Powerful Tips To Level Up Your Average Joe Boyfriend

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  • Ltk Ltm
    Ltk LtmΠριν 22 ημέρες

    I had to teach my ex boyfriend that it would be better if he brushes his teeth before I come to visit him and to not wear sportsocks with his suit. I am to old to be teaching a grown up man what to do. So I left that average joe and found a much better high caliber man. Halleluja

  • amadaria
    amadariaΠριν 27 ημέρες

    "... A man who can only talk about football and beer. What kind of conversation are you going to get out of that?" Me, who is fighting off men left and right who can't even tell me where the term Reaganomics comes from. Me, who's personally embarrassed when a group of men is discussing Animal Crossing. Me, who has an awkward car ride home every day because literally, the only thing that gets talked about by the men in the car is D&D and complaining about work. Men, for GOD'S SAKE, if you want to attract a higher caliber woman then you NEED to be able to hold a conversation! Stop being bimbos!

  • Joy Hoss
    Joy HossΠριν μήνα

    I would love to upgrade my husband but after I start upgrading myself . I am trying to upgrade our son oh man it takes time and energy.

  • Lily in the Valley
    Lily in the ValleyΠριν μήνα

    Staying away from Average Joes, problem solved.

  • Cristina G.
    Cristina G.Πριν μήνα

    My hubby and I have been together since 1997. After so many Years together our relationship started to get boring... so I started to level up and study personal growth. And guess what my husband just follows me 😂 At his own pace, with his own preferences, ... He saved his money to fix his teeth🥳👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽And it's helping us to get to know ourselves, self love, self respect, set healthier boundaries and of course better relations 💕

  • Anne Fisher
    Anne FisherΠριν μήνα

    My husband and I were average joes when we met and married. We have grown through the years to apricate food, wine, travel, cultural events etc. He's my hero.

  • Maxwell Speedwell
    Maxwell SpeedwellΠριν μήνα

    No, no, no! Never go to a store for a suit. First, it just looks cheap. Second, a M-T-M suit will, quality for quality, cost much less than an off-the-rack garbage suit. I had just taken delivery of a suit, and then went with my wife to Nordstom's. The store had their finest men's suit on display, and at an unbelievably low price... about $100 more than my M-T-M suit, and it looked like trash! Terrible fabric, poor seams, and a total waste of money. Get a made-to-measure suit. Side by side, it is different in appearance , only to the trained eye, than a suit off Saville Row. A suit off a clothier from Saville Row can be $10,000. A MTM suit can be $1,000. An O-T-R suit is the most expensive. It will need to be frequently replaced, can cost you the promotion, a better table at a restaurant, or the woman. If you get a woman while wearing an OTR suit, then you probably didn't get one of good taste, and distinction. You need a woman tailored to your style and taste. Do you really want an "Off-the-Rack" woman? As a side note, Cubby Broccoli insisted that James Bond wear a custom tailored suit from a tailor on Saville Row. It shows. After Cubby passed, the suits became OTR, and the Bond mystique was shattered. Suddenly, James Bond was nothing more than an actor in a shabby suit trying to convince people he was Bond. Sean Connery WAS Bond, and his suit never gave away he was anything less. John T. Malloy stated that his research of young girls from Harlem, knew the differences of a properly dressed, and an improperly dressed man. They were not able to define how they knew, BUT, they DID know! Buy an Off-The-Rack suit and you are only fooling one person... yourself!

  • Urooj Ch
    Urooj ChΠριν 2 μήνες

    Well I think with love and care you can change someone personality instead of judging it’s really hard in the beginning but with time to time you will get the results ❤️

  • GrimoirNoir Seidenwolke
    GrimoirNoir SeidenwolkeΠριν 2 μήνες

    Why would I want to transform and change my man? I love him for who he is. This video makes no sense.

  • clarissa flowers
    clarissa flowersΠριν 2 μήνες

    The Billy Joel tune, "Just the way you are" comes to mind.

  • Aska Lemuralia
    Aska LemuraliaΠριν 2 μήνες

    Let me be frank: the only thing I expect from my average Joe (who btw likes to level up, but on his own pace, subconsciously) is to keep a straight back. I am not sure when hunching became socially acceptable, but whenever I wear my heels (8 cm tops) I feel like I am taller than him, he slouches so badly and there is a 15 cm difference between us!! I am losing my patience with him, it doesn't bother him, because the large majority of humans have a bad posture nowadays. We're in our 5th year in our relationship. I started to wonder if it's time to give up on this topic, but it makes me feel bad about holding his hand. And I don't think that's okay. Any advice, anyone?

  • MsArtaUSA
    MsArtaUSAΠριν 2 μήνες

    Oh NOOOO Ladies from my personal experience you never ever eveeerrr transform man! The moment you do you are putting them on the pedestal and kick yourself out of the pedestal. Remember you are the Queen and if he can't level up then you get a man that it's already level up. Never become Bob The Builder!!!!!!

  • dagmar kalina
    dagmar kalinaΠριν 2 μήνες

    I think you can level up together as a couple, but you both have to benefit from it equally. Never try to turn a frog into a prince, because then he will hate you and will leave you, as many ladies here can confirm. Why? Because people in general (not just men) hate the feeling that they owe somebody. They like to think that they reached success on their own, but the constant proximity of a person who built them up reminds them that's not true. They feel tied down by obligation to be grateful and repaying. So they figure out the best thing to do is to get that person out of their life!

  • N Priya
    N PriyaΠριν 2 μήνες

    Behind every successful man there is a woman. Let that woman be his mother ladies. Its not your duty to teach him.

  • mary-catherine ryan
    mary-catherine ryanΠριν 2 μήνες

    My Average Joe boyfriend and I came to compromise. He wears a nice shirt with jeans, we go to a high end places twice a month and our favorite place twice a year. We make new friends of all types, and it's so adorable that he brags on me and everything is " Mary says" LOL I don't claim to know everything, I just watch Anna's videos and took her course, and I'm on the waiting list for her newest course! LOL

  • Peachi peachi
    Peachi peachiΠριν 2 μήνες

    Don't take chance better don't date average Joe. Choose someone you wouldn't need to upgrade because men are deliquent they will leave you once they get a lot of women hovering around him after being leveled up.

  • Itslabidjanaise
    ItslabidjanaiseΠριν 2 μήνες

    Who else clicked because they red " level up FROM your average joe " ? 😅😅😅

  • Ajay Sharma
    Ajay SharmaΠριν 2 μήνες

    To all those girls who take time to see this and help your partner, your significant other is very lucky to have you . Hopefully ....

  • Lizzy Loca
    Lizzy LocaΠριν 2 μήνες

    Ok originally I wrote something negative...because I thought you can not change a man....but women would be surprised to know they act different for different women ...we make them better human beings too

  • g dc
    g dcΠριν 3 μήνες

    Anna would you be able to make a video about men attire? Thank you

  • Razia gomez
    Razia gomezΠριν 3 μήνες

    Anna, you are great.

  • Elsie Dankwa
    Elsie DankwaΠριν 4 μήνες

    Lol, my partner is definitely not an average Joe. He is a man making 6figures, my problem is, he wants to be an average Joe so bad! You’ll never for a second thought think he’s a millionaire! I don’t know what’s wrong with him but I’m yet to transform him hence, me watching this video because it affects how he spends on me too... he wants me too to be looking like a plain Jane which I totally hate 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • M. J. D.
    M. J. D.Πριν 4 μήνες

    I am so into The Gentleman Gazzete youtube channel. They make very nice videos about men's clothes

  • Angela Nix
    Angela NixΠριν 4 μήνες

    if i had the money i would do this

  • Lamia Lamia
    Lamia LamiaΠριν 4 μήνες

    I feel poor, and I am!

  • ladynottingham89
    ladynottingham89Πριν 4 μήνες

    I say lead by example and if he’s smart he’ll follow suit. If he starts feeling threatened and starting to pull you back down, well....you know what time it is ladies. I never think a woman should lead a man. It creates resentment in the man and it’s not good for a relationship. Don’t believe modern feminism and extreme leftists. There is a masculine and feminine nature.

  • Meenie Cutiepie
    Meenie CutiepieΠριν 4 μήνες

    A woman can't change a man because she loves him, a man changes himself because he loves her ❤

  • Firky Toodle
    Firky ToodleΠριν 4 μήνες

    Hi Anna, I am wondering if you have any insights to share about the affluent lifestyle and same-sex relationships or LGBTQ guidelines (even in friendships and connections).

  • anastácia.
    anastácia.Πριν 4 μήνες

    My husband was already high level when I married him, but as almost every german, I had to buy him new clothes. They have no sense of elegance whatsoever.

  • Nariskotch G
    Nariskotch GΠριν 4 μήνες

    Upgrade the man, but don’t mother him. You are not a parent. You will have to play as a hard catch. If it’s too easy for him he will leave. Mother him too much and you’ll have to deal with the monster in law that created his lazy complacency. Either way it’s a lose-lose situation. Classy women date GENTLEmen. Not boys.

  • Divine Angelic
    Divine AngelicΠριν 4 μήνες

    So true great advice thank you seriously

  • April Showers
    April ShowersΠριν 4 μήνες

    If a man could buy a $1000 suit, eat high end, shop high end, and take you on a luxurious vacation...I'd say he's already doing pretty well

  • Jharna Gill
    Jharna GillΠριν 5 μήνες

    you make amazing videos

  • Dating Fighter
    Dating FighterΠριν 5 μήνες

    I love how she called some men bimbo. Talk about flipping the script.

  • Solanchi Mama
    Solanchi MamaΠριν 5 μήνες

    Thanks so much ANNA

  • divya bhatnagar
    divya bhatnagarΠριν 5 μήνες

    The end part, hit me hard.

  • Cosette Lewallen
    Cosette LewallenΠριν 5 μήνες

    What if I make more money and have more money than he does?

  • Martyna Noise
    Martyna NoiseΠριν 5 μήνες

    And how is this average Joe going to afford all that with his average salary? 😝

  • arsalan kiani
    arsalan kianiΠριν 5 μήνες


  • Brittany
    BrittanyΠριν 5 μήνες

    Just ask Anna Ferris what happened to her when her Average Joe husband became hot

  • Ayanda Dube
    Ayanda DubeΠριν 6 μήνες

    can we have a video on levelling up our kids' wardrobe

  • Wine Country
    Wine CountryΠριν 6 μήνες

    I can't get the cheat sheet to finish downloading, what am I doing wrong?

  • BlueRose
    BlueRoseΠριν 6 μήνες

    OMG I died when she said that 'bimbo' applies to men too. It is so true. I live in a city where there is tons of them, they wear baseball cap, washed out denim, white sneakers and talk about soccer, beer all the time. The majority are over weight, don't have a descent hair cut, and they are so out of touch with elegance, culture and so forth. You can even find them in the middle of the rich, they are usually men that succeeded professionally and financially, but didn't pay much attention on their appearances or didn't spend much time leveling up in other areas of their lives.

  • Sammie Jay

    Sammie Jay

    Πριν 3 μήνες

    The Loner Millionaire that’s so true. Who cares waht other people think I’m sick and tired of everyone being so materialistic it’s disgustingg

  • David Jones
    David JonesΠριν 6 μήνες

    The idea that putting effort into a man is a waste because your only upgrading him for the next girl is half silly. Only half cause I can see and have seen that happen. But most relationships fail so it may not be because he now thinks he can do better but simply your relationship with him was one that failed. It can also be half wrong because everybody men and women always look to date up, women like success and for men its beauty and femininity for the most part. And while they upgrade their men they forget or dont see that they should be upgrading themselves as well and there's the catch in upgrading a man. But I'm a firm believer in if you upgrade yourself while your upgrading your man he'll have more appreciation for you then a man who was already upgraded when you meet him but, upgrading a man requires a woman to in part take a leadership role in the relationship even in a passive manner and once he's grown confident he'll want to lead and I think the inability to do so especially after already leading and finding success by upgrading him or the lack of foresight to know when to do so is where your getting the resentment or the idea that your mothering from the man. Letting a man lead is apart of the femininity that I earlier said is what men want.

  • Emily F.
    Emily F.Πριν 6 μήνες

    I know a lot of the comments are like omg never do this, but I'd love to hear more on this topic. My partner isn't an "average joe" to me, he's kind, gentle, intelligent, interested in arts & culture, on-track in his career, and basically ready to be high-level. He has an average job but even in the year we've been together I've watched him progress in his career & work toward his goals. Part of his attraction to me was my commitment to being high-calibre & successful, too. The main thing he needs my help with is around his appearance - so personal style, grooming etc. I've started slow & small, as I don't want him to feel like I need him to change, but it's all about helping him actually becoming the man he envisions - just in the spots he's a bit blind to, ha. (Especially as past girlfriends gave him horrendous style advice & from pictures I've seen they didn't have the first clue for themselves or for him.) He's been so excited with the upgrades I've helped him with so far, and has commented how he does feel like they level him up (I've never explicitly said this is a goal here - it's just something I'm subtly doing for now but may bring it up more explicitly when I feel the time is right). So I'd love more tips on high calibre male style & lifestyle.

  • Martyna Sołtys
    Martyna SołtysΠριν 6 μήνες

    If that's the right man, you'll both grow and "level up" without even realising.

  • Sarona
    SaronaΠριν 6 μήνες

    No no no. What we are NOT going to do is help upgrade a man for another woman

  • Wootia Tutci

    Wootia Tutci

    Πριν μήνα

    So, true! I did that before. He discovered new himself and wanted to test it around!

  • Mary Yam

    Mary Yam

    Πριν μήνα


  • ven


    Πριν μήνα

    all of u need an upgrade first

  • Peachi peachi

    Peachi peachi

    Πριν 2 μήνες

    So true👍 instead date someone you would never have to upgrade.

  • Stephanie Ryan-Skahan
    Stephanie Ryan-SkahanΠριν 6 μήνες

    I understand what you are saying Anna. I am already married to a kind and loving man. But we could both keep upgrading ourselves because we want to level up our family for our children’s future. I am the one that discovered you first so I am the one bringing the idea of upgrading to the table. And Now that my husband has the right attitude, he is a happy and willing participant. He had to decide for himself that it is a good idea after watching my results.

  • Miss Fox
    Miss FoxΠριν 6 μήνες

    Anna I need to know about breaking up with your average joe boyfriend... he's great and all but... I just don't see a long term anymore and I know I want more... a lot more.. but at what point am I just being vain?

  • chou cha
    chou chaΠριν 6 μήνες

    I believe Anna is so proud of this comment section 😂❤ An elegant lady doesn't raise a grown man from scratch 👌

  • Sayalii Kemkar
    Sayalii KemkarΠριν 6 μήνες

    Anna ..that blue top is really far from elegance dude ..!

  • Danielle Emily
    Danielle EmilyΠριν 6 μήνες

    Miami guys need this video so very badly.

  • Marilyn Tucker
    Marilyn TuckerΠριν 6 μήνες

    I hear a lot of people keep on speaking about Troplusfix Dating Secrets. But I'm uncertain if it's good. Have you ever tried this popular dating secrets?

  • Ray Ibo
    Ray IboΠριν 6 μήνες

    I would go to museum but never ever oprah.

  • Anna Harner
    Anna HarnerΠριν 6 μήνες

    As a woman who’s engaged to a man who’s willing to change, I’m seriously thinking about sending my fiancé this link.

  • austrianpenguin
    austrianpenguinΠριν 6 μήνες

    Shopping for men is easy *laughing in girlfriend*

  • R Lavender
    R LavenderΠριν 6 μήνες

    I'm seeing lots of people saying once you help a man to be his best he'll leave. Well..as long as you're doing it in the right attitude I don't see what the problem is. Many guys rely on their wives or daughters to dress them n help them with their presentation. After all, it's not really the most masculine thing, is it? A woman traditionally is supposed to flatter her husband by making him present better both by being her best self and giving him good advice on what looks good on him. Why men would leave..idk what that is. Guess you picked the wrong man. I think we chicks settle a LOT. We're so used to this "oh, he's okay" attitude that we don't admit that one, we've never really been that crazy for any man n two, we can choose who we love. So I choose to just love my pets. They've been there for me and are my best friends. I say thsy guy who leaves you was never right in the first place. I agree he probably feels mothered. But it's pointless to leave a solid woman. Seems too prideful. However, you should see this for what it is: a compliment. Men who are extremely immature do not like being with mature acting, sophisticated ladies. Even if she's half their age. Men do not grow up. They are perpetually 9.

  • kcjm
    kcjmΠριν 6 μήνες

    Lol the title is iconic

  • Dust Of Light
    Dust Of LightΠριν 6 μήνες

    What is the characteristics of an average joe to begin with?

  • Leidy Reyes
    Leidy ReyesΠριν 6 μήνες

    Wow, I love your dress! It looks beautiful on you 😍

  • Lin Beek
    Lin BeekΠριν 6 μήνες

    You killed my dreams in the first two minutes of this video lmao

  • Sabrina Harkat
    Sabrina HarkatΠριν 6 μήνες

    I don't wanna waste my time with a poor man

  • Ashley
    AshleyΠριν 6 μήνες

    Me: a lesbian Also me: still watches this because I love a queen

  • Violinda Lola
    Violinda LolaΠριν 6 μήνες

    When you said McDonalds, I died laughing! I still can't stop laughing! I just broke up with my boyfriend. He was affluent but he was drinking 2 bottles of wine everyday and during quarantine I couldn't handle it. He didn't want me to help and change that terrible habit he possessed abusing alcohol. Unfortunate because he was the best boyfriend I had. God help him.

  • D M
    D MΠριν 6 μήνες

    I am so glad you touched base on this subject. Environment, in my humble opinion, is so important because we are such visual creatures by nature. We become what we surround ourselves with, people, neighbors, friends etc. even the clothes, fabrics, textures and colors we surround our bodies with. Travel and culture is continued life education, it helps us evolve and become more understanding and open minded. There are so many men who just need a special woman to open the door for them, introduce them to culture and experience. Maybe they didn't have any maternal examples to introduce them to these things while they were children. Let's face it, women are more expressive in beauty than men, collectively speaking.Thank you for making the video and touching on this subject. As usual, you are wise beyond your years!

  • Michelle V
    Michelle VΠριν 6 μήνες

    Hello ladies, I’d like to ask a favour to all of you to kindly share you advice on something that’s been happening in my relationship. I’ve mentioned to my fiancé that it is my dream to be a homemaker and have many children. Whenever I mention that, he scoffs and says “Well I wish I didn’t have to work either. It’s just what you have to do in this world.” Kind of shaming this desire and making me feel down about it. His argument is that his Mom gave birth to him and then went straight to work after that. But I don’t want that for myself. He says “If you don’t work, how can we survive and get the dream life you want?” I love my fiancé; and I truly feel like we make each other better people. Do I have my head in the clouds here? Or is he being too harsh and judgemental on women who are homemakers? ..

  • Mel


    Πριν 6 μήνες

    Please do not stay. This attitude and belief shows his core values. He's been honest about how he views women and his expectation is that you will work. In my experience the men that I have met have ended up divorced and with resentment and one of the contributing factors was that their wives were just sick of contributing 50% of expenses, raising the children and taking on the whole mental load of running a household. Please you're still young, don't make this mistake.

  • M. Roman
    M. RomanΠριν 6 μήνες

    Wonderful: “bimbo” does not just apply to women!

  • Diana C
    Diana CΠριν 6 μήνες

    My husband is makes a middle class salary but he is educated, well dressed, refined and well traveled. So basically he is leveled up in ways other than money. Also, I find the ambiance of the rich very uptight and not much fun. We love to travel to adventurous places and eat at cool restaurants. Some of the most expensive spots are more about brand and being seen than the food and experience.

  • Bianca M. Nieme
    Bianca M. NiemeΠριν 6 μήνες

    Lets be honest : you can choose the best man in the world but that doesn’t mean that he wants sex outside your relationship in a nightclub and pay for a professionel erotic model ! Are you talking ladies with your boyfriend about this tabu? Cause this is reality and 60 - 70% of all men do this. Ether educated or not! How you would fix it ? Nobody wants to talk about it and every lady thinks: no my man isn’t going this way.

  • Eugen Malatov
    Eugen MalatovΠριν 6 μήνες

    Great video. Great channel. There are few personal development channels for women (in society most women rather think that things are supposed to fall into their lap) and as a guy I really appreciate this female perspective on things. It is interesting to notice that many tips and topics are very similar to what you can also find in personal development videos targeted at a male audience. Oh, and please don't shun me out, just because I am a guy ;) I know, a huge part of men are unbearable on the internet, quickly offended, very rude, unable to engage in a sophisticated conversation. I am not one of these.

  • Eugen Malatov
    Eugen MalatovΠριν 6 μήνες

    What if as a man you are rather interested in culture and outdoor activities than posh millionaire places full of shallow and snobbish people? Or how to avoid them? If you prefer getting to know new cultures, learning new languages, in distant places ... to discussions about the pros and cons of a 10,000€ Château Lafite or meeting people at an art gallery where they try to explain the newest pieces of "degenerate" art to you? Would for example a university professor in Bulgaria also count as interesting, and attractive, or would you - elegant ladies - consider him to be unworthy because he does not have the money to offer you an aristocratic life? Curious about hearing different opinions.

  • Don’t Ask me
    Don’t Ask meΠριν 6 μήνες

    I think you’re awesome Anna, but like you stated you don’t know how these broke ass men operate. 🤣😂 I would not suggest doing these things with men of this era because most well level up and leave you behind! From experience, I know🤦🏾‍♀️

  • DeepSeaRockMonster
    DeepSeaRockMonsterΠριν 6 μήνες

    OMG THANK YOU!! This is literally the focus of my relationship right now. You read my mind. Thank you💖. Fortunately my man is dedicated to growth. I will apply your advice. 😼

  • Natalia Brizuela
    Natalia BrizuelaΠριν 6 μήνες

    thank you again anna, my man definitely has good taste in places we visit. we go to polo matches, art openings, ballet functions, high end restaurants and so on, he also leads a very healthy lifestyle. but for the love of god, the only thing bad about him is the way he dresses!! i need to get him to a tailor ASAP! I'm just not sure how to approach the subject.

  • Emma Fujii
    Emma FujiiΠριν 6 μήνες

    There's so much elegance and grace in the way Anna handled this topic without shaming anyone. I would feel comfortable talking to Anna even wearing rags, (not that I'd go out wearing them!) because her elegance is a mindset that radiates out from within.

  • light aurore
    light auroreΠριν 6 μήνες

    Nope i broke up and i'am happy i want an affluent man :D i'am changing my category

  • cou cou
    cou couΠριν 6 μήνες

    Make a vedio ln how to upgrade pour homes decoration

  • Cleopatra TROPHY WIFE
    Cleopatra TROPHY WIFEΠριν 6 μήνες

    😌 Rule no. 1 Never make your man upgrade in terms of what he wears .. if your not assured about his loyalty 💯 ! You would only make him presentable for other low value women. Just make him earn more ..

  • Lizzie Tang
    Lizzie TangΠριν 6 μήνες

    I upgraded my ex. Got him a job, bought him nice wallet and shoes and cellphone... I mean he’s a good man ... but I feel like I’m his mother.

  • La'Quia
    La'QuiaΠριν 6 μήνες

    A woman leveling up should be enough to influence him to level up himself without her suggesting him to do so. In short: Get on my level or Get the F out.

  • Heidy Preston
    Heidy PrestonΠριν 6 μήνες

    Ladies the only way of fixing an average Joe is replacing him 🙅🏻‍♀️

  • Heidy Preston
    Heidy PrestonΠριν 6 μήνες

    Oh lord I tried all of this and the best thing I did breaking up with my average Joe. 🙅🏻‍♀️

  • Jessica Ortiz
    Jessica OrtizΠριν 6 μήνες

    Hi i just want to say i came across your channel and love it. But can you make a video on how to be elegant and look young? I find that alot of the elegant clothing suits a certain age group and its not for all.

  • W Mortimore
    W MortimoreΠριν 6 μήνες

    As a man you can always improve. By studying your channel I can also help my children to level up. Thank you

  • Sandra Kersey
    Sandra KerseyΠριν 6 μήνες

    I am a coach and have a high end client who’s guy is very successful, knows how to dress and carry himself. He’s very engaging and an excellent communicator and leader. However, he gossips and is critical in a way that...how do I say, carries himself like EF Hutton. When he speaks, people listen. So whether true or false, he’s funny, engaging, convincing...yet damaging. And then there’s an issue with sexual addiction damaging the marriage relationship. What’s been your experience and suggestion to women who find that the charming man they’ve been with for some time has gradually allowed power, prestige and money go to his head?

  • Jessie Reidman
    Jessie ReidmanΠριν 6 μήνες

    I am curious, do anyone know who are great examples of affluent/elegant men?

  • sgt tracey jovel caoile
    sgt tracey jovel caoileΠριν 6 μήνες

    really love this video, my man is just average but he is willing to change and accept about leveling up, i remember how surprised he was when i brought him in a museum and the impression he made when he got to meet my girlfriends in a high end resto... just wanna share because i really can relate with your advice beacause it works...

  • Myramirza
    MyramirzaΠριν 6 μήνες

    Even if you manage to persuade your average Joe to buy a £2000 suit- where is he going to wear that suit to? Average Joe, average circle lol

  • Dylan Darke
    Dylan DarkeΠριν 6 μήνες

    Seen this with a relative. The reality was "average joe" wasn't an adult, he was a child in a man's body who needed someone to direct his entire life. He went from mother to army (where they told him what to do 24/7) back to mother, then to wife. It was a ridiculous arrangement and she deserved better. Run from this guy.

  • Linda B
    Linda BΠριν 6 μήνες

    Why trying to change a man instead of EXCHANGING him with a man you REALLY want? Because once you've put all your time & effort into leveling him up, most likely HE's gonna exchange you for a woman HE really wants!

  • MrsRubycoco
    MrsRubycocoΠριν 6 μήνες

    dear anna, can you maybe do a video about jealousy/ cheating video? And how to handle with this situation?

  • krysty34
    krysty34Πριν 6 μήνες

    Could you please do a video on lunch date outfit ideas?

  • Manuela Schmied
    Manuela SchmiedΠριν 6 μήνες

    Why going with Joe to transform him if you want a gentleman? Never no how the result will turn out, Joe is not made out of clay

  • Priyanka Valvai
    Priyanka ValvaiΠριν 6 μήνες

    Dear ana, I request you to make a video on " how to know whether a man is REALLY rich" There are a lot of fakes out there..

  • ThePrettyPaw


    Πριν 6 μήνες

    Why do you need a rich man? How much money do you want him to make?

  • Astr0n0mical _

    Astr0n0mical _

    Πριν 6 μήνες

    I AGREE!

  • AtomicPlayGirl 66
    AtomicPlayGirl 66Πριν 6 μήνες

    1990, My former husband was so excited to take me to dinner at a Michelin star restaurant. But I was terrified for him because I knew he had no knowledge of proper dining etiquette. So I checked out an etiquette book for us to read together. We practiced at home, making it fun to learn the rules. Let me tell you! When we finally made it to the 5 star restaurant my husband was beaming with pride and because he knew exactly what to do, he was able to relax and enjoy the experience. Dining is like dancing once you know the rules!

  • Raisa Arce
    Raisa ArceΠριν 6 μήνες

    If ur gonna make this investment make sure he invests in u as well

  • Angela Rose
    Angela RoseΠριν 6 μήνες

    "And also hopefully pay for the whole thing" I laughed so hard!! Your charisma and humor is just great!

  • Laysla Martins
    Laysla MartinsΠριν 6 μήνες

    Since you are an elegant lady ❤️, why don't you make a video with an elegant gentleman? I think would be so cool to watch you and Matthew Hussey, for instance! Just a suggestion 💋

  • L H
    L HΠριν 6 μήνες

    About 4 years ago, when me and my boyfriend were still friend, we exchanged different “what if” conversations, and one question came into our conversation was “what kind of people you can’t seems to date base on their career?” And I said “probably artist, or career that will be harder to support their day to day expenses ”....... Fast forward, I wonder if that changed his mind to choose his major in college, but he surely choose the major that money and finding a job won’t be an issue. 😂 Bottom line is, we all want a certain life style for ourself, as an individual, we need to know what kind of life style we want and the right “team mate “ that we see ourself to spend the rest of our life with. I am always trying to be an independent woman like how my mom raised me, but finding the right person that should be better, if not, atleast the same level with you should matter, ALOT. We can’t Change anyone that don’t want to be change, however, we can influence them and see if they are willing to adjust themself. And if they truly care about you and want to build a future with you, they will do whatever it takes, GLADLY. ❤️

  • Elle r
    Elle rΠριν 6 μήνες

    I wanted to date a man who wants to grow and level up his life with experiences and knowledge!-like me. He doesn't have to be rich, he can be average but he has to have some kind of motivation to improve and work on himself. I had to date a lot of guys to find my match... Don't give up if you're still looking ladies! Don't settle for the average Joe. Find someone who will give you 110% and inspire each other to be 120...150.....200%!