Elegance - You're Doing It Wrong!

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Can you be elegant without being old-fashioned and boring? In this video, you'll find out about common misconceptions about elegance so that you can become the best elegant version of yourself.
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  • irmalair1
    irmalair1Πριν 8 ημέρες

    Sex is not a public action, therefore sexuality or sexual energy is not something you want to be "representing" on a daily basis every single freaking day with every single freaking person, that's all! 🤗🤗

  • 그리
    그리Πριν 9 ημέρες

    zoom in and zoom outs, pls be gone. i cant watch properly.

  • Rahima Coro
    Rahima CoroΠριν 11 ημέρες


  • Sara Kjeldsen
    Sara KjeldsenΠριν 12 ημέρες

    To be fair, I think you need to have some snobbiness about you when it comes to men, because if you're pretty and "too nice" at the same time, the players will eat you alive (or try). Maybe snobby is the wrong word. What I mean is it's important that you act like you're on the level that you're at. Great video! Thank you. :)

  • Daisy June
    Daisy JuneΠριν 12 ημέρες

    Men need to act like men and stop being soy boys.


    full watch... stay connected

  • Sladjana Simic
    Sladjana SimicΠριν 12 ημέρες

    One thing I really don't like are these sport shoes. I would never ever wear them an less when is time for exercise.

  • patty toscano
    patty toscanoΠριν 12 ημέρες

    In my humble opinion. Some good advice, some not so good. If the goal isn't marriage, then you are an "elegant" woman with a live in boyfriend, and for most people without a commitment, or just another woman that is sleeping around. It is not elegant to have children out of wedlock, or to have an abortion. A truly elegant woman wants to meet a man that loves her, and makes a lifetime commitment, therefore you shouldn't by slyly seducing a man into a physical relationship.

  • Jesjo Sunga
    Jesjo SungaΠριν 12 ημέρες

    Im not rich nur poor, but everytime i watched your videos, i feel elegant on my own, thank you love from philippines

  • Lindy Sellers' Diary of Domesticity
    Lindy Sellers' Diary of DomesticityΠριν 12 ημέρες

    Great message, Anna! I can’t wait to take the next round of your finishing school.🦋

  • Doris W
    Doris WΠριν 24 ημέρες

    This video would be much more impactful if you revealed a little bit more of your fun side! I would love to see that, at least for a little bit for inspiration.

  • Yvette Hellou
    Yvette HellouΠριν 28 ημέρες

    1:37 I did not see that coming🤣

  • Claudia Martinez Mullen
    Claudia Martinez MullenΠριν μήνα

    Hello Anna, your words in this video are really wise and empowering. I felt identified with your last words. I live in a small town in South Africa, and all what you see is poverty, lack of self stem, unemployment, crime, and people look in general are defeated. So, since I live here I was progressively following what everybody do. I am from Buenos Aires and you can find very elegant people on the streets there and I used to try being elegant too. The point is: how to become elegant in a town in where the majority people are poor, where there is very few shops and all of them are targeting mass consumption style. There is a huge difference between Geneve, Berlin, Praga, Moscow and the place in which I am living. What kind of advice you can offer in this regard? I will really appreciate your answer.

  • Unolow Manta

    Unolow Manta

    Πριν 12 ημέρες

    Hi Claudia, I also live in a small town in South Africa and I know what you talking about. It really wouldn't make a difference if you dressed up elegantly when you running your errands, because above reasons that you mentioned. But you can still dress elegantly, if you going to eat in a nice restaurant or maybe enroll in a high end sports club if there's any in your area , go to events happening in your area. You can also spoil your self and take care of your skin and body so you can shine without much effort. Eat right. If you can afford visit beauty parlor for your face, hair and nails. All that really does make you glow and feel heavenly and trust me if you take care of yourself, your hygiene, body people will notice without wearing expensive designer clothes or jewelry! I hope you the best 😊

  • keerthy Murthy
    keerthy MurthyΠριν μήνα

    It gives clarity

  • Nrithya Neelamma
    Nrithya NeelammaΠριν μήνα

    In my opinion everything depends on how we take things and how we carry ourselves. Just be confident and just bring out the best in you always

  • / Anu /
    / Anu /Πριν 2 μήνες

    Can you make a video teaching us the elegant mistakes women make while taking a photo?

  • Doreen Lane
    Doreen LaneΠριν 2 μήνες

    An elegant lady is not easy and is not loose.

  • Monica Garner
    Monica GarnerΠριν 2 μήνες

    Hi Anna! Do we have a video on what to dress when you travel? And even the way your toes and your hands look tell if you are elegant or not. Can you make a video about that? The right length and color is important to look classy and elegant, no? Thanks my elegant teacher!! 😍

  • Anna R0d
    Anna R0dΠριν 2 μήνες

    Что- то мне подсказывает, что Вы русская

  • Joveria Rashif
    Joveria RashifΠριν 2 μήνες

    U look beautiful in this color 😍😍😍😍

  • sarah Al Hares
    sarah Al HaresΠριν 2 μήνες

    I like the last part when you mention it is not about your background, it is about you! Have a style and own it 💜 sums it all 🙏

  • J Day
    J DayΠριν 2 μήνες

    “Elegance is not tied to economy, background, race, who you are, who you are, where you live, what you look like..” needed to hear that!

  • KGS
    KGSΠριν 2 μήνες

    Not related to the video, but I LOVE that dress! Sooo cute, and that shade of blue is gorgeous and looks fabulous on you. I’ve always loved polka dots.

  • Benita S
    Benita SΠριν 3 μήνες

    Anna, I'm so happy to have found your channel! I wish there was more material/content about elegance, class, femininity... I used to be into the "I do what I want" energy, I thought femininity was something negative that belongs in the past. Like you mentioned, my family and environment were never "elegant" or rich, but when I started working on myself, I just feel so much better. I feel more confident, and definitely VERY EMPOWERED!

  • Stephanie Jane Leavy
    Stephanie Jane LeavyΠριν 3 μήνες

    When I see this women like I literally picture her with a different shade of eyebrows and beautiful deep chocolate brown hair! I feel like it would warm her up so much.. but she is absolutely beautiful as she is. It’s just how I would style her if I were Tyra Banks or something haha 💗

  • Gohr
    GohrΠριν 3 μήνες

    Thank you for putting out your experience, and your thoughts. Tack så mycket.😀

  • franchesca r
    franchesca rΠριν 3 μήνες

    It’s crazy how drinking from a glass is “treating yourself better” weird concept I’m just avoiding dishes

  • franchesca r
    franchesca rΠριν 3 μήνες

    I’m SOOOO glad you addressed these misconceptions because they are EXACTLY what I was thinking. How can I be artsy and bold like Betsy Johnson but also the grace and presence of Phylicia Rashad ??? I feel like I’m in the middle of those two

  • Agata Dziedzic-Dean
    Agata Dziedzic-DeanΠριν 3 μήνες

    Thank you Anna! Affluent lifestyle or money never were and will be my goals in life. But the reason I like to listen to you- you are always talking about elevating yourself, becoming best version of yourself and having respect- to yourself, to everything and everybody. All that hand in hand with being who you really , truly are. These are very universal teachings. Scientific and spiritual at the same time. I hope that one day this will be common, everyday knowledge that will benefit humanity. Now let me be elegant lady living in the middle of forest, gardening and cooking for my family and community, teaching my little daughter self respect and love to the World.

  • Susan C
    Susan CΠριν 3 μήνες

    Elegance is innate. If you need to define it you are not elegant.

    MARIA RODRIGUEZΠριν 3 μήνες


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    Mark smithΠριν 3 μήνες

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  • Jennifer Restrepo
    Jennifer RestrepoΠριν 3 μήνες

    Your eyebrows look great in this video!! Love love love

  • Gorgeous Girl
    Gorgeous GirlΠριν 3 μήνες

    I am obsessed with your dresses Anna, would love if you will just mention in the description box in future videos about your dress information.

  • Nicole Roden
    Nicole RodenΠριν 3 μήνες

    Thank you for making this video Anna. I have a type A personality, and now that i have been immersing myself in the feminine, elegant world on GRglo I started to feel discouraged instead of inspired. I felt so far away from the level I want to be, and that I could never measure. But this was just what I needed to hear. Making small changes everyday to improve is what matters, not perfection. ♥

  • Denisa Dellinger
    Denisa DellingerΠριν 4 μήνες

    I agree totally Anna. Even though at this point in my life I may never move in the upper social circles but I may on occasion. Elegance is a way of life that one can have in any economic stage whether low, middle or high. To raise the standard and expectation that you put on yourself shows pride in yourself. You may be teased or belittled for doing it but you have to just raise your head and move on. Be real and genuine whoever you deal with and treat everyone the same, with respect and value. Anna, I love your hair. I'm so glad you lightened it.

  • keerthy Murthy
    keerthy MurthyΠριν 4 μήνες

    Thank you anna 😍😍now I got clarification 😊😘I will start leveling up myself from now 🔥🔥🔥 in elegance...... Everyday I will do with consistent mindset to become a elegant women...... Thanks😊🌹❤ for clearing all my doubts. Love you ❤🤟

  • Fitri Indrayani
    Fitri IndrayaniΠριν 4 μήνες

    The best GRglo channel ever 👍👍

  • Pauline bergeron
    Pauline bergeronΠριν 4 μήνες

    Michelle Obama was not elegant which is why many referred to her as manly and unfeminie

  • Briana Kelley
    Briana KelleyΠριν 4 μήνες

    So true, Anna! It's so much more of an aura than what you're wearing or doing, and you actually emit the opposite when you try too hard.

  • giancolabird
    giancolabirdΠριν 5 μήνες

    It would be nice if you couod do a video about the most graceful and elegant woman of our times...Melania Trump

  • Jerusha Paul
    Jerusha PaulΠριν 5 μήνες

    Hey girl!!! You definitely have very good value and integrity base for your principles that you teach! Hats off and keep it up Dear!! My best wishes to you that you continue inspiring us and brightening our day with elevated self esteem!! 💜💕💓💗💖👍👍

  • Misha Bear
    Misha BearΠριν 5 μήνες

    elegance is an energy..... people walk away illuminated by you, they remember you

  • Laura Brown
    Laura BrownΠριν 5 μήνες

    Excellent content and well said advice.

  • Shreya Sengupta
    Shreya SenguptaΠριν 5 μήνες

    Hello Anna, I just came across your channel a few hours ago and I am hooked! I love how you explain things so well ❤️ keep it up ❤️ much love from India 🇮🇳❤️

  • Cynthia
    CynthiaΠριν 5 μήνες

    Love your videos. Giving me a better understanding on the feminine touch instead of of a masculine touch I use as my go too look. Now I have found my feminine touch thank you.🇵🇷❤️

  • Stacey Del Bucchia
    Stacey Del BucchiaΠριν 5 μήνες


  • Elizabeth Knappert
    Elizabeth KnappertΠριν 5 μήνες

    Anna Bey, You are so lovely, what a great example to all young women

  • Valerie Pilia
    Valerie PiliaΠριν 5 μήνες

    Thank you dear Anna ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐you are a real gift to us and to the world🙏

  • Lena D'Huart
    Lena D'HuartΠριν 5 μήνες

    You must be one of the most beautiful women out there nowadays

  • LoveY'allDarlings
    LoveY'allDarlingsΠριν 5 μήνες

    Thank you for clarifying this! I was wondering if I could still have my very expressive personality while still being elegant. Now I'm happy to know that I can!💕

  • yullove yullove
    yullove yulloveΠριν 5 μήνες

    Thank you for your great videos. I learn a lot from them. I loved your former eyebrows with just a little make up. They looked fantastic.

  • Narayani Ji
    Narayani JiΠριν 5 μήνες

    Hi Anna, I love all the beautiful silk dresses and silk items you have been wearing. Where do you buy them? Thanks!

  • Anastasia Umegbolu
    Anastasia UmegboluΠριν 5 μήνες

    You make me happy Anna

  • Jo
    JoΠριν 5 μήνες

    Really beautiful video. Thank you for that.

  • Kim Gordon
    Kim GordonΠριν 6 μήνες

    Obsession forces one beyond the present. We need only take action with our Best life at heart 💕 #Ana

  • Tamira Bennett Volk
    Tamira Bennett VolkΠριν 6 μήνες

    Love this! 💜💜💜 It’s against Christian religion to appear like a snob, so this is awesome that you’re telling people that you can be elegant and not be a snob.

  • Fandera Rosetto
    Fandera RosettoΠριν 6 μήνες

    Absolutely superb video. ♥️👍

  • Andres Vazquez
    Andres VazquezΠριν 6 μήνες

    My great love

  • Lena Mahayni
    Lena MahayniΠριν 6 μήνες

    Pls pls pls show us what u wear in every vlog We like to see u full length

    KAIJU MECHAΠριν 6 μήνες

    We are living in a world where we would never think homeless people are elegant, because we have very shallow culture.

  • Elina L.
    Elina L.Πριν 6 μήνες

    Constructive criticism? The editing of this otherwise elegant video is giving me a headache. 😩 The constant zoom-ins and zoom-outs are just too much and are too destructing... please, whoever is editing your videos, make it more smooth flowing. It is entirely possible for the viewer to focus on what Anna is saying without this incessant jumping. 💙

  • becomingme2
    becomingme2Πριν 6 μήνες

    She literally knows what she is talking about 🚨🌟🚨🌟

  • Muskaan Singh
    Muskaan SinghΠριν 6 μήνες

    You look gorgeous in this video 😘😍 perfect

  • R Lavender
    R LavenderΠριν 6 μήνες

    You are such an articulate, perfectly well spoken and virtuous woman.

  • allegri9cl
    allegri9clΠριν 6 μήνες

    People showing nipple is tacky.. many celebrities do it.. but id never be able to do that..

  • Mehrnoosh Sarvandi
    Mehrnoosh SarvandiΠριν 6 μήνες

    Thank you Anna for all of your videos, love you 🌹

  • teuta sadrija
    teuta sadrijaΠριν 6 μήνες

    Sehr schön 😍

  • oOEarlGreyAllDay Oo
    oOEarlGreyAllDay OoΠριν 6 μήνες

    I just want to say, I know the topic of “covering up” is controversial because the point of contention is we shouldn’t shame women, they should be able to wear whatever they want etc. However, I think it’s really important to cover up FOR women’s empowerment. What I mean by that is when you dress yourself provocatively, it puts all the focus on your sex appeal, and sexual attraction and attention. Which is fine if that’s your thing. But I think deep down most ladies would like to be seen for who they are as a person and the talents they possess aside from their bodies. Wearing more modest clothing in many ways forces the regard and attention to come from a place of actual equality and respect because individuals interacting with you - male or female - take you at your merit and not at “face” value.

  • Bia
    BiaΠριν 6 μήνες

    Hey Anna, I recently turned 30 and I started exploring my feminity, so I'm on my journey to become more elegant. I really appreciate your videos and I would like to thank you as you are helping me discover myself.

  • Trojanette83
    Trojanette83Πριν 6 μήνες

    Posting my, "Elegance Workshop" comments here, b/c I am not on FB: From -- "Trojanette83". General comments: Stumbled upon your channel ab't a year ago when I was going through a bad time in my life. Was very intrigued w/ your channel when I first saw it. Am impressed that someone decided to document this world of, 'self-improvement' / 'finishing school' ethics. Believe it or not my old elementary school once tried out offering mini finishing school opportunities as, after school events . We are talking about the 1970's when this took place!! I was one of the lucky ones to participate. Got a lot out of it. Wished it could have continued. Sadly, this venture was discontinued due to lack of funding. No matter.......I get to look at your programs in the meantime. Best of luck to you now and into the future. Thank you for sharing your many pearls of wisdom with the rest of us.

  • zoe finley
    zoe finleyΠριν 6 μήνες

    Elegant careers or majors would be amazing!

  • Egle Markeleviciute
    Egle MarkeleviciuteΠριν 6 μήνες

    This MakeUp looks so nice on you💗

  • Suleman Rashida
    Suleman RashidaΠριν 6 μήνες

    Another word for elegant is modesty. As an elegant lady, you don't hunt for men. Or seeking men's attention. Men chase and run after you. They respect and adore you. Every serious and responsible man, want to settle with humble and pleasant woman.

  • Suleman Rashida
    Suleman RashidaΠριν 6 μήνες

    Do elegant ladies do number 2?

  • Elena Z
    Elena ZΠριν 7 μήνες

    Oh wow, I woke up this morning feeling like wearing polka dots and here you are doing the same 😂

  • M R
    M RΠριν 7 μήνες

    Do you have a classy hairstyle video?? Also, i woke up saying “I wanna dress classy today” and this video was in my recommended . My FBI man looking out for me. I also like that you spoke about being elegant is separate from economy

  • Jonathan Vermillion
    Jonathan VermillionΠριν 7 μήνες

    Very nice dress

  • Khushbu Yadav
    Khushbu YadavΠριν 7 μήνες

    Hi Anna, do you think dressing up in a more lady like and refined manner make me look mature and older than i am? i’m just 19 and i want to look appropriate for my age.

  • Sacre Moon
    Sacre MoonΠριν 7 μήνες

    Me and my family are far from being rich, I'm an energetic 23 years old woman, don't own 14 different wardrobes and still hear a lot that I'm elegant. So, yeah, there is nothing to do with being rich of from a rich background, being boring or even owning a hundred of clothes. Also, I got friends who live in different realities (Some poor, some millionaires) and still I don't feel like I'm not fitting in any place.

  • JL
    JLΠριν 7 μήνες

    Elegance is a combination of confidence, humility, and compassion.

  • Putri Agustina
    Putri AgustinaΠριν 7 μήνες

    There's a saying, civilized people need less written rules. However, nowadays people often become so overbearing under the guises of being true to themselves. Thank you Anna for teaching us all of this unwritten etiquette rules. My mom practice elegance like you but she's being obsessed with it so I feel stifled when I grew up. Watching ur vids allows me to individualized the elegance that I needed ❤

  • Zhuljeta Hoxha
    Zhuljeta HoxhaΠριν 7 μήνες

    you are right,because i see women nowdays are being vulgar ..

  • Nicole
    NicoleΠριν 7 μήνες

    I appreciate your realism in this video especially and just presenting both ideas with your opinion, it really helps you understand these ideas better

  • Madelyn5454
    Madelyn5454Πριν 7 μήνες

    Hi Anna , this video on modern day elegance is so needed today more than ever .. Femininity and focus are so important . You created such a welcome course

  • Smurph
    SmurphΠριν 7 μήνες

    Anna, I love this and your realistic attitude. Thankfully the strict formula has evolved to a more interesting positive one of inclusion rather than fortified exclusion 🌼 I agree elegance is absolutely a mindset that permeates all about a person 💗 Thanks for sharing 🌼🌸🌼

  • J R
    J RΠριν 7 μήνες

    Anna, can you please do a pregnancy elegance video? As feeling constantly sick and then a new changing body can really be difficult to navigate when it comes to elegance sometimes. Thank you!

  • Grace Lewis
    Grace LewisΠριν 7 μήνες

    Could anyone help me find the name of the shape of the dress Anna is wearing in the thumbnail? It looks similar to a dolman sleeve and would be sooo flattering on!

  • Constanza Freire
    Constanza FreireΠριν 7 μήνες

    I loved this video, I've been binge watching all your channel and I was beginning to feel a lot of pressure but this video makes total sense, thank you ;)

  • Mauve Animationz
    Mauve AnimationzΠριν 7 μήνες

    There is a book I Iove called "care of the soul" and this is pretty much the same concept... Follow your souls desires while treating yourself and your surroundings with respect. With this you can become a more vibrant, resiliant and authentic person. It's self love and self expression at its finest. When you treat yourself like royalty and connect with your true desires, the world is truly your oyster

  • Lin Beek
    Lin BeekΠριν 7 μήνες

    YES!! To what you are saying at the start of the video. elegance is a general code of conduct to live by, it doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy yourself or let your hair down from time to time

  • Sarwat Hayat
    Sarwat HayatΠριν 7 μήνες

    Love you 💖💚😊💖💖💖💖❣❣❣❣❣❣❣

  • Sharry Rachel
    Sharry RachelΠριν 7 μήνες

    Hello Anna, Thank you for this video. It is really inspiring!

  • Sadia Ahmed
    Sadia AhmedΠριν 7 μήνες

    We need more of this! 😫

  • Darkhorse
    DarkhorseΠριν 7 μήνες

    I still feel sexy not slutty is the way to go. For example you can show cleavage or legs, but not both. You can wear something that shows your shape/fitted. Let me know what you think, ladies!

  • daniela valencia
    daniela valenciaΠριν 7 μήνες

    Thanks for these videos they help me a lot , greetings from Mexico !,💕💕

  • Graciela Hernandez
    Graciela HernandezΠριν 7 μήνες

    “Elegance is a mindset..” I LOVE that ❤️

  • D Andreia Gonzalez
    D Andreia GonzalezΠριν 7 μήνες

    Thank you, thank you, thank you 🙏🏽

  • Eli Peña
    Eli PeñaΠριν 7 μήνες

    Will you please make a video on how to WALK with elegance?

  • Asdfghjk L
    Asdfghjk LΠριν 7 μήνες

    I don’t know why but I always feel like Mia from the princess diaries when I watch your videos