One day I was driving within the speed limit, saw this car tailgating me, I found out it was a female driver, she sped up and drove side by side with me on the other lane, and yelled “slut”. It hurt me so much, but ignored her and she just sped up and drove past me.

Ladies, DO NOT and I repeat, DO NOT, respond to anyone being rude to you on the street with a comment about their life or childhood, what this woman is telling you is DANGEROUS. If you said that line in certain neighbourhoods the "compliment" would be overlooked and you would probably get stabbed.

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Can you do a video on how to deal with inappropriate behavior by men?

Would love it if you have a video on how to handle it when your family are not supportive.

How do you handle a friend who is being rude to anther friend or gossiping about another friend who “supposedly “ is her good or “best” friend?Do you call her out on her rudeness? Or, is that being rude since the comment was not directed to me? Thank you!

Thank you for this video! I've been dealing with a lot of negativity from my family and it's been really hard but with these tips I know just how to handle unpleasant situations. I'll be doing this because it'll make me happier.

Omg I absolutely love the response you read! I've been becoming triggered by many things lately and throwing away my power. It's amazing to hear another way to handle a situation and keep myself from emotional harm

Now that is a woman with class!

Thank you I learned a lot from you :)))

I found you today, and you're like that older sister I never had, and always dreamt about having.

This is so true! Thank you.

Much needed

Thank you 🙏🏻

Fabulous, so positive xx

Need this now

Anna's videos honestly changed me so much, it's unbelievable. It took me a very long time to learn, that when somebody starts berating you, the best thing to do is, dip. Trust me. It’s not cowardice, it’s not weakness. On the contrary, it’s strength, it’s elegance, it’s self-control, it will do much more for you than staying and fighting back. Anna's very right. You don’t engage in negativity. Even if you feel like it. Even if you have the comebacks, even if you have ammo and feel like blasting the other person. It is not worth your time. And it might end up putting YOU in a bad light. Believe me, you will gain nothing from it. End the conversation, ignore, or walk away.

I turn my back and leave. Let them speak by themselves, if they want so.

That response was full of confidence and love of oneself. I used to tell my daughter "Do not engage with counterproductive toxic people!"

Love it ❤️ so true

Ty mam ..m gonna watch every video of yours..😍🤗

What if your invited out a nice social and your with you date who's crowd this is and women start trying to embarrass you . I've thought about this so I thought just to look and walk away perhaps with a smile . Because they are obviously reacting this way because he didnt ask them instead .

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You have become my go-to on here!! You’re like the elegant and classy best friend I e alway wanted! I love all your videos because the information is so relevant and you are full of positivity. Thank you and please continue posting!

You are so spot on about how to elegantly respond to rudeness. I will always chose to take the high road if responding because if my response is like the rude comment I lower myself to their level & I don't want to do that. I agree it's sometimes better to just ignore someone that you don't know.

Sometimes I just say “Oh my!” Or “Oh my goodness.”

Thanks ☺️😊....

Thank you for freely giving information to us.

It’s really great

I subscribed because of this video.

I agree ☝️ 💯

Lmao I wasnt looking at the video and I didnt expext you to curse i lol'd. But yes great response! More & more these days I go higher and higher Ive nothing to say to fuel their dark agendas.

I fell relax everytime I watch your videos, very helpful. thank you Ms. Ana❤️

Very, very well said.

I'm sorry but there's nothing bitchier than telling someone they probably had a bad childhood

This is something I had to learn once I got into my young adult years. I had never really experienced much hate or negativity like this as a kid, but once I got out on my own, I realized how petty and stupid people can be. It kind of shocked me, and I spent time trying giving people some sass because I wasn’t going to let anyone walk on me. But that didn’t always get me the results I wanted. Then I tried to defend myself or change how people viewed me. I noticed how this didn’t really help, either. When I finally started to mature emotionally, I realized that other people’s opinions really aren’t important. That’s really empowering to realize. It makes it easier to respond with class, when you don’t care as much about other people’s opinions, because it reduces the emotional charge things like that caused you before.

Every day i confront rude people in Madrid, Barcelona is better, but Madrid is to much.

Great advice, Anna!

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"Don't take criticism from people you wouldn't take advice from." - Kyle Freedman

But...what if these females are related to you? Emmm...even worse if they are your siblings? Now what to do? 🥺

Yes, I need to learn how to respond or not to respond at all. Those teachers and principal are just so evil towards me! God has helped me the other day. They were talking about shoes or clothes I'm not sure, when one of them said: "Basic Instincts", and the other said: "Don't talk that in front of the theology teacher (me)", then the first one said: "Oh, I will tell her, sure I will!", and that sounded angry and rude in my language (Serbian), and it has kind of a double meaning, like you will show somebody their place, not very nice at all! And I didn't deserved it at all of course! A few of us were so confused by that. Then she was talking what she was talking to the other teacher, and the rest of us were amazed by all of it and waited for her to tell me what she wanted to tell me, but she didn't. Then I said, after a few moments of waiting in vain for her to tell me that: "And I was waiting for her to tell me!", and finally we all laughed and it was great!! I embarrassed the old evil teacher who attacked me for no reason and I turned it into a big laugh, made her look stupid, 5-6 of us were laughing to the old evil woman who hated me for no reason. God has helped me then! It wasn't even on my mind to tell them that, or anything at all, but I did and it was great! Thank you God! I hope that evil woman will back off now and leave me be! They are so evil! Then the other situation, that happened the same day. The principal was talking to some teacher about the PC at the assembly hall, that teacher asked me who I was, I said I was the theology teacher, then she turned to the principal and asked him: "What(Who) is that (me or the PC)?", he said: "Some trash!", the teacher said: "Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't", referring to my previous job that I was unfairly fired from, because I allegedly offended "the use of infinitive in Serbian language", I described it as disdainful, but the Serbian teacher didn't like me, so she managed me getting fired for allegedly offending Croatians, who use infinitive more often than us, which I didn't of course, but never mind, the principal hated me, God let that happen, He knows why, mine is to endure. Now return to the conversation between the previous principal and some teacher. The principal then said: "It is some trash, and we will take it out". Needless to say I was totally innocent in all those situations and conversations! They are simply "little kids eaters", and as the Psalm 34:19 says: "The righteous person may have many troubles, but the Lord delivers him from them all" It is so hard to put up with all that! Pray for me guys! I didn't say a word then. What would you say if you were me? All the best to all of you! God bless! ♥

Nice nasty and ignoring their existence are the best way,you can usually tell why they're doing this

Thank you.... Needed this.☆☆☆ Lurve yr voice.. Love&Light from the Fiji Islands

Hi Anna hello from PNG, you said something about cat eyes, if I don't have cat eyes then what will happen?

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Thanks! ❤️

Rudeness from clients?

You’re such an angel, Anna. Such a beautiful soul radiating and going on inspiring us ladies, thank you for doing this, you don’t know how happy I am to hear and listen to these great pieces of advice, how you are blessing and transforming our lives magnificently. I am rejoicing! You made it possible to keep my hopes up, when I am feeling down at this phase at my work. Hope to have more like you. 😇 ♥️ and 💡, Cherry 🖤🍒

I want to become a jetset babe.. But money really matters 🤣

its a challenge to controll your emotion and just stay calm in a negative situation

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You're my all time favourite 😘

Ana, what if your partner tells you to "shut-up" and says, "you're stupid"? How do you handle yourself elegantly? Do you even bother or do you leave a person like that? Thanks so much

Sometimes I sing you are the sunshine of my day with rude person and she smiles

Where's your village?

I say a lot. “ I’m so sorry you feel that way” move on.

The other day as I was fuming mad at someone who was rude to me. I stopped and thought “what would Anna do” I managed to keep my class. Thank you.

Haha! But , oh dear. Glad I'm not young any more. When I was young I wasn't dumb enough to listen to nonsense like this.

I hate losing my control in my emotions, it’s always so embarassing

This is above elegance and class. This is also self compassion. It's learning to become a more enlightened person. A beautiful lesson, Anna.

Exactly what I needed. I have encountered one rude women at work. I became silent in shock to this behavior that i have never experienced. Everyone at work should be professional.

How about after the stating an opinion to someone who is close to what you are opinion ing on? CYA? How to?

I'm so sorry. I hope you have a better day

the one smiles lasts. let the elegance and confidence in you do the job

Anna, can you make a video on how to deal with a rude co-worker? I work with this girl who is ruthless and wouldn't mind throwing anyone under the bus. I'd like advice on how to deal with people whom you can't avoid on a daily basis

Madám... you are absolutely correct...❤❤❤

You are a beautiful soul

U r such an inspiration...thnz anna

Love your attitude:)

Thank you...excellent💖

Anna..I live and appreciate your videos. Thank you.

Love this!

I just let rude comments fly over my head, and I don't remember what they said, because I never process rude things, and so I always seem either calm, happy, or expressionless.

That response to how the woman responded to the girls in the village is beautiful. I remember telling my student this "What you say about others, says more about you than it does about them." I think God revealed that statement to me at that moment. I hope that student and his classmates remember it.

Well said.

This video has helped me change my mindset about dealing with rudeness online and in real life. Kill them with kindness or simply stay calm and do not sink to their level.

Bravo! C'est exactement ce que je pense 💖

The thumbnail made me laugh so much!😂❤

Kill them with love. Wow!

The one element in life I learned is to speak up if you want and need to, but in an elegant educational and loving way. If you are in need to say something, then say it with class. Find some books on how to achieve the skills on how to communicate with others of such a level. But...I suggest to speak up especially if it is in person with class.

I don’t want to be bullied anymore so I’m watching your videos.

Yes I always ignore! Silence is the best response to ignorance. Wise men/women are of a few words and we cant answer a fool according to their folly lest we become like them😂

I do this always! I take the best selfie with a smile and tell them have a happy and blessed day!🙃☀️ It always works.

How about to a narcissist rich mamas boy that played you and used you and cheated on you!?

I really admire that you include not just the outer person but the inner person, a holistic approach. My mother used to take us 5 girls to Paris every summer to buy clothes to shop for the beautiful things only in France. We girls went to a finishing school abroad . You do a great service much needed today. Introductions and table manners started very very young. Thank you and Bravo well done.

This is right on time, I really needed this advice. Thank you so much 💯💕✨🙏🏽✨💕

I’m have BIG problem with mother-in-law. This will surely help me deal with all the mess she throws at me constantly.

"Without losing your face" - I love this phrase. 👏 😀 This one is also great: "You don't have to deal with people." I can ignore most of people and their envy or hate. But what to do when we are surrounded by the negative family members? Extremely negative and malicious? I know - to distant yourself from them, to cut the contact. OK. It is a healthy way of self-defense, if they don't respect your boundaries. But what about those who are covertly rude? Acquaintances who we meet here and there, who try to ruin our mood with rudeness wrapped in good intentions, or a compliment that makes you feel bad instead of good. What if you see them at some event where they want to ruin your reputation in front of other people, by some juicy comments, and before you, as well? How to react then? In a classy way, I mean. I really appreciate your effort and the content of this video is great. Thank you, Anna!

"Kill them with love" the best thing to deal with hate👌🏻

Excellent video👍 The world needs to watch this asap!!!😀😷😎

Please make a video on energy, your views on how to handle, use for our best. Thank you!

Thanks Anna .. You are the most elegant lady I have ever seen .. thanks for teaching right. You are lovely!

Great GOD bless.

Really needed this thanks so much, I get angry and I DO regret it after!

You are a true goddess.

I love love how composed you are ,honestly I'll work on myself in areas of clap back and positive response . I'm a huge fan

Can you please make a video about how to attract feminine classy educated ladies?

I have treated negative or abusive situations like how I would treat a fire. Stay calm, put it out, starve it of fuel and oxygen and move to safety. Most importantly, stay away from it if it gets beyond your control and tell someone in authority about it so it does not harm anyone else.

Omg Anna I needed this video. Sometimes I feel like people take advantage of me because im too nice, but when im upset i can become a complete different person.