How To Deal With Rudeness In An Elegant Way

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  • Jo’s Life
    Jo’s LifeΠριν 2 ημέρες

    One day I was driving within the speed limit, saw this car tailgating me, I found out it was a female driver, she sped up and drove side by side with me on the other lane, and yelled “slut”. It hurt me so much, but ignored her and she just sped up and drove past me.

  • M J
    M JΠριν 5 ημέρες

    Ladies, DO NOT and I repeat, DO NOT, respond to anyone being rude to you on the street with a comment about their life or childhood, what this woman is telling you is DANGEROUS. If you said that line in certain neighbourhoods the "compliment" would be overlooked and you would probably get stabbed.

  • Christy M.
    Christy M.Πριν 7 ημέρες


  • juliettte del toro
    juliettte del toroΠριν 13 ημέρες

    Can you do a video on how to deal with inappropriate behavior by men?

  • jaymillymills
    jaymillymillsΠριν 13 ημέρες

    Would love it if you have a video on how to handle it when your family are not supportive.

  • helen campassi
    helen campassiΠριν 17 ημέρες

    How do you handle a friend who is being rude to anther friend or gossiping about another friend who “supposedly “ is her good or “best” friend?Do you call her out on her rudeness? Or, is that being rude since the comment was not directed to me? Thank you!

  • Odufa Kadiri
    Odufa KadiriΠριν 28 ημέρες

    Thank you for this video! I've been dealing with a lot of negativity from my family and it's been really hard but with these tips I know just how to handle unpleasant situations. I'll be doing this because it'll make me happier.

  • Morgan Alexis
    Morgan AlexisΠριν μήνα

    Omg I absolutely love the response you read! I've been becoming triggered by many things lately and throwing away my power. It's amazing to hear another way to handle a situation and keep myself from emotional harm

  • Blackpillrevolution
    BlackpillrevolutionΠριν μήνα

    Now that is a woman with class!

  • Jane Croft
    Jane CroftΠριν μήνα

    Thank you I learned a lot from you :)))

  • Lana León
    Lana LeónΠριν μήνα

    I found you today, and you're like that older sister I never had, and always dreamt about having.

  • Monalisa Jackson
    Monalisa JacksonΠριν μήνα

    This is so true! Thank you.

  • Stargirl Fan
    Stargirl FanΠριν μήνα

    Much needed

  • Elisa Berrini Gómez
    Elisa Berrini GómezΠριν μήνα

    Thank you 🙏🏻

  • Cathy williams
    Cathy williamsΠριν μήνα

    Fabulous, so positive xx

  • patricia stewart
    patricia stewartΠριν μήνα

    Need this now

  • TheGroanOfWind
    TheGroanOfWindΠριν μήνα

    Anna's videos honestly changed me so much, it's unbelievable. It took me a very long time to learn, that when somebody starts berating you, the best thing to do is, dip. Trust me. It’s not cowardice, it’s not weakness. On the contrary, it’s strength, it’s elegance, it’s self-control, it will do much more for you than staying and fighting back. Anna's very right. You don’t engage in negativity. Even if you feel like it. Even if you have the comebacks, even if you have ammo and feel like blasting the other person. It is not worth your time. And it might end up putting YOU in a bad light. Believe me, you will gain nothing from it. End the conversation, ignore, or walk away.

  • Marina Papadopoulou
    Marina PapadopoulouΠριν μήνα

    I turn my back and leave. Let them speak by themselves, if they want so.

  • Happy girl
    Happy girlΠριν μήνα

    That response was full of confidence and love of oneself. I used to tell my daughter "Do not engage with counterproductive toxic people!"

  • Mm.
    Mm.Πριν μήνα

    Love it ❤️ so true

  • Chandni Arora
    Chandni AroraΠριν μήνα

    Ty mam ..m gonna watch every video of yours..😍🤗

  • Esther Lopez Farmer
    Esther Lopez FarmerΠριν μήνα

    What if your invited out a nice social and your with you date who's crowd this is and women start trying to embarrass you . I've thought about this so I thought just to look and walk away perhaps with a smile . Because they are obviously reacting this way because he didnt ask them instead .

  • Toutestpossible G M
    Toutestpossible G MΠριν μήνα


  • Susan Carrasco
    Susan CarrascoΠριν μήνα

    You have become my go-to on here!! You’re like the elegant and classy best friend I e alway wanted! I love all your videos because the information is so relevant and you are full of positivity. Thank you and please continue posting!

  • Helen Heil
    Helen HeilΠριν μήνα

    You are so spot on about how to elegantly respond to rudeness. I will always chose to take the high road if responding because if my response is like the rude comment I lower myself to their level & I don't want to do that. I agree it's sometimes better to just ignore someone that you don't know.

  • Carol Toney
    Carol ToneyΠριν μήνα

    Sometimes I just say “Oh my!” Or “Oh my goodness.”

  • Feminine Britaney Burnett
    Feminine Britaney BurnettΠριν μήνα

    Thanks ☺️😊....

  • Mountain MGTOW
    Mountain MGTOWΠριν 2 μήνες

    Thank you for freely giving information to us.

  • Urooj Ch
    Urooj ChΠριν 2 μήνες

    It’s really great

  • Segrana Obey
    Segrana ObeyΠριν 2 μήνες

    I subscribed because of this video.

  • Women of God
    Women of GodΠριν 2 μήνες

    I agree ☝️ 💯

  • Michelle M
    Michelle MΠριν 2 μήνες

    Lmao I wasnt looking at the video and I didnt expext you to curse i lol'd. But yes great response! More & more these days I go higher and higher Ive nothing to say to fuel their dark agendas.

  • Jodie Magbutay
    Jodie MagbutayΠριν 2 μήνες

    I fell relax everytime I watch your videos, very helpful. thank you Ms. Ana❤️

  • Sarah Bramshaw
    Sarah BramshawΠριν 2 μήνες

    Very, very well said.

  • Nefeli Tsakiridi
    Nefeli TsakiridiΠριν 2 μήνες

    I'm sorry but there's nothing bitchier than telling someone they probably had a bad childhood

  • Ashleigh Nunez
    Ashleigh NunezΠριν 2 μήνες

    This is something I had to learn once I got into my young adult years. I had never really experienced much hate or negativity like this as a kid, but once I got out on my own, I realized how petty and stupid people can be. It kind of shocked me, and I spent time trying giving people some sass because I wasn’t going to let anyone walk on me. But that didn’t always get me the results I wanted. Then I tried to defend myself or change how people viewed me. I noticed how this didn’t really help, either. When I finally started to mature emotionally, I realized that other people’s opinions really aren’t important. That’s really empowering to realize. It makes it easier to respond with class, when you don’t care as much about other people’s opinions, because it reduces the emotional charge things like that caused you before.

  • Pilar Paredes
    Pilar ParedesΠριν 2 μήνες

    Every day i confront rude people in Madrid, Barcelona is better, but Madrid is to much.

  • Jennifer LEE
    Jennifer LEEΠριν 2 μήνες

    Great advice, Anna!

  • Mila F
    Mila FΠριν 2 μήνες


  • Lisa entirelychaotic
    Lisa entirelychaoticΠριν 2 μήνες

    "Don't take criticism from people you wouldn't take advice from." - Kyle Freedman

  • Nature Lover
    Nature LoverΠριν 2 μήνες

    But...what if these females are related to you? Emmm...even worse if they are your siblings? Now what to do? 🥺

  • Sandra Radosavljevic
    Sandra RadosavljevicΠριν 2 μήνες

    Yes, I need to learn how to respond or not to respond at all. Those teachers and principal are just so evil towards me! God has helped me the other day. They were talking about shoes or clothes I'm not sure, when one of them said: "Basic Instincts", and the other said: "Don't talk that in front of the theology teacher (me)", then the first one said: "Oh, I will tell her, sure I will!", and that sounded angry and rude in my language (Serbian), and it has kind of a double meaning, like you will show somebody their place, not very nice at all! And I didn't deserved it at all of course! A few of us were so confused by that. Then she was talking what she was talking to the other teacher, and the rest of us were amazed by all of it and waited for her to tell me what she wanted to tell me, but she didn't. Then I said, after a few moments of waiting in vain for her to tell me that: "And I was waiting for her to tell me!", and finally we all laughed and it was great!! I embarrassed the old evil teacher who attacked me for no reason and I turned it into a big laugh, made her look stupid, 5-6 of us were laughing to the old evil woman who hated me for no reason. God has helped me then! It wasn't even on my mind to tell them that, or anything at all, but I did and it was great! Thank you God! I hope that evil woman will back off now and leave me be! They are so evil! Then the other situation, that happened the same day. The principal was talking to some teacher about the PC at the assembly hall, that teacher asked me who I was, I said I was the theology teacher, then she turned to the principal and asked him: "What(Who) is that (me or the PC)?", he said: "Some trash!", the teacher said: "Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't", referring to my previous job that I was unfairly fired from, because I allegedly offended "the use of infinitive in Serbian language", I described it as disdainful, but the Serbian teacher didn't like me, so she managed me getting fired for allegedly offending Croatians, who use infinitive more often than us, which I didn't of course, but never mind, the principal hated me, God let that happen, He knows why, mine is to endure. Now return to the conversation between the previous principal and some teacher. The principal then said: "It is some trash, and we will take it out". Needless to say I was totally innocent in all those situations and conversations! They are simply "little kids eaters", and as the Psalm 34:19 says: "The righteous person may have many troubles, but the Lord delivers him from them all" It is so hard to put up with all that! Pray for me guys! I didn't say a word then. What would you say if you were me? All the best to all of you! God bless! ♥

  • K
    KΠριν 2 μήνες

    Nice nasty and ignoring their existence are the best way,you can usually tell why they're doing this

  • Shikha Goswami
    Shikha GoswamiΠριν 2 μήνες

    Thank you.... Needed this.☆☆☆ Lurve yr voice.. Love&Light from the Fiji Islands

  • Heather Thomas
    Heather ThomasΠριν 2 μήνες

    Hi Anna hello from PNG, you said something about cat eyes, if I don't have cat eyes then what will happen?

  • Heather Manning
    Heather ManningΠριν 2 μήνες


  • Girls Girls Girls
    Girls Girls GirlsΠριν 3 μήνες

    Thanks! ❤️

  • Svetlana Erofeeva
    Svetlana ErofeevaΠριν 3 μήνες

    Rudeness from clients?

  • Che che
    Che cheΠριν 3 μήνες

    You’re such an angel, Anna. Such a beautiful soul radiating and going on inspiring us ladies, thank you for doing this, you don’t know how happy I am to hear and listen to these great pieces of advice, how you are blessing and transforming our lives magnificently. I am rejoicing! You made it possible to keep my hopes up, when I am feeling down at this phase at my work. Hope to have more like you. 😇 ♥️ and 💡, Cherry 🖤🍒

  • Judelyn Minoza
    Judelyn MinozaΠριν 3 μήνες

    I want to become a jetset babe.. But money really matters 🤣

  • Nora Mata
    Nora MataΠριν 3 μήνες

    its a challenge to controll your emotion and just stay calm in a negative situation

  • Gabi
    GabiΠριν 4 μήνες


  • Razia gomez
    Razia gomezΠριν 4 μήνες

    You're my all time favourite 😘

  • Gigi P
    Gigi PΠριν 4 μήνες

    Ana, what if your partner tells you to "shut-up" and says, "you're stupid"? How do you handle yourself elegantly? Do you even bother or do you leave a person like that? Thanks so much

  • Nicole Julien
    Nicole JulienΠριν 4 μήνες

    Sometimes I sing you are the sunshine of my day with rude person and she smiles

  • Ruth Goga
    Ruth GogaΠριν 4 μήνες

    Where's your village?

  • Malisa C
    Malisa CΠριν 4 μήνες

    I say a lot. “ I’m so sorry you feel that way” move on.

  • Malisa C
    Malisa CΠριν 4 μήνες

    The other day as I was fuming mad at someone who was rude to me. I stopped and thought “what would Anna do” I managed to keep my class. Thank you.

  • pete robbo
    pete robboΠριν 4 μήνες

    Haha! But , oh dear. Glad I'm not young any more. When I was young I wasn't dumb enough to listen to nonsense like this.

  • Joy Mae - Millennial Money Talk NYC
    Joy Mae - Millennial Money Talk NYCΠριν 5 μήνες

    I hate losing my control in my emotions, it’s always so embarassing

  • Mia Yana
    Mia YanaΠριν 5 μήνες

    This is above elegance and class. This is also self compassion. It's learning to become a more enlightened person. A beautiful lesson, Anna.

  • Angel Cat
    Angel CatΠριν 5 μήνες

    Exactly what I needed. I have encountered one rude women at work. I became silent in shock to this behavior that i have never experienced. Everyone at work should be professional.

  • Juliette Rogers
    Juliette RogersΠριν 5 μήνες

    How about after the stating an opinion to someone who is close to what you are opinion ing on? CYA? How to?

  • The Mentality of Mindset With Jen Michele
    The Mentality of Mindset With Jen MicheleΠριν 5 μήνες

    I'm so sorry. I hope you have a better day

  • Sophia Snegova
    Sophia SnegovaΠριν 5 μήνες

    the one smiles lasts. let the elegance and confidence in you do the job

  • Shobana Gunasekaran
    Shobana GunasekaranΠριν 5 μήνες

    Anna, can you make a video on how to deal with a rude co-worker? I work with this girl who is ruthless and wouldn't mind throwing anyone under the bus. I'd like advice on how to deal with people whom you can't avoid on a daily basis

  • Kin Maravee
    Kin MaraveeΠριν 5 μήνες

    Madám... you are absolutely correct...❤❤❤

  • Ritu K
    Ritu KΠριν 5 μήνες

    You are a beautiful soul

  • Lavi a
    Lavi aΠριν 5 μήνες

    U r such an inspiration...thnz anna

  • Lamiae Karimi
    Lamiae KarimiΠριν 5 μήνες

    Love your attitude:)

  • Stacey Del Bucchia
    Stacey Del BucchiaΠριν 5 μήνες

    Thank you...excellent💖

  • Carole Strasburg
    Carole StrasburgΠριν 5 μήνες

    Anna..I live and appreciate your videos. Thank you.

  • Shannon Brophy
    Shannon BrophyΠριν 5 μήνες

    Love this!

  • Via Li
    Via LiΠριν 5 μήνες

    I just let rude comments fly over my head, and I don't remember what they said, because I never process rude things, and so I always seem either calm, happy, or expressionless.

  • ShiaGirl18
    ShiaGirl18Πριν 6 μήνες

    That response to how the woman responded to the girls in the village is beautiful. I remember telling my student this "What you say about others, says more about you than it does about them." I think God revealed that statement to me at that moment. I hope that student and his classmates remember it.

  • Laura Brown
    Laura BrownΠριν 6 μήνες

    Well said.

  • Sicilian Pie
    Sicilian PieΠριν 6 μήνες

    This video has helped me change my mindset about dealing with rudeness online and in real life. Kill them with kindness or simply stay calm and do not sink to their level.

  • Svetlana Milunovic
    Svetlana MilunovicΠριν 6 μήνες

    Bravo! C'est exactement ce que je pense 💖

  • Ashley Anne
    Ashley AnneΠριν 6 μήνες

    The thumbnail made me laugh so much!😂❤

  • Priya Sharma
    Priya SharmaΠριν 6 μήνες

    Kill them with love. Wow!

  • Fit n Fab
    Fit n FabΠριν 6 μήνες

    The one element in life I learned is to speak up if you want and need to, but in an elegant educational and loving way. If you are in need to say something, then say it with class. Find some books on how to achieve the skills on how to communicate with others of such a level. But...I suggest to speak up especially if it is in person with class.

  • Skai Kim
    Skai KimΠριν 6 μήνες

    I don’t want to be bullied anymore so I’m watching your videos.

  • kuulei love
    kuulei loveΠριν 6 μήνες

    Yes I always ignore! Silence is the best response to ignorance. Wise men/women are of a few words and we cant answer a fool according to their folly lest we become like them😂

  • arnela bih
    arnela bihΠριν 6 μήνες

    I do this always! I take the best selfie with a smile and tell them have a happy and blessed day!🙃☀️ It always works.

  • Roxana Braica
    Roxana BraicaΠριν 6 μήνες

    How about to a narcissist rich mamas boy that played you and used you and cheated on you!?

  • Carol Berwind
    Carol BerwindΠριν 6 μήνες

    I really admire that you include not just the outer person but the inner person, a holistic approach. My mother used to take us 5 girls to Paris every summer to buy clothes to shop for the beautiful things only in France. We girls went to a finishing school abroad . You do a great service much needed today. Introductions and table manners started very very young. Thank you and Bravo well done.

  • Nichole Banks
    Nichole BanksΠριν 6 μήνες

    This is right on time, I really needed this advice. Thank you so much 💯💕✨🙏🏽✨💕

  • Nightshade Avian
    Nightshade AvianΠριν 6 μήνες

    I’m have BIG problem with mother-in-law. This will surely help me deal with all the mess she throws at me constantly.

  • bab000shka
    bab000shkaΠριν 7 μήνες

    "Without losing your face" - I love this phrase. 👏 😀 This one is also great: "You don't have to deal with people." I can ignore most of people and their envy or hate. But what to do when we are surrounded by the negative family members? Extremely negative and malicious? I know - to distant yourself from them, to cut the contact. OK. It is a healthy way of self-defense, if they don't respect your boundaries. But what about those who are covertly rude? Acquaintances who we meet here and there, who try to ruin our mood with rudeness wrapped in good intentions, or a compliment that makes you feel bad instead of good. What if you see them at some event where they want to ruin your reputation in front of other people, by some juicy comments, and before you, as well? How to react then? In a classy way, I mean. I really appreciate your effort and the content of this video is great. Thank you, Anna!

  • Sudari Katukitule
    Sudari KatukituleΠριν 7 μήνες

    "Kill them with love" the best thing to deal with hate👌🏻

  • Happy Lady
    Happy LadyΠριν 7 μήνες

    Excellent video👍 The world needs to watch this asap!!!😀😷😎

  • Zsofia Farberov
    Zsofia FarberovΠριν 7 μήνες

    Please make a video on energy, your views on how to handle, use for our best. Thank you!

  • Srishti Bose
    Srishti BoseΠριν 7 μήνες

    Thanks Anna .. You are the most elegant lady I have ever seen .. thanks for teaching right. You are lovely!

  • Alhaja Bamgboye
    Alhaja BamgboyeΠριν 7 μήνες

    Great GOD bless.

  • Tarot London
    Tarot LondonΠριν 7 μήνες

    Really needed this thanks so much, I get angry and I DO regret it after!

  • Lizzie Tang
    Lizzie TangΠριν 7 μήνες

    You are a true goddess.

  • marian andisi
    marian andisiΠριν 7 μήνες

    I love love how composed you are ,honestly I'll work on myself in areas of clap back and positive response . I'm a huge fan

  • Avy K
    Avy KΠριν 7 μήνες

    Can you please make a video about how to attract feminine classy educated ladies?

  • Vikki
    VikkiΠριν 7 μήνες

    I have treated negative or abusive situations like how I would treat a fire. Stay calm, put it out, starve it of fuel and oxygen and move to safety. Most importantly, stay away from it if it gets beyond your control and tell someone in authority about it so it does not harm anyone else.

  • Nia Diamond
    Nia DiamondΠριν 7 μήνες

    Omg Anna I needed this video. Sometimes I feel like people take advantage of me because im too nice, but when im upset i can become a complete different person.