10 Things Elegant Ladies Should Wear BUT DON'T

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In today’s video let’s talk about the rules of elegance and whether you should follow all of them to look elegant and if you don’t, are you still elegant? Also, download my FREE Cheatsheet: How To Look Expensive (regardless of budget!) classycheatsheet.com
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  • L G
    L GΠριν 6 ώρες

    Sneakers tip: ETQ Amsterdam. This a Dutch based company with high quality leather sneakers I love! Very minimal and clean design

  • Shobana B
    Shobana BΠριν 6 ώρες

    I always like when u say, dont show the flesh..

  • Zvezdochka
    ZvezdochkaΠριν 3 ημέρες

    I need to show my cleavage ( I don't have any and i am very up tight )lol...

  • Betty Ramsey
    Betty RamseyΠριν 4 ημέρες

    Would it be correct to wear a vintage diamond watch at night?

  • Antonia Uribe
    Antonia UribeΠριν 7 ημέρες

    I’m quite flat chested and I think it looks really nice to have a lower cut top. It can looks very feminine and a bit sexy

  • Antonia Uribe
    Antonia UribeΠριν 7 ημέρες

    I remember having to wear tights with my school kilt, all wool. It was so silly and awful when it started getting warmer

  • Jennifer Ocomen
    Jennifer OcomenΠριν 7 ημέρες

    Luv you ma'am. You are straight to the point😊

  • marta regar
    marta regarΠριν 11 ημέρες

    Shoes number 5 6 7 is the worst and hororrrr.....

  • SubRosa33
    SubRosa33Πριν 16 ημέρες

    Too much exposure of womens bodies. Its cheap. Modesty please!!

  • Eileen Ceccucci
    Eileen CeccucciΠριν 17 ημέρες

    Pearl earrings would be more elegant with your outfit if elegance is the theme.

  • Yuliya Chekrizova
    Yuliya ChekrizovaΠριν 18 ημέρες

    Even just watching and hearing from you bring me please!

  • kim
    kimΠριν 19 ημέρες

    Love your videos😊

  • Kate Fisher
    Kate FisherΠριν 19 ημέρες

    Can someone please mention high end brands to get good quality classy clothes??

  • Ari Torrence
    Ari TorrenceΠριν 22 ημέρες

    You look like you should be the president of the United States elegant lady definitely 💖

  • Changu Changu
    Changu ChanguΠριν 22 ημέρες

    Some of us don't have cars so sneaker is a must

  • Marcenia Williams
    Marcenia WilliamsΠριν 26 ημέρες

    Thanks, your english is soooo clear with that beautiful accent.

  • Sara Schwarz
    Sara SchwarzΠριν 26 ημέρες

    One of my favourite looks on you by far Anna! You always look elegant and beautiful but this berry coloured silk on you is everything 😍✨

  • estelle biyiha
    estelle biyihaΠριν μήνα

    totally agree pearls are so chic

  • Katarina Stanković
    Katarina StankovićΠριν μήνα

    would love to see a type of 'how to dress up for running or gym' video. love all ur videos and ur mindset!

  • Joy love free
    Joy love freeΠριν μήνα

    You're so beautiful 🌷

  • Chocolate Lushie
    Chocolate LushieΠριν μήνα

    I have a couple of pearl necklaces I got as gifts. They are small sleek necklaces, and I usually wrap them around my wrists and just wear them as bracelets.

  • Elena Trejos
    Elena TrejosΠριν μήνα

    Pearls look very good on the executive office look. I wore gray pearls necklace and tiny diamonds for earrings for a job interview and I totally nailed it 🍀. I am 33

  • Adrienne Miller
    Adrienne MillerΠριν μήνα

    Sorry. Sandals in winter on a woman grates like “sandals worn with socks” on a man... no. Just no.

  • Yoshiko Yamamoto
    Yoshiko YamamotoΠριν μήνα

    For me womens wearing hat in restaurants is perfectly fine! Because it is part of accessory and i disagree with you this one...

  • Phi Do
    Phi DoΠριν μήνα

    I like your way to make it! Thanks

  • Avneet Kaur
    Avneet KaurΠριν μήνα

    I think lil cleavage is fine but than your dress should be long enough to cover legs. Either legs or lil cleavage otherwise it doesn't look nice

  • meg arbo
    meg arboΠριν μήνα

    I nearly always wear a watch. I often get compliments on some of them.

  • meg arbo
    meg arboΠριν μήνα

    Hpw do I ask this....If one goes out for an evening where one is wearing Spanx....HOW does one handle that when becoming intimate with one's man? I should think we want to keep Spanx secret?Just me?

  • Carolyn Provost
    Carolyn ProvostΠριν μήνα

    Classy not trashy ;) Motto to live by.

  • Beth Sellers
    Beth SellersΠριν μήνα

    my husband likes me in nude hose because I always have bruises and HE feels that my banged up legs reflect poorly on him. I think pearls are perfect for the office. conservative is not bad when serving as a manager etc.

  • Alia Al Kaabi
    Alia Al KaabiΠριν μήνα

    Bare legs are not hygienic 👍🏻 The more you cover your body, the more you are protected from pollution.

  • Amy Young
    Amy YoungΠριν μήνα

    I feel that people should stop worrying about what everyone thinks and just be yourself!

  • Luciana Meroni
    Luciana MeroniΠριν μήνα

    Spanks I never used it

  • amadaria
    amadariaΠριν μήνα

    My rule for pantyhose is this: Church or another formal event? Yes. No matter how long or short your dress. Anywhere else: Are your knees showing? Then hose. Knees covered? Your good.

  • Fireflifli Hi
    Fireflifli HiΠριν μήνα

    Eewww. Men always want to wear sneakers 👟

  • Fireflifli Hi
    Fireflifli HiΠριν μήνα

    You have the best personality 😍

  • Fireflifli Hi

    Fireflifli Hi

    Πριν μήνα

    I’ve been to five countries and lived all across the states and PHX women show no skin ever, no color, no prints, no personality bland bland blandest place I’ve ever been in my life and the men too and it has to do with the sun maybe because it’s deathly and the wind is full of toxic dust but classy here is boring and bland

  • Fireflifli Hi

    Fireflifli Hi

    Πριν μήνα

    All PHX women Lord help them can they PLEAsE show some cleavage somewhere, somehow tapioca balls in the pudding please

  • Fireflifli Hi

    Fireflifli Hi

    Πριν μήνα

    Just a low slit for evening wear

  • Fireflifli Hi

    Fireflifli Hi

    Πριν μήνα

    Show those guns 💪 LOL

  • Fireflifli Hi
    Fireflifli HiΠριν μήνα

    If I had an affluent husband I’d say let me take your money and design the best and make us more money 😜

  • Fireflifli Hi
    Fireflifli HiΠριν μήνα

    Small pearl mules

  • Fireflifli Hi
    Fireflifli HiΠριν μήνα

    Pearls with a flirty with a neon silk dress with ruffles 😎

  • Fireflifli Hi
    Fireflifli HiΠριν μήνα

    Can’t dress elegantly in sweaty underarms on a silk blouse :( please adjust an episode for tropics dressing classy

  • Fireflifli Hi
    Fireflifli HiΠριν μήνα

    Make these rules for tropical zones! HahahahahahahHhhaaa hhahahhhhhhhhh no hosiery

  • Shandahl Ibarra
    Shandahl IbarraΠριν μήνα

    You are so beautiful and put together.

  • Shandahl Ibarra
    Shandahl IbarraΠριν μήνα

    Spanx is a good idea/tip.

  • C-arise D
    C-arise DΠριν μήνα

    Charise here...Ana you are simply divine....I have watched and shared your Pearls of Wisdom for 1 Year now and I must say you never disappoint. Your videos are so enlightening, challenging and real. God Bless You....Keep up the Good Work!

  • Glynis Jones
    Glynis JonesΠριν μήνα

    You are so different....that's why I watch this channel!

  • mjones
    mjonesΠριν μήνα

    its so funny when i was a young girl i was such a little lady, wearing heels & dresses on sports day XD .. now i wear SWEATPANTS, what has happened??!?!?!?!?!

  • Grazia SCARCELLI
    Grazia SCARCELLIΠριν μήνα

    Love your Channel ❤️

  • janekadequay
    janekadequayΠριν μήνα

    I love this top! Is it a dress?

  • Sabila


    Πριν μήνα

    It's a top from Nili Lotan! :)

  • Sazin Mofaq
    Sazin MofaqΠριν μήνα

    That earring tho...

  • J B
    J BΠριν μήνα

    I wear Pearl's everyday I love them

  • Neenee Evans
    Neenee EvansΠριν μήνα

    Love that blouse!

  • michelle mcgill
    michelle mcgillΠριν 2 μήνες

    No matter your shape Spanx ( or shape wear in general) can help you feel more confident and look a bit sleeker I have naturally large Breasts so I have to be covered up & wear a minimizer otherwise, no matter what I wear it will look vulgar.

  • Coach Karin
    Coach KarinΠριν 2 μήνες

    I have found sizing up with Spanx or similar items makes them far more bearable and actually smoother...however them or hose in Arizona when it’s 110 or more 🥵 may not happen! And yes, a pair of drop pearl earrings would look amazing with what you have on! Flight attendants always have two pairs of shoes, one for in airport when people can see their feet and a comfortable pair on the plane when they don’t but still in compliance.

  • Cielo Valdez Xolot
    Cielo Valdez XolotΠριν 2 μήνες

    I LOVE that blouse. Would you mind sharing where you got it?

  • Lyssm Sarona
    Lyssm SaronaΠριν 2 μήνες

    My educator would come dressed up in shorts and sandals in winter and summer. Her: open the windows it's hot Me: wth

  • Shiny Thaliyachira
    Shiny ThaliyachiraΠριν 2 μήνες

    🙏💝thank dear for enriching me

  • Liliana G.
    Liliana G.Πριν 2 μήνες

    Ohh that's why you are all about etiquette, your parents sent you to a special school. Makes sense then why you see it all in a limited way. Well, i get it, it's too much at times, sometimes can be useful, but things can be extreme. It's nice to live a life without controlling every single thing. hehe

  • Miss M. K.
    Miss M. K.Πριν 2 μήνες

    You remind me a lot of a possible personification of capricorn sign. This "I'm worth all this & I want all that" (:

  • Esther Kanini
    Esther KaniniΠριν 2 μήνες

    I love rocking my bare legs!!!

  • Jodie Magbutay
    Jodie MagbutayΠριν 2 μήνες

    Wonderful video. I learned a lot from you. Thank you very much Ms. Ana❤️ Love from Philippines☺️❤️

  • Orion Star
    Orion StarΠριν 2 μήνες

    My mom once told me that during the day she used smaller pearls and below the collar bone I do not know if that is like old fashion rule or she invented it....but she worked them during the day and never looked inappropriate. Concerning the cleavage....my told me a rule ... depending the rime of the day and place...the bigger the cup size the less amount of cleavage you should show. Is not the same when a CCC cup size lady wears a strapless dress than when a A cup size lady wears a strapless dress.

  • avi
    aviΠριν 2 μήνες

    Diamonds shine better in the sunlight

  • Escola do Jovem Advogado
    Escola do Jovem AdvogadoΠριν 2 μήνες

    Anna: My dear elegant ladies Me: 💁‍♀️

  • patricia stewart
    patricia stewartΠριν 2 μήνες

    Crocs with socks! just kidding 😁😁😁😁🙏🍀😭

  • patricia stewart

    patricia stewart

    Πριν 2 μήνες

    ...just KIDDING

  • patricia stewart
    patricia stewartΠριν 2 μήνες

    Diamond "tennis" bracelets began to relax the diamond "rule"

  • Terri Cain
    Terri CainΠριν 2 μήνες

    I feel pearls timelessly classy and are always in style. I know my remark goes against your rules of what is appropriate to talk about it is not my intent to offend or make one feel bad.

  • HPM
    HPMΠριν 2 μήνες

    I love these videos and I agree with all of your talking points. Thank you!

  • Linda Anderson
    Linda AndersonΠριν 2 μήνες

    I love this , We need guidelines as a base . To me it's lazy not to take the time to think before you go out , even if you do it the night before .🦋🤗🦋

  • Wendy Newton
    Wendy NewtonΠριν 2 μήνες

    I condsider an oxford or a canvas shoe as a sneaker.

  • dwit
    dwitΠριν 2 μήνες

    i feel so special being referred to as an 'elegant lady' 🥺🥺💖

  • Aimée O'Sullivan
    Aimée O'SullivanΠριν 2 μήνες

    Where do you put your hat when you are eating? Please help this is something I have bumped into and have yet to figure out and I enjoy wearing hats but if there is no coat check I don’t know where to put my hat! Haha

  • Serah Olivia
    Serah OliviaΠριν 2 μήνες

    I've a slight sensory issue with textures. Tights are a no-no against my skin.

  • Lady Vegan
    Lady VeganΠριν 2 μήνες

    You are soooo beautiful and elegant 👏🏻💯✅💓

  • Macy
    MacyΠριν 2 μήνες

    What about gloves?

  • R ROD
    R RODΠριν 2 μήνες

    Absolutely loved her sarcasm in this video! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • Sarah Bruen
    Sarah BruenΠριν 2 μήνες

    I wear my pearls about 3x a week. Be sure to keep your pearls clean ladies, proper care is essential for longevity. I adore the silk top in this video.

  • Tati Pinto
    Tati PintoΠριν 2 μήνες

    How to be elegant lady when you are no rich to get your Louis Vuitton snickers 😧... ???

  • it's me, Georgina
    it's me, GeorginaΠριν 2 μήνες

    Bare legs ok in daytime, but at night for eating out or a party.. nude hosiery

  • Franka Zorić
    Franka ZorićΠριν 2 μήνες

    In this video you look stunning!

  • Hill Roberts
    Hill RobertsΠριν 2 μήνες

    Does plastic surgery form part of "being elegant"??

  • Joan Hall
    Joan HallΠριν 2 μήνες

    A thought about the cleavage question -- I am 74, and would never go out with my upper arms showing, because they are no longer attractive. However, I will go with a very modest bit of cleavage for evening. When you reach my age, you may find that the skin on your breasts is the smoothest, prettiest skin on your body!

  • K
    KΠριν 2 μήνες

    The sneakers part terrorized me for a minute😭

  • Dora Alexander
    Dora AlexanderΠριν 2 μήνες

    Visit Naples, Florida.....all of the ladies wear hats.

  • Elizabeth Abudakar
    Elizabeth AbudakarΠριν 2 μήνες

    What about mail color? Does your mail color shows elegance?

  • Jessie Fox
    Jessie FoxΠριν 2 μήνες

    For me, Uggs boots for winter all winter.

  • Margot Wientjes
    Margot WientjesΠριν 2 μήνες

    Love this color on you

  • Abeetle’s Life
    Abeetle’s LifeΠριν 2 μήνες

    Maybe I haven’t found the right type but I always had problem with spanx rolling down and cutting into my fat making my overall look even worse. So I’m skipping it😅

  • Lilly Gutierrez
    Lilly GutierrezΠριν 2 μήνες

    Spandex gives great shapes

  • 6767iris
    6767irisΠριν 2 μήνες

    Ok ok!👍

    MALAIKA KINGΠριν 2 μήνες

    Thank you so much. I found your channel this morning and I can't get enough of your content!

  • Adejumoke Sherlock
    Adejumoke SherlockΠριν 2 μήνες

    Pearls, tights, closed toe shoes - very Eurocentric rules. No problem there, just saying that definition of elegance is culturally specific and not universal

  • Maria Oyine
    Maria OyineΠριν 2 μήνες

    Great, I follow you alot.and I love all your videos.. keep it up please.

  • Elizabeth Montijo
    Elizabeth MontijoΠριν 2 μήνες

    I love that we are finally getting back to celebrating and practicing elegance. I'm so elated to see beautiful young people (male and female) coming back to a place where presenting your best self is appreciated.

  • Maxwell Speedwell
    Maxwell SpeedwellΠριν 2 μήνες

    Bare legs under a skirt... ughhh. So very few women can pull that off. Pearls (understated of course) are still classy.

  • Justiceforall
    JusticeforallΠριν 2 μήνες

    I agree with most of the things you say here and I've learned something as I often where my big summer hats and felt winter hats to dinner. The only that I don't agree with are following trends or wearing expensive name brands.

  • rozie baybe
    rozie baybeΠριν 3 μήνες

    "old teenagers"😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • Nandini Thakur
    Nandini ThakurΠριν 3 μήνες

    Hey,Ana I want ur guidance for this do permanent body tattoos looks cheap on elegant ladies ???

  • Nandini Thakur

    Nandini Thakur

    Πριν 2 μήνες

    @Lucy Braun really thanku for ur guidance I was planning to make one but now I won't

  • Lucy Braun

    Lucy Braun

    Πριν 2 μήνες

    Super cheap. Yuck!

  • Pam C
    Pam CΠριν 3 μήνες

    Anna you look lovely.

  • Pam C
    Pam CΠριν 3 μήνες

    One simple row of pearls can be elegant in evening with cocktail dress

  • Pam C
    Pam CΠριν 3 μήνες

    Pearls are nice. I like smaller jewelry normally. But I love large diamonds and colored stones. Lol