mixed messages if you ask me. And if you want men wanting to pay for you, that’s fine, just don’t judge us women who want to do something else for a change.

  • Diananas

    Diananas

    Πριν μήνα

    If you want the reasonable reason : because women earn less and have to spend more money. If you want the irrational one : it’s just more seductive when the man acts like a man. Attractivity doesn’t care with equality

  • RC T.
    RC T.Πριν 2 μήνες

    "We don't really care of whats going on in his head..." 😂 love that

  • Ezra aloyevielara
    Ezra aloyevielaraΠριν 2 μήνες

    I always pay for mine and he pay his.

  • Ezra aloyevielara

    Ezra aloyevielara

    Πριν μήνα

    @Te Thats very much like a housewife material who is very dependant. thats not what I want.

  • Te

    Te

    Πριν μήνα

    @Ezra aloyevielara 99% of comments think otherwise. You're an anamoly. Good luck being pickmeisha. Women are waking up.

  • Ezra aloyevielara

    Ezra aloyevielara

    Πριν μήνα

    @Te why? It’s the right thing to do.

  • Te

    Te

    Πριν μήνα

    youre not valuing yourself enough.

  • Unde Derayda
    Unde DeraydaΠριν 2 μήνες

    I find this attitude vulgar. And you, madame, come across as inauthentic and rigid. Nothing sexy about that.

  • Kel de Almeida
    Kel de AlmeidaΠριν 2 μήνες

    I love your teachings! Thank you so much! 💗

  • Marry B
    Marry BΠριν 2 μήνες

    My husband and I both share joint account. Whenever we go on dates he pays. I always thank him for a great time.

  • Jessika E.
    Jessika E.Πριν 2 μήνες

    I'm so grateful for this video! Now it is clair as light!

  • Ralitza
    RalitzaΠριν 2 μήνες

    First date, man ALWAYS pays. After that you may take turns or he may keep paying. Depends!

  • sumaih
    sumaihΠριν 2 μήνες

    What about if it's our first time to meet , and we both really wanted to go to coffee shop or something what i should do?

  • Sarah McKee
    Sarah McKeeΠριν 2 μήνες

    Truth !!! I mean, if he can't even provide a plate of food for a date he suggested - then what is the point?

  • Nathalie Smyth
    Nathalie SmythΠριν 2 μήνες

    My ex had me paying for everything by pulling the oh I’m not earning much at the min etc cards, to the point where it just became the norm for me to pay . This video has made me realised how dumb I was !!

  • siegward of catarina

    siegward of catarina

    Πριν 21 ημέρα

    So ur ex was a leech I hope you dont make the same mistake as them

  • Mooi Jahning
    Mooi JahningΠριν 2 μήνες

    I had this date with a successful businesss man. He was the one invited and chose the place, was one of the most expensive in town. He started order everything and ended up the bills reached around usd 500 something. Then when the bill came, he was busy in the toilete and took a very long time. I was already feeling something wrong. Then the cashier came, and he didn't do anything just checking the phone. Then I had to tell the cashier ok split! Then he looked happy and started taking out his wallet. O my god, date from hell.

  • Mooi Jahning

    Mooi Jahning

    Πριν μήνα

    @It’sMicha Milennia it happened so fast and I felt embarassed with the cashier, he kept looking at us, just put on my dignity. Now I will ask first if a guy ask me for a date "hey the restaurant you chose is pretty pricey though, i don't have that budget to spend". 😅. Then we will know his answer 😊

  • Mooi Jahning

    Mooi Jahning

    Πριν 2 μήνες

    @Xancevoyz no way I did not order anything just water..he was the one choosing the restaurant and the food. Read again my story "he started order everything"

  • Philip Butler
    Philip ButlerΠριν 2 μήνες

    Hope you enjoy being alone. So what do Lesbians do? You want equality but you don't want to pay for your meal? You actually want all the benefits without any of the responsibility. Doesn't sound like equality.

  • Diananas

    Diananas

    Πριν μήνα

    @Philip Butler What ?! I absolutely don't care, there's no link with the topic of the video

  • Philip Butler

    Philip Butler

    Πριν μήνα

    @Diananas Well aren't they your fellow sisters? Don't you care about your fellow women?

  • Diananas

    Diananas

    Πριν μήνα

    @Philip Butler we don’t care how lesbians do,they do what they wan

  • Philip Butler

    Philip Butler

    Πριν 2 μήνες

    @Kitty Don't date men who expect you to pay for your own meal. Tell me where equality equals men paying for you?

  • A P
    A PΠριν 2 μήνες

    One sick guy was forcing me to pay on 1st invite to a place of ‘his’ choice, telling me that he’s never paid for any girl on a date. He even called out the restaurant manager. What should I have done?

  • lilly roon
    lilly roonΠριν 2 μήνες

    In Bulgaria the men do pay, but then they expect you to sleep with them, because they paid the dinner 😒🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️

  • Vee Kay
    Vee KayΠριν 2 μήνες

    Ladies, if you work you should contribute to bills. The tradition of men providing predates the right of women to work. So if you choose to work, you shouldn't claim to be "traditional" on bills. That's trying to have your cake and eat it too!

  • Vee Kay

    Vee Kay

    Πριν 2 μήνες

    @Kitty I didn't harass anyone.

  • Belle Bella
    Belle BellaΠριν 2 μήνες

    If you’re from the Netherlands, like me, you cant really apply this. Most men will expect you to pay 50% of the bill... some married couples do that when it comes to everything! so happy I moved abroad 😄

  • Maria Hossain
    Maria HossainΠριν 2 μήνες

    Omg! I'm new to your channel this is 4th video that I'm watching of yours. And I'm in live with you after watching this video. It really helped me to get out of dilemma. Thank you so much. Love ya!

  • ronald fitzsimmons
    ronald fitzsimmonsΠριν 2 μήνες

    As a single man i eat out alone , afder listening to this women i think i will continue. Ps men have wallets women have a purse Some coach you are?

  • Piotr Miszczak
    Piotr MiszczakΠριν 2 μήνες

    Go to Iceland

  • / Anu /
    / Anu /Πριν 2 μήνες

    So... Should I not even *offer* to pay?!

  • Abi 43

    Abi 43

    Πριν μήνα

    @ShinySilverBunny ugh no! Even in homosexual relationships there should be a provider, I mean, there is always someone who does more, why should that person also pay the bills?

  • Abi 43

    Abi 43

    Πριν μήνα

    No, don't even try

  • ShinySilverBunny

    ShinySilverBunny

    Πριν 2 μήνες

    @Lovely nah he's trolling so I trolled him back 🤣.. you sound like a PickMe Chick.

  • ShinySilverBunny

    ShinySilverBunny

    Πριν 2 μήνες

    @Alex Sorenson if you want a date to go 50/50 then maybe you should be dating men 🤭🤣

  • Alex Sorenson

    Alex Sorenson

    Πριν 2 μήνες

    If you want an abusive relationship with someone who resents you for not treating him as an equal then yes don't offer to pay.

  • Amra M.
    Amra M.Πριν 2 μήνες

    I also believe that we women caused this situation by not raising good men. Mothers spend most of the time with children. We cannot expect that they will learn this when they are fully grown. They have to see their father pay or uncle or any male rolemodel figure... we need to talk about it with our children

  • Amra M.
    Amra M.Πριν 2 μήνες

    Being a muslim, this is not strange for me. In Islam a man must provide for his woman and if she works, he is not allowed to touch or even ask how much she earns. My husband and I have had financial problems in the past and had to cooperate together to get out of that situation, but now when things are really good, he is providing for us and his parents. We have a son and I am going to teach him from the very early age how to treat women. I love your channel dear. Keep up the good work. 😙 greetings from Germany

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