One of your best videos Anna! To be a smart Woman that can stand in any test of time.

Reasonable, pragmatic, down to earth, wise approach. When beaty is smart.

God I love u so much....ur like a bigger sis to me

My family don't allow me to do any type of job, they don't give me money and also they don't let me go out... I'm 20 ,single, no relationship, no job... Nothing.. I'm totally broke.. Anna plz give me some suggestions...!! 😭

Buy house....

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in a long relationship, i always have my own savings account and my own income even my partner earned enough money and pays everything, thats important for me.

interesting insights

It was me a few years ago, I couldn't leave because of material reasons and it was the worst trap I put myself into, I had to go into nowhere with nothing but it was the best decision I made. Now I'm single and independent and I save and invest, and invest in my education and advancing in my career. I feel so free and so in control of my life. Ladies, please listen to Anna! ❤️❤️❤️

Adore you, Anna, I'm a huge fan, watched all your videos and you're so much alike to my mom. Love your advice and thank you for all the hard work you put into making your content possible, it's not only informative but really interesting and homely.

Ana, you are so right. Having savings in the bank account is not only plan B, it also gives a psychological reassurance that shall things get bad and separation is inevitable, you are not trapped.

My problem is more of draining my savings WHILE DATING BROKE GUYS 😅 I'm the Sugar Mother, help!!!!

What I have noticed on the dating scene; ladies with no savings act out of desperation, as oppossed to ladies with savings that act out of expectations.

I wonder what men think of when they see this video

Thanks for your strategies in negotiation and relationship Anna. Thats why education matters to men and women who want true guinuine love

Thank you. It’s so important!

this is for feminists and women who say she isn't empowering or she promotes women to depend on men

Thank you so much Anna, you have inspired me!

You are right: if we gave him our whole, and yet he left us, he's better at least provide us with something we can redeem our suffering with.

LOLLLLLL Nikki for the winnnnnn yasssss this was too funny!!! You killed that challenge too sis!!

Thank you.

I love this woman

I wish some one helped with my uni i couldnt get a loan and had to leave uk too uni. This borhers me alot as i even worked hard but couldnt pay. Imagine now if i had a proper man who helped me i would have be more successful rather than now have to start again

I'm not gonna get married until I get financially independent and secured 😊

Thanks Anna; I will be an elegant lady for sure.

You are a very good motivational speaker

Both my dad and mother worked, she earned less (obviously) but she helped to pay some bills whilst my father covered everything else. Nevertheless, he did not have a healthy relationship with money (he grew up poor) and it was often stingy with my mother and us yet we had everything we needed. One day my father had a stroke and it was the end, he was handicap for life and became as dependant as a 7 year old. We had to take care of him. My mother had to work double for a miserable salary and we survived with my father's pension and my mother's salary. We are three siblings. I had to start working at 14, never dropped out but I had to push back university one more year because there was not enough income. My mother had to learn how to write a check, and everything else about household management because my father never let her to do anything in that department. LADIES, financial dependence can ruin your life, and your children's. Also, I have experience working with all kinds of domestic violence (rich and poor). I can tell you that there is no need for a man to beat you or be physically agressive to end up controlling your life and being abusive. From all the cases that I lead, I can tell you that financial co-dependancy was the number ONE CAUSE of abuse, either physical or psychological, no mattered what your education was. I agree with Anna, you should never depend, but take it seriously.

Very good advice. Reminds me of the Born Yesterday movie with Melanie Griffith. Just cause he's rich doesn't mean she has to be dumb and dependant!

You are a miracle that just happened to me, you should have happened to me earlier but it is not late to start all over again. I am a divorced mother of two young teenage boys. My kids and I escaped a violent Marriage without any money or savings. I worked hard to get a law degree, paid my Way through law school and started my small practice. Didn't save much. I sold my office and got a government job that I am yet to receive salary for 1and half years now. Thank you for pointing out where I got it all wrong.

Thank you, thank you, thank you🙏🏽

My grandfather was an affluent man. He sadly passed away in his fifties and may widow grand mather had to struggle to survive after being robbed by her own cousin. She told me later: "you should always own two properties on your own. One for living and one for renting." I made that my goal to achieve when I was single and now I thank my mother so much! Even though my husband has a good job and can provide for me, I have my own money to rely on. I feel free to stay with him for love and not for money and in case of an emergency, I have something to back me up.

You cannot enter the working market at an age of 50 or more after having been financially dependent a whole life. And how achieve the savings if you don't work? Stealing money from your husband? Your advice is nice but often a little bit out of reality Anna

Ursula Müller

Πριν 7 μήνες

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Oscar Williamson

Πριν 7 μήνες

Ursula Muller, you're so beautiful 💓💓💓💓❤and I will be glad to know you

Anna, everything you said in this video is so true. I know a woman, who was married to a wealthy man, but when she learned he had a lover and decided to divorce him, he cut off all financing and she was left moneyless, with no education, no job experience, even no valuable things to sell. She realized how stupid she was, not having made use of the money she had then, not having saved some money or bought something that could be sold. Please, ladies, don't be like this, think about the future!

Dear Anna thank you for making these videos! 💜💜🌷🙏I think your lessons are very wise when it comes to relationships between a man and a woman. Even though we might not want to talk that honestly about relationships between men and women, in the liberal western world, a household or a marriage has the function of a business, wether we like it or not. Love is importan, but one can not simply live on love alone. It is not wrong for a woman to wish to spend her life with a man that can help financially with the household. If the woman is the sole provider and breadwinner then she often also takes on ALL the social work/reproduction after work hours. This means the woman will work 24/7. A woman doing ALL the work is not feminist lifestyle, eventhough surely she can. A real feminst aknowledge the importance of both salarywork and social reproduction.

I wish I saw this video as soon as it was released then maybe I would be a little happier during this pandemic time. Or at least would not be worried about my rent. Thanks anyway, and now we know that Anna can predict some parts of future :)

University, a career, and capturing a really rich guy. All in your 20 ! Oh save!

Oscar Williamson

Πριν 7 μήνες

Amie Vaughan, you're so beautiful 💓💓💓💓❤

You are very right.. even if the man can provide for a woman, always be prepared .

I agree girls being Elagant it doesn’t man run after a millionaire

In my opinion this is your best video, Anna! You are pretty smart woman and I would like to thank you for sharing your wisdom and experience with us - your elegant ladies 🌸🦋 Please make more videos like this one! It is so valuable for our life ✨

You are giving amazing advice 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻!!! Aloha from Hawaii

"Your savings are what's going to give you freedom in life." So true.

I haven't noticed you talking about the importance of getting married in your videos. If the man is ready to marry you, it shows that he is really ready to commit, and less likely to dump you. I hope you are married, Anna.

even if a woman has an education and work experience, if she is at home for 10 years for example, it is not easy to get a job without re-education. You live in a nordic country as well, you know this...bags aren't going to take you very far

This is your best video recommendation by far.

its 2020 be independent and strong

This hair and makeup look is amazing on you. Very Grace Kelly! I 100% agree with you, as women we should never depend on a man financially, we should expect him to add to us, we should always maintain our financial autonomy (which also means NOT going 50/50!)

There is no free ride isn’t it ?

I just wanted to leave this comment here to say: where have you've been all my life? You're really changing my mindset. Reaffirming so many things I think were true but got lost and confused by different speeches that tell you not to believe in the value of women. I'm a very big fan of you. I will keep nurturing myself with your wisdom. Thanks for your existence

Forget about an expensive handbag. Get tuition or equivalent ( equipment to start a business, etc) at very least get contacts and contracts.

I'm glad you made this video, you are awesome Anna. I think what drives people away is them jumping to conclusions, and you are bringing them back in. Thank you

Get a baby by him. Claim child support. Or divorce him and take half pluss alimony.

Even when you have a rich spouse you should always have a side hustle that contributes to your financial well being and makes you a more interesting life partner and gives you something interesting to talk to friends. Careful about planning on hocking jewelry and stuff since it’s hard to actually get your money out of it. Best to invest in yourself to improve your education and side hustle. Great video.

I would also add (which you touched on in another video) that the lady should be working (maybe just part time) while she is dating or married. (Run from the guy that says he doesn't want you to work - send romantic but I've seen to many horror stories with my personal friends) spend his money, save yours!

So needed! I'm glad you're honest enough to say these things, the smart ladies will pay attention

Anna , please make more videos like this of financial survival at every point of your life , I'm 18 I know very young but I admire you and like you very much , love from India 😚😚😚

I don’t hv a rich boyfriend to begin with .. so regardless *I’m on my own* 🤷🏻‍♀️

Worked for 15 years straight after college then got married had a kid never went back -have been on this track for a very long time due to what works best for us. The crazy thing though I can see through my child is this will switch up in about 20 years. The GIRLS are getting all of the attention and resources. They have the opportunities -our little boys are lagging behind. It will be interesting to see how this unfolds.

I love you dear

Anna, you are very young and very, very smart. All you say makes perfect sense. I love all your advice!

I m a middle class house wife from pakistan but your videos really effects on my personality and thoughts.thank you dear

Anna you are just wise and wonderful woman. 💙🌈💙

Anna you spoke to me like my 91 year old grandmother! You know what your talking about and what you're doing and I admire that as a woman

I have a stellar education, I worked for years & was at the top of my field. I had savings & then I had an accident & my savings went in medical bills - even though I have top level insurance. I cannot get a job because no insurance company will insure me. As a result of this, I’m stuck in a loveless & mentally abusive marriage. You can have all of your boxes ticked & still lose everything. 😔😔😔

Metal Guru

Πριν 9 μήνες

That's horrible! Thank you for sharing your story... I hope happines finds you and you can leave your marrige eventually. Stay strong!

Anna is like the mother, sister & good female friends that i never had in my life! Thank you for wording this so perfectly to open my eyes. I can relate to how miserable being a lock down woman is and i always thought to just wait and see, let time pass but that is the wrong mentality. After watching this i now know what i should do for myself so that i can protect and improve myself to attain a better financial position for my future. Thank you Anna for sharing your knowledge💗

Agreed

This is so true!

Always be smarter. That's the only way to be in power. Take your jewelry to an expert before leaving your Man. Some Men have their wife's rocks switched for low values gems. In case they ask for divorce.

My mom's friend was married to a rich Man. He wouldn't give her cash. Only buy her expensive clothing. She used to sell the clothes for her friends and hide the money from her husband lol. With her little "store" I was able to dress well with my first job incomes. 😂😂😂

If you are the one who wishes to break up, I would love to see a video on an exit-strategy on how to not alienate your new contacts, what if he demands all his gifts back etc. How do you handle yourself elegantly if you need to break up with a 'sophisticated' man who does not accept the breakup graciously and tries perhaps to smear your name/reputation?

Wow all younger woman need this channel in there life

This is not only true for women who want to find an affluent man - quite honestly, women who date rich man usually always fall back on their feet, cause they are strategic and very aware of situation - But how many middle class families are still based on 'men provider and a stay at home mom'? One of the biggest reasons for continuous domestic abuse is the fact that women are financially dependant on a man, and can't run away, especially not with children, so they have to stay and suffer. Not only should our black scenario be ''what if he dumps me'' but ''what if he turns to be abusive and I must leave?''.

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true. I was rely on my man until he broke and brexit crisis happened and he fired. now we both stressing because our money source is from him and I'm an expat here and I didn't have any education or experience before! asian women who marry caucasian foreign guy understand this situation

If he cheats, do you take him back?

Love love love this 💖💖💖

My question for Anna and all the ladies with a provider husband/boyfriend is that: Would you leave your boyfriend/husband if one day he can not provide for you anymore because he lost his job or he got serious sick or got an accident and can't work anymore or would you stay and take care of him?

This ties in with the concept of Financial Independence ... invest wisely, as much as you can, then live off the dividends and interest, not touching the principal. Most FI people are not affluent, but they are very content with what they have - which is affluence of a different sort. 10 years ago, after 20+ years of having a man provide, I lost almost everything except my kids and the bills ... it took me a long time to recover. Today, I thought about that, as I sat in the executive lounge in the skyscraper where I work. If I had a solid backup plan, if I kept my work experience current and had more savings, maybe it wouldn't have taken 10 years. Though I'm happy where I am now.

Best Video at all! Thanx a lot, Lady.

I’ll definitely share this with both my son and my daughter. It reiterates what I tell them about saving and the importance of being self efficient.

I am glad I am covered in regards to education and experience. Just working on actually building my savings.

It’s too hard to resell things. Must make own money.

People change. That darling sweet man could become dr jerkle and MR. Hyde when married. We are not mind readers or fortune tellers so don’t blame yourself it all crazy.

Ask your man for money that will not cost him a dime! In the US, he can give you a tax free gift of $14,000 a year. Do not squander the money on daquiris with your girlfriends. Use $10, 000 of the money as a downpayment to Buy a cheap house and rent it out. Contact me, I can help you invest in Real Estate. If the relationship ends, you can move into the house with a roomate. Don't worry if all you can afford is a bad side of town! Chose a bad neighborhood that is going to improve!

More topics like this, please. Thank you!

Fabulous advice! Education, experience, and... Save, save, save!

Oscar Williamson

Πριν 7 μήνες

Carableu, you're absolutely gorgeous 💓💓💓💓💓💓❤❤💓💓💓💓and I will be glad to know you

Answer: work

This one is a great one... works for almost anyone besides women seeking for a luxuriously life style. These point can be taken by even a homemaker or a career women....

Girls, just have a career and depend on yourself. Men shouldn't be expected to pay for you. Are you serious? Does everyone here just want to marry rich and do nothing? Such an empty life......

Darling you are doing well intented advice / guidance to all women around the world. As a wife of a Narcissist man for 34 years , in a country with leaning on your husband as provider the result is the same as you are mentioned in this video , actually more negatively if he is getting affluent after years of using and abusing your resources. Keep shining your light, be BLESSED. 🙏🙌🎆🎄

Love your outfit. Where is it from

Having some form of savings is a good idea, but something to keep in mind: money invested in handbags or a savings account will not significantly grow. Make your money work for you by learning how to invest wisely. For example, if you invested $500 a month in a good mutual fund with decent return interest rate, you will have between 1-5 million dollars in 30 years!

Oscar Williamson

Πριν 7 μήνες

Brandy Hurd, you're absolutely gorgeous 💓💓💓💓❤

Buying things with a good resell value is such good advice, I never heard of Patek Phillipe watches, thanks Anna

Always wondering, who's giving dislikes to this wonderful, young, pretty lady?

Thank you Anna. I love that topic.

This video is accurate :)

That's the most realistic video ever

On the Romanian market, u’d also have a high resell value✨🍸

Just watched this and bumped into this video accidentally. This is all true and very helpful. Thank you!

I was a little nervous clicking on this video, I thought maybe she was going to give some advice on getting a good divorce settlement or something haha. SO glad she gave such good advice! Love this channel!

I am 48 and dated an affluent man that taught me so much! I agree with what you are saying. Maybe speak about how to benefit from using credit cards? I am.waking up late ladies! Dont be me.

Oscar Williamson

Πριν 7 μήνες

The mentality of mindset, you're absolutely gorgeous 💓💓💓💓❤❤🌹🌹🌹and I will be glad to know you