When Elegance Has Gone Wrong!

Οδηγίες και στυλ

Honest sit-down video on what it is that I teach & why many get it wrong! And ladies, download your FREE Cheatsheet "How To Look Expensive" that gives you the crucial fashion hacks to looking luxurious regardless of budget! classycheatsheet.com
schoolofaffluence.com online luxury lifestyle program to make a lifestyle transformation. It's an online course for women who want to achieve elegance and enter high-society.

❤️ Don't forget to subscribe to my channel, like, comment and share if you liked this video and it was valuable to you.
❤️ Check out these TOP related videos:
-Are All Elegant Women Stiff & Boring-
-How To Deal With Rudeness In An Elegant Way-
👑 For More Luxury Content 👑


  • jean torres
    jean torresΠριν 4 ημέρες

    Thank you so much for all this helpful education. You mentioned that "How do you do?" is classier than "Nice to meet you" but what is the proper response to "How do you do?" Is it "Fine thank you" or do you just say "How do you do" back. I find this awkward because it seems to me that "How do you do?" is a question and should have an answer. Also I've never heard anyone say "How do you do?" except in old movies. I'm afraid to come across as pretentious..

  • Judgment Proof
    Judgment ProofΠριν 13 ημέρες

    I can use a little bit of guidance on how to handle a wine decanter, specifically the kind you find in a limousine. I happen to have one right now and can sure use a little bit of guidance on how to properly handle one. It’s kind of a cube style with a cube top. Would you consider making a video about how to properly handle that style of limousine wine decanter? I’m learning as much as I can about dining and limousine etiquette and Wood sure find it helpful if you can give some guidance on proper wine decanter handling. Thanks in advance

  • Lisa Bennett
    Lisa BennettΠριν 14 ημέρες

    Differences in cultures. Okay in some countries and not okay in others. For instance, eating cereal in the USA is like a cheap way to feed your children and you would never offer it to an adult. In other countries, cereal is very expensive. What is the difference between putting milk in your tea in England and not putting milk in your tea?

  • Tabitha Pauline's Vlogs
    Tabitha Pauline's VlogsΠριν 21 ημέρα

    Strangely enough am not the elegant lady or am I attempting to be one. But I love her talking in my background as I work. Lol!

  • Christa Kush
    Christa KushΠριν 22 ημέρες

    Anna can you do a video about tattoos and how you’ve seen them viewed by affluent people you’ve known? Should there be no tattoos? Are some okay? Is there such thing as too many? I know society is changing now too so I wanted to know your opinion. Thanks! 🥰

  • Marissa Panganiban
    Marissa PanganibanΠριν μήνα

    Your channel is very inspiring and very helpful in every day life ...I love the way you talk how I wish I could learn how to talk calmly whenever I'm angry .thank you I'm always listening and learning from ur channel . I love it

  • Gen Lim
    Gen LimΠριν μήνα

    I like you, and I support what you teach..

  • N. Sh.
    N. Sh.Πριν μήνα

    I watch your videos for elegance tips. When looking for cooking, cleaning, camping, .....I look some other people's videos. These are not conflicting each others. These are different aspects of life. So someone who is NOT looking for elegant tips, won't be happy here, THEY are just in wrong classroom!

  • Rahima Coro
    Rahima CoroΠριν μήνα

    Thank you Anna💕

    MIRJA JAMESΠριν μήνα

    Anna you are a very interesting person and I learned a lot here. This message is very deep. Stay healthy. I send you best greetings from Berlin😘

  • nancysrios
    nancysriosΠριν μήνα

    It seems to me that good style has been lost nowadays. I think that’s why this channel is necessary. I believe that a lot of people feel like I do judging from all of all of the views.

  • JenniferAGRobertson
    JenniferAGRobertsonΠριν μήνα

    I would love to hear you talk about types of elegant jewelery!!! I would love to hear you speak about cosmetics , including types of elegant nails !!! I would love to hear you talk about types of elegance for business attire for work (ex: lawyers, doctors, business ladies)!!! I have loved all your tips and suggestions and examples on all your videos (especially the love for equestrian styles); however, I would not be able to wear any of these things as a lawyer during court while standing in front of a judge or testifying in front of a Senate hearing, or as head of a hospital or pharmaceutical company.... I WOULD LOVE to hear your suggestions!!! Please and thank you:) you are wonderful

  • Sophie
    SophieΠριν μήνα

    I love seeing all your outfits in every video 😍

  • Chelsey
    ChelseyΠριν μήνα

    My favorite inspiration for elegance is Morticia Addams... she’s graceful, poised, charming and multi-talented with her own strong sense of style.

  • Toutestpossible G M
    Toutestpossible G MΠριν 2 μήνες

    Thank you Anna..! 💜🌺

  • Toutestpossible G M
    Toutestpossible G MΠριν 2 μήνες

    You are someone exceptional.' And that Is elegant!

  • Daisha Jimenez
    Daisha JimenezΠριν 2 μήνες

    I love your videos. Would be happy to get some tips on what to wear for workouts!

  • Karen Purtell
    Karen PurtellΠριν 2 μήνες

    I love your videos I’ve so much to learn, you always look beautiful 🙏

  • Nabiya Vaffoor
    Nabiya VaffoorΠριν 2 μήνες

    More videos regarding elegant behaviour (speech, body language) would be helpful, than fashion and shopping.

  • Karene Raman
    Karene RamanΠριν 2 μήνες

    Yes, in a world where trashy, flashy, bling and extravagant fashion, loud and proud is pushed on the foreground, elegance, gallantry are pushed on the back burner. That is where society is totally wrong and send out the wrong signals to the outside world! Attract bad influences and persons with hidden agendas in your life!

  • Ewa Merchel
    Ewa MerchelΠριν 2 μήνες

    Just thinking how to enjoy just to be you ? No acting be yourself just enjoyed life .

  • Evy
    EvyΠριν 2 μήνες

    People are so sensitive to the truth!! I appreciate your honesty in all your videos!! I’ve learned a lot from you!! Thank you 💕

  • Nickname
    NicknameΠριν 2 μήνες

    what a coincident, i'm watching this rn on a sunday haha

  • Madelaine Arevalo
    Madelaine ArevaloΠριν 2 μήνες

    I'm 19 and I'm from Colombia. I recently started studying law. I have become aware of many points where I was failing. I feel like I study too much, that's fine, but I don't go out, nor do I usually have many conversations. In my university there are good contacts that I have not taken advantage of. I don't have a hobby, except studying. I should do something that I like, like rollerblading, learning to paint, or dancing. I don't have a lot of money to pay for an etiquette course, but in life there is always a range of possibilities, like reading etiquette manuals or watching tutorials, I'll start doing it. Thank you because you always open my eyes. You don't know me, but I watch your videos so much that sometimes I think I know you, because you are like my counselor. Thank you. This comment was for the video for teens, but I couldn't comment

  • Erika Plekaviciute
    Erika PlekaviciuteΠριν 2 μήνες

    I am only 21 years old and own my own business. Your channel really helps me to learn to present myself in a way that people would take me seriously, look elegant, yet still keep the young spirit!

  • jhf Lady
    jhf LadyΠριν 3 μήνες

    I need video how to think cheap and control my budjed spending.i always look for cheap price.but i like all the qualitu item n want for cheap price

  • CatxChaos
    CatxChaosΠριν 3 μήνες


  • Cristina Dumitras
    Cristina DumitrasΠριν 3 μήνες


  • donna greulich
    donna greulichΠριν 3 μήνες

    Love all your videos!

  • Nadia KASSOURI
    Nadia KASSOURIΠριν 3 μήνες

    Thank you so much Anna ❤️

  • dreamland
    dreamlandΠριν 3 μήνες

    I'd say every affluent man I've met requires elegance from women because they have very delicate egos and you have to handle them delicately. they are used to people working for them, under them, serving them, etc.

  • Elisabetta C
    Elisabetta CΠριν 3 μήνες

    could you talk about Grace Kelly's class and elegance???? By the way, you're really amazing.I love your videos. Kisses from Greece.

  • Małgorzata Wodka
    Małgorzata WodkaΠριν 3 μήνες

    For me elegance is all about common sense.

  • Martin McDevitt
    Martin McDevittΠριν 4 μήνες

    Thanks for the post. You are so inspiring and informative Eva Gabor as Lisa Douglas in "Green Acers" is an elegant lady Lisa Douglas does not give into the dark side of elegant lady.

  • Anonymous Crocodile
    Anonymous CrocodileΠριν 4 μήνες

    Haha I am gay and a successful business woman, but I somehow love to watch this 🤭

  • Barbara Lauro
    Barbara LauroΠριν 4 μήνες

    A recommended read: Pride and Prejudice, our dear Jane did know how to express her self in these topics with utmost class. May remove a few doubts and stereotypes.

  • Mary Lehr

    Mary Lehr

    Πριν 4 μήνες

    Barbara Lauro Jane Austen will definitely help you be elegance

  • Barbara Lauro
    Barbara LauroΠριν 4 μήνες

    You're right, I think elegance can't be restricted to rigid or perfect, that's against human nature, it about embracing our particularities and identities in a more refined way.

  • Cadi
    CadiΠριν 4 μήνες

    I love and respect how you express, shine with, own, embrace and share your natural powerful feminine energy. And teach others how to reveal their own proudly. It's a sadly lost art and looked down upon in today's world. Keep being you and doing what you do. 👍😘 I'm in your gang😁

  • Frii Munya
    Frii MunyaΠριν 4 μήνες

    My God Anna I LOVE the way you dress😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

  • Ophelia’s Love Shack
    Ophelia’s Love ShackΠριν 4 μήνες

    I love incorporating your advice into my life and wardrobe. I work as a body piercer and have multiple body modifications and *still* benefit from elevating my style (even at work) from your videos. Its unfortunate if folks take what you say too personally but I genuinely appreciate that you take the time to provide your insights to us!

  • Katarzyna Slapek
    Katarzyna SlapekΠριν 4 μήνες

    Thank You elegant lady for the channel and the way you are educating other elegant ladies. Thank You!!!

  • The Green Bee
    The Green BeeΠριν 4 μήνες

    Thank u for maling this video, can u show me how to become more sociable for introvert people?

  • Nicole Pemberton
    Nicole PembertonΠριν 5 μήνες

    This is my favorite video of yours. I’ve seen way too many people fall into this trap of trying to be elegant to the point that no one knows who they are. It’s sad and pushes people away.

  • lexxzie mae77
    lexxzie mae77Πριν 5 μήνες

    I do love anna's advices and tips sometimes not all her videos are about how to marry a RICH MAN but to find a great quality of man nice attitude, personality and behaviour who can pamper you in your lifetime even though you'll say that you want to be independent and you dont need RICH man you cant change the FACT that even how successful you are in life when you choose the wrong partner you will still end up in the dumpster so pls dont be stupid .

  • Amanda Fraize
    Amanda FraizeΠριν 5 μήνες

    I do love this, but the only thing stopping me is smoking. Will you please do a video on quitting?

  • Flutenany Idk
    Flutenany IdkΠριν 5 μήνες

    I'd like more videos on basic ettiqute. Just things in society that are generally polite but often overlooked. Maybe even do some videos for men!

  • Rachel McClain
    Rachel McClainΠριν 5 μήνες

    My dear elegant ladies... Gets me every time :)

  • Mariah Mariah
    Mariah MariahΠριν 5 μήνες

    I love laughing, telling jokes and generally happy and joyous. I'm not trying to marry a rich man but I'm trying to level up my game such as dressing well, being more feminine and classy. I'm 19 years old and still want to be me, the funny and joyous girl. But the question is, can I be that girl and be elegant?


    tha's when polishing and improving ourselves is important. it can improve everything around us


    I remember reading an etiquette that ended with : etiquette is not to show off, is flexibility, when you have it you use it when is necessary. I add, we need to learn when it is necessary, sometimes we just don't realize where we are or which type of people we have around.

  • Jennifer Lopez
    Jennifer LopezΠριν 6 μήνες

    I like both kinds of videos. I enjoy learning about life and how to level up as a woman. I do like to have a better understanding of people and why they do the things that they do.

  • hana zara
    hana zaraΠριν 6 μήνες

    I've been watching almost all your video (even 2018) for almost past 5 months. Thank god, i'm not going after a man because i have been in a relationship. I watch your video to make myself a better woman a better person. Thank you so much for such useful advise and everything.

  • Karen Leiva
    Karen LeivaΠριν 6 μήνες

    Thank you so much for all your advice.

  • gypsyvanneraddict
    gypsyvanneraddictΠριν 6 μήνες

    This from someone without a proper formal education. What’s elegant - not looking for a man to pay your bills. Love is not transactional - elegance is not transactional. Pimping yourself out is not “elegance.”

    ANJUM SHABANAΠριν 6 μήνες

    Actlly IAM not dat interested in becoming richest...but suggest me to calm down my heart which has been broken nd feeling nervous n not interested in anything to do..i think iam getting over n over day by day....kindly help me Anna

    ANJUM SHABANAΠριν 6 μήνες

    Can Yu plzz temme bout how to be emotionally controlled ourselves...nd become mentally and financially strong..

  • Tiffany Garrett
    Tiffany GarrettΠριν 6 μήνες

    Not particularly interested in marrying rich men. I just love this topic! Always looking to improve myself. And women are definitely missing something. Something is lost, our Femininity is in jeopardy.

  • Sandrine Anterrion
    Sandrine AnterrionΠριν 6 μήνες

    I love your top!!

  • Andrea Hewitt
    Andrea HewittΠριν 6 μήνες

    Modern elegance is discernment. Be very discerning in your choices.

  • Paloma Healing
    Paloma HealingΠριν 6 μήνες

    Mindfulness is a very big part of Class!!💖

  • Paloma Healing
    Paloma HealingΠριν 6 μήνες

    Actually Affluent people can be very casual..but with class! And Class is not taught? You have class because you've been around class for a very long time!

  • Paloma Healing
    Paloma HealingΠριν 6 μήνες

    Yes..more personal videos! I just want to hear your views on things? I grew up around Affluent people, so this not new to me? But I'm jumping back into it again..😊😊😊💐

  • Leni Ruess
    Leni RuessΠριν 6 μήνες

    Anna, such a good video! Thank you for explaining. And yes, please more videos like that.

  • 8802czj
    8802czjΠριν 6 μήνες

    Elegance = respectable

  • Sladjana Simic
    Sladjana SimicΠριν 6 μήνες

    I always thought that elegance is part of good culture. And true culture is question of the heart. Real value, any value, can't be imitated. Further it means nothing can substitute clean, pure heart and mind. No one wants degraded person.

  • Mac Tavish
    Mac TavishΠριν 6 μήνες

    How to appear ladylike bringing a party of people into a hotel or restaurant when you are the hostess. So you can organise everything and everyone, pay for it, without getting masculine energy. Also how to establish a proper traditional dynamic with a partner from the start.

  • Lena Mahayni
    Lena MahayniΠριν 6 μήνες

    Style over elegance

  • Shannavegana McInnis-Hurd
    Shannavegana McInnis-HurdΠριν 6 μήνες

    I bet Kate Middleton, in her private life, isn’t even a Kate Middleton.

  • ana miguel
    ana miguelΠριν 6 μήνες

    We are not supposed to be perfect 👌❤️💙♥️thank you for reminding me, although I need a big change in my lifestyle.

  • Simply Julie
    Simply JulieΠριν 6 μήνες

    By chance I found your channel and I am truly happy that I did. I just would like to hear a bit more about how to reverse or change previous existing misconceptions about you, your personality and your image. In another words, how to change society’s existing perspective on oneself.

  • Brit Co
    Brit CoΠριν 7 μήνες

    I LOVE how classy, yet transparent, you are!

  • Fandera Rosetto
    Fandera RosettoΠριν 7 μήνες

    Quality content from a superb woman. 👍

  • Marivi Marivi
    Marivi MariviΠριν 7 μήνες

    Dear elegant lady you are so beautiful, and we need elegant ladies in this time of confusion Thank you so much for your message ,its uplifting to listen to your messages, blessings Marivi.

  • Robin McGann
    Robin McGannΠριν 7 μήνες

    I'm binge-watching while in quarantine, working towards emerging from this enforced cocoon as a beautiful, classy butterfly after letting myself go after retirement and injuries (2 broken feet will put the pounds on!). Not after a millionaire (made my own money), but am feeling dumpy, frumpy and unkempt. Changing that up now. After a period of clothing experimentation after retirement (and body change), I found that I'm happier in my classic, simple styles and will be going back to that once I lose the packed on poundage. Would LOVE to see what your ideas for casual (running errands) dressing would entail.

  • Ann Capili de Villa
    Ann Capili de VillaΠριν 7 μήνες

    I love your brand ❤️❤️"refinement"...I strongly believe those who follows you and students who learned from you will become more successful one's we apply this.

  • Ana Luisa Nunes
    Ana Luisa NunesΠριν 7 μήνες

    I have a question. Do you get backlash from high society fellows for having this channel and recording these videos?

  • 达努佳
    达努佳Πριν 7 μήνες

    I don't know what it is but you remind me of Gal Gadot

  • Lifestyle with Isabella
    Lifestyle with IsabellaΠριν 7 μήνες

    Elegance is a mindset!❤️

  • Kaash Kaash
    Kaash KaashΠριν 7 μήνες

    As far as personal style, clothing, I think it is really important you find your own style. That you understand what your body looks like, check out Kibbe for example, and understand what looks flattering on you and what doesn't. Same for the color that suit you. And then try and find the clothes that you like and that look flattering on you in the best quality you can buy at the moment. It can really help if with your appearance and how you look at yourself, how you feel etc.

  • Charming lliang
    Charming lliangΠριν 7 μήνες

    What's the clothing and footwear can you suggest for a lady like me who's 5'0 flat ?😊♥️

  • Some say love
    Some say loveΠριν 8 μήνες

    Hello. Please do videos on how to deal with very rude people in calm and respectful manners. Thank yuu.

  • lala romans
    lala romansΠριν 8 μήνες

    Im so glad you clarified that. I think people should just be themselves except an elevated self. My problem is I dress elegant but I don’t go know how to pair my clothes with my shoes. So I love all the cheat sheets.

  • Nikita Waldia
    Nikita WaldiaΠριν 8 μήνες

    Thank you for your advices. It really guides and encourages young ladies to be on elegance track...

  • Bad Juju
    Bad JujuΠριν 8 μήνες

    I would appreciate more videos from you, regardless of content, although this simplistic format is still beautiful. I adore your gorgeous chair and decor so all details are appreciated by your fans ☺️

  • swati g
    swati gΠριν 8 μήνες

    Hi, I would like to request a video with information on suitable attire options based on the occasion for your dear elegant ladies. Thank you for taking the request under consideration.

  • Cindy Perdomo
    Cindy PerdomoΠριν 8 μήνες

    Could you possibly make a video talking about minimalism and elegance? Minimalism is about focusing on the important things in life and getting rid of the unnecessary clutter. It would be great to listen to your perspective on a simple yet elegant lifestyle. Thank you!

  • Diana K
    Diana KΠριν 8 μήνες

    I would like to see a video about how to behave like a lady on the first date? What to talk about, the etiquette? Also it's sometimes confusing what to do when it comes to paying the bill, should a lady offer or don't do anything at all?

  • Jans van Aalst
    Jans van AalstΠριν 8 μήνες

    I like and enjoy your channel but a little less talk on how to find yourself a well to man is not of this time. Better get yourself a nice income if that is what you after. And as for Kate Middleton; maybe a kind lady, but so very, very conservative and a boring dresser. You can look very classy without looking like you are over 80 years of age.

  • Milena T
    Milena TΠριν 8 μήνες

    You are sooo so right. Light colors are so amazing on you.

  • Liesbeth Tatjana
    Liesbeth TatjanaΠριν 8 μήνες

    I love your videos Anna. I am not necessarily interested in high society, but your message is really applicable to getting anything you want out of life. By talking the talk and walking the walk, thank you 💕

  • PJ Kay
    PJ KayΠριν 8 μήνες

    I’m watching this high

  • Lindsay's Life Cafe
    Lindsay's Life CafeΠριν 8 μήνες

    Do you ever work with women who are already married to men who are not in high society, but they want to become more elegant for other reasons such as career?

  • Heather Manning
    Heather ManningΠριν 8 μήνες

    Thanks for Sharing!!! 💜🥰💜🥰💜

  • Audraelynne Grimmelhaussen
    Audraelynne GrimmelhaussenΠριν 8 μήνες

    I think I get what you're saying. I'm engaged to a pretty affluent man and a few years ago before we got engaged, he introduced me to his cousins and I noticed the women in the family didn't necessarily wear any fabulous clothes but they just had this aura and way about them. They were calm and collected. You could clearly see they took care of themselves.

  • Kristi Selin
    Kristi SelinΠριν 8 μήνες

    Thank you for making this video. It really helped me to understand exactly what it is that you teach about Elegance. Would you mind making a video about how to use good manners and etiquette in polite society during a formal dinner party or at least point me in the right direction of where I can find the right videos to watch? So many people who make videos on the subject have very different opinions about the right way to drink tea, eat soup, and etc. I trust your judgment better. Also, I love your videos and watch them as often as I can.

  • bhebs samsona
    bhebs samsonaΠριν 8 μήνες

    I am the only one here watching from Philippines?

  • Cynthia Allen
    Cynthia AllenΠριν 8 μήνες

    I've received many compliments on how I dress from men...the fact that I don't put it all out there. Lol.

  • Janine Bonilla
    Janine BonillaΠριν 8 μήνες

    You are wonderful! What you do is so important and needed. Thank you so very much, you have helped me enormously. 💕😊

  • B G
    B GΠριν 8 μήνες

    I can’t believe you just said Kate Middleton is rigid and boring.

  • Scarlette Baudelaire
    Scarlette BaudelaireΠριν 8 μήνες

    VIDEO REQUESTS: 1) Apple watch, is it elegant to wear and are there exceptions, what about things like fitbit i notice you take yours off 2) school of affluence course, what do you get, whats included, how long is it available, rumors of it going away and being replaced, should we buy quickly or wait for new, will it be more expensive, what will current members get when the new one goes live. I am saving to buy it but scared i will n get it fast enough or that it will cost more later what do you advise others like me to do 3) How should an elegant business woman carry her briefcase or attache case with a purse, what is the most elegant way to accomplish this, what type of attache or briefcase is elegant, i see some women carrying a purse, a tote, a lunch bag, and rolling what looks like carryon luggage behind then into work and they look so clumsy and not put together and disorganized. 4) Should an elegant lady be concerned about appearance when training, or gym or walking dog any exercise, its possible to meet people in this scenario so I feel like the answer should be yes so if you agree then please do a video on appropriate clothing, I dressed for running after watching one of your videos and I felt like I was all wrong, my hoodie was torn, my shoes were worn out, my head gear has a cartoon on it, but I was just running, i still felt wrong, thoughts please 5) More videos about personal growth and development 6) Top 20 Books that every affluent women should read or be familiar with, not just for personal growth even though thats all I read but for knowledge, culture, because its a book that most are familiar with or reference, to be educated on classics or anything of that nature that you feel is relevant and help with our level up and journey. Thank you so much for your time. I love your videos and cannot wait to take your course.