Real Life HORROR Stories About Cheap Men (I'm Shocked!)

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These are the real life horror stories of cheap and stingy men that I want to share with you, so you can stop and reevaluate how you’re being treated by men and hopefully stop accepting, the unacceptable treatment. You deserve better. A high-quality man will never treat a woman like this. And if you want to have a higher chance of meeting a real gentleman, you can download a FREE cheat sheet: where you’ll find 210 places where you can meet high-quality men.
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  • Laura A.
    Laura A.Πριν 9 ώρες

    Once a guy asked me out and I had to pick him up 😄 of course it was the first and last time he saw me

  • chriz youtube
    chriz youtubeΠριν ημέρα

    Omg !! I was in doubt whether to continue my relationship or not. We are dating for 1 year. But so far I have never get even a lovely word (not talking about flowers , gifts. :P I have never got any gifts) But he is having a good job, money and he spend him self.

  • Sunshine Ccc
    Sunshine CccΠριν 2 ημέρες

    We accept the love we think we deserve, so true, I will never pay for a man ever either then!

  • Sunshine Ccc
    Sunshine CccΠριν 2 ημέρες

    My ex left me in florida to go to Sweden with no money and my parents had to help me get a hotel room and I was stuck in airport for 2 days! Red flag, he was so generous at the begining and then after a few months stopped caring and doing all the things he promised. So what is the time frame moving forward in a relationship, do I just leave the minute he doesnt value me or stops doing what he should be. On average how long does it take for ths true character of a man to show through.

  • Sunshine Ccc

    Sunshine Ccc

    Πριν 2 ημέρες

    Yes I know I should have left then, it was my first relationship and I've only had one lol. I appreciate your advice so much. You are right its unacceptable!

    WONDERFULLYMADE2009Πριν 2 ημέρες

    The last comment really hit home. We really need to be selfish with ourselves

  • Hayu classes
    Hayu classesΠριν 4 ημέρες

    1st I underrated ur work but today I really appreciate you thank you dear so much..this is true happens with me so I understand n u are doing a good from india

  • MARINA Mel
    MARINA MelΠριν 4 ημέρες

    Women need more videos like this! 👑👌

  • Alexandra Smith
    Alexandra SmithΠριν 4 ημέρες

    I am still laughing at the male with a private jet who bought an economy ticket for her - that's called being a "quickie" rather than dating. He may well have had an actual girlfriend and so didn't want her involved in his life. However, money is only a "love language" if you don't make your own. If you make your own money ladies, then you can keep your choices.

  • Mahnoor Shoaib
    Mahnoor ShoaibΠριν 5 ημέρες

    You have to do a part2 of this!!!!

  • Sude Bahar
    Sude BaharΠριν 6 ημέρες

    i have a story similar to these. me and my girl friend were going over to these guys' house. they told us to dress warm because they werent going to turn on the radiators... because it would cost too much to heat the house

  • Divine Angelic
    Divine AngelicΠριν 7 ημέρες

    Hi Anna really talk to these woman about this topic very important

  • Divine Angelic
    Divine AngelicΠριν 7 ημέρες

    Hi Anna so right. That poor girl dating a guy who takes her to McDonalds. Dear lord !? Not only is that place awful but for him to treat her like that. Dear girls please suggest to guy where you want to go to eat ...please pick a really nice place doesn't have to be super fancy at first but make it a place you realllly want him to take you. Tell him when he asks you to go out to eat tell him a place right away where you want to go

  • Karla Doane
    Karla DoaneΠριν 9 ημέρες

    The last story is heartbreaking. My story.. it took a long time to leave since there was a child; 20 years then I said okay I'm done. Nice guy but you know ...No -----! I know that's not very ladylike . We want to be feminine yet sometimes we have to be street smart and think like a man I call him out on. their stuff. A note to the other lady if she might come across this message. You don't need a grown-up child in your life. I realized my relationship was that of a son basically. Or a brother that's a leech.

  • Minniee e
    Minniee eΠριν 12 ημέρες

    On my first date with him, he ordered food for himself only

  • Fogo Shakalino
    Fogo ShakalinoΠριν 12 ημέρες

    What about "horror stories part 2"? I had to laugh hier sooo much. 😅 Loves from Germany

  • Emelyn Mantali
    Emelyn MantaliΠριν 13 ημέρες

    I dated a man (30 years older than me) I drive for an hour to reach there in his house and he invited me for a joyride like 3 hours and I was very hungry and thirsty and never offered me anything. After that I cut my contact with him. The first date and the last.

  • Aisha Ahmed
    Aisha AhmedΠριν 16 ημέρες

    I absolutely LOVE HER.

  • Lekendra Cannon
    Lekendra CannonΠριν 16 ημέρες

    AHA! I see so many women with men like this, and it’s sad. I am so glad that you mentioned that him treated you well is part of wanting to make a good impression, because so many people don’t get that.

  • John Vingno
    John VingnoΠριν 16 ημέρες

    That's why love cost money regardless what your social status is and what your finances are. Women who say that they wouldn't date men who aren't around the same income bracket as they are are not worth the time and headache. I myself prefer to stay single more money saved, peace of mind and time to myself.

  • The Last Dragoon
    The Last DragoonΠριν 17 ημέρες

    You women say you want a man who treats you like a princess, respects you, fawns over you with gifts and compliments, acts like a gentlemen, takes you on trips, adventures and holidays, and makes you feel safe and valued, but then cheat on that type of man with some dead-beat, jobless bad-boy who treats you like dirt, doesn't spend a penny on you, behaves the opposite of a gentleman, and has sociopathic, dark-triad personality traits. Tell me I'm wrong.

  • AestheticLady
    AestheticLadyΠριν 19 ημέρες

    My mother’s friend said that her husband didn’t get her anything for Christmas or her birthday. He has tons of money. She bought him a ton of stuff and she wrapped her own gifts on Christmas. How terrible! Make sure you marry a nice man!

  • Chetna- Dethe
    Chetna- DetheΠριν 19 ημέρες

    I keep meeting guys who ask me to pay the bills... The illuminati sends me such guys.. it sucks

  • Chetna- Dethe

    Chetna- Dethe

    Πριν 15 ημέρες

    @Bungee I don't mind sharing but it's not the case

  • Bungee


    Πριν 15 ημέρες

    Why should he pay all the sound entitled tbh

  • Doris W
    Doris WΠριν 19 ημέρες

    A lot of people are commenting that this is how even good men will “test you”. What do you think of this?

  • ASMR Nights
    ASMR NightsΠριν 23 ημέρες

    Make sure you don’t sleep with just anyone!!

  • Ginny L
    Ginny LΠριν 28 ημέρες

    I live in the Netherlands where paying for your own food or splitting the costs is kind of customary. I also live in a slightly above average income family and never had to worry about money. And while my father often pays for my things (I never ask), he is very stingy in many ways. For instance we had a very old bulky tv that was older than me untill last year. Or we had a home phone with missing or broken keys that we still used for up to 2 years after it started falling apart as it 'was still good and could still be used'. Because of these things I find it very uncomfortable to have someone pay for me, especially when they don't earn much. I haven't had any dates yet with rich or well of men (kind of hard to find where I live and around my age of 20). So I wonder how I'll feel when such a scenario would happen. I feel like I should at least always offer to pay for my part. How do you lady's think about this?? Or any advice about this shamefull/guilty feeling I get when someone else pays for me?

  • Jessica Blanco
    Jessica BlancoΠριν 29 ημέρες

    Meanwhile I like working and what Is wrong with dating a guy who is not that affluent, I really am reevaluating on 👏STOP 👏 DATING 👏CHEAP 👏 MEN 👏 Even though you really put an emphasis on money I like that you talked about cheap behavior and that is not okay at all. Because I dated cheap men in the past is why I suffered before but what is there to suffer about? Lmao. Now I get it and I thank you. I am really stupid🤦. To a better future 🍾

  • Carissa Lutton Movie Talk
    Carissa Lutton Movie TalkΠριν μήνα

    Great top, would love to know were you bought it.

  • Adrienne Miller
    Adrienne MillerΠριν μήνα

    Wonderful video, won’t comments, wonderful lesson- Better late than never.

  • First Name Last Name
    First Name Last NameΠριν μήνα

    The week before Christmas, I met a successful business man for a cappuccino before going out of town for holiday. After asking what I'd like and our order, he slinked away to 'use the restroom' as cashier rang it up. It was a $3 cappuccino and he left me to pay. He actually contacted to ask me for dinner when he returns. I am very turned off.

  • m z
    m zΠριν μήνα

    She's really wise. I cannot get through my day without listening to her.

  • Antivenom Adams
    Antivenom AdamsΠριν μήνα

    I went on a date with a guy once who pulled over in a grocery store parking lot, got out of the car & proceeded to urinate. I was HORRIFIED. I asked him to take me home immediately after he got back in the car & never spoke to him again, it was a massive turn off.

  • Daynadream Dance
    Daynadream DanceΠριν μήνα

    I always went through my dating and relationship life paying for dates (FULLY) and being both the home "manager" and provider. I never had a problem with this since my first dates I ever experienced, I always ended up paying for them because the guys I dated were cheap and ambtition-less to say the least. so I thought it was a normal thing for women to do this, to shoulder every single expense, to spoil the men with my personal hard-earned money I made for myself (note: I'm not married to any of them, just a fool) I even supported some of them financially, their food, expenses EVERYTHING (again, I was a fool). I denied help when I needed it from a man because I thought I had something to prove. In all my relationships I always found something missing, and I always felt like a mother. I didn't understand why I felt resentment with my partners and why I was unsatisfied. When I stumbled onto this channel, it's only then I realized that what I was missing was so much self-worth as I purposefully exhausted myself treating and wearing the pants for so many cheap men in my life while convincing myself that they weren't (by cheap not just financially but how they treated me too). And Since like attracts like, my low self value attracted men of low value as well. I'm really thankful to have found you, Anna! I'm learning so much in terms of how I should work on valuing myself and my worth to receive the value or life that I deserve. I wish I had discovered you sooner in my life but I'm grateful to have discovered you now. Truly Grateful!

  • Bungee


    Πριν 15 ημέρες

    Men: First time

  • Lorraine Brett
    Lorraine BrettΠριν μήνα

    I've learnt not to date broke men, it is bad for your self esteem

  • Diana Flores
    Diana FloresΠριν μήνα

    Once I started to date with a guy he describes himself as "succesfull with high salary", well, after stay in their apartment he told me, you must go, I'll take you to the bus , but if you want i can give you 2 usd for your taxi (he takes uber and the cost to my hause it's 10 usd in taxi)...yes he took me to the bus under the rain, after arriving to the bus station he smiled and told me "rain take off your make up, you look great"...well thanks, has been great be with you, but i need to get back to my hause, and I won't take you to your hause 'cause isn't fair for me, I'll be back too late, i love you.

  • Larissa Luxe

    Larissa Luxe

    Πριν μήνα

    Never go back to a mans place. Never sleep with him as well.

  • Chelsea Almost
    Chelsea AlmostΠριν μήνα

    Please do another video like this! Lol proper entertainment 😂

  • Sandra
    SandraΠριν μήνα

    *BUYS HIMSELF A BUSINESS CLASS TICKET AND HER A ECONOMY TICKET* How much of an @#$####### that guy must be!!!! THE WORST OF THE WORST OF MEN. As a Persian woman I would NEVER ever allow a man to treat me less then a queen. My background and upbringing made me what I am. Never let a man treat you like a servant.

  • Bungee


    Πριν 15 ημέρες

    god you are so entitled, he bought you an economy ticket what's wrong with that,,you both should split the bills

  • Melissa Maldonado
    Melissa MaldonadoΠριν μήνα

    "Stop giving in." Would have saved myself YEARS if I had been more aware of my worth

  • Ella L
    Ella LΠριν μήνα

    When I was in college there was this guy who asked me out and I agreed. On the evening of the date he texted me to ask if I could drive instead of him because he wanted to save money on petrol for his car. Warning signs were kinda going off but I agreed because I liked him. After dinner, to no one's surprise, he asked to split the bill which I also agreed to. But when we went up to the cashier and I'd paid my half, he proceeded to slowly dig out a few coins from his pocket, place them on the counter, count them, dug around in his pocket again, brought out another 2-3 coins etc etc. He was taking AGES and the cashier was getting impatient and there was a long queue behind us and finally I couldn't take the embarrassment anymore and offered to pay for him which he immediately agreed to. After I got home, I realized that I had actually just driven this guy AND paid for our date and decided never to see him again. On the other hand, I went out with another guy who despite being a lot poorer than this first guy, always paid for our dates (we always went to very affordable places) and walked me back home despite not having a car. I'd much rather go to McDonald's with a guy and have him be enough of a gentleman to buy me a 50 cent cone than to go to a more expensive place with a guy who acts like a total cheapskate

  • Lily
    LilyΠριν μήνα

    my ex always complained about how much he spent when he got me gifts--then just don't buy them? bye lol

  • First Name Last Name

    First Name Last Name

    Πριν 25 ημέρες

    My fprmer fiance was like that. He would 'surprise' me with a gift then tell me how much he spent. Then it woipd be an even Steven tit for tat making me feel guilty if I did not reciprocate quiclkly. For many other reasons I called off engagement. However I will not be with a man ever again that dpes something for me with that type of response where he is expecting something equal. He also 'lost' a few things that exes of his had bought then laid it on thick to see if id replace. I fell for this Once. One item was a cross pendant. I realized after replacing it that he eas lying and threw the old one away or hid it somewhere. I remembered something about the story and timing was off and odd but I shook it off. But then he 'lost' something else. I feel it was a manipulative game that he played tp get me to spend money on him. Very odd.

  • ama C
    ama CΠριν μήνα

    I was so in love with my bfriend in my 20s that I didn't see signs that he's absolutely worthless. He put my emotions on the edge constantly until I invited him to my home and he met my family and family friends. His first impression, when he arrived was: "You Really live HERE?!! OO" I never showed my quite high social status by my clothes but he didn't get it by my good manners and love.. until he saw the money viewing my home and meeting ppl around me. Then he changed 360ds: he started to give my little gifts as golden earings etc. To me it was obvious that he wanted to buy his place. To me our relation was over because he didn't treat me the same way before he noticed material value. Sad.

  • Gabriela Martiniuc
    Gabriela MartiniucΠριν μήνα

    I’ve never dealt with cheap men! What a nightmare!! Only classy, generous men allowed!!!!

  • Gabriela Martiniuc
    Gabriela MartiniucΠριν μήνα

    These women are having sex with men who are cheap with the women but not with themselves? These stores are hideous. Cheap men are low lives. Don’t be having sex with these men!

  • Crystal Z
    Crystal ZΠριν μήνα

    I want to send it to my ex.

  • Fireflifli Hi
    Fireflifli HiΠριν μήνα

    He asked me why we never went out again, I said. We weren’t a good fit

  • Laura
    LauraΠριν μήνα

    Alana thank you for stepping up and creating this channel. A lot of low level, desperate women with no self esteem have allowed these men to think that being cheap and stingy is the norm and that women should just accept it and deal with it! I have always that the man has a natural responsibilty to provide and be chivalrous but couldn't project that idea on words. Thank you so much. You are just amazing!

  • amadaria
    amadariaΠριν μήνα

    I dated a guy once who let me pay for the second date. That's when I knew he was a good one. I had as much money as he did and he wasn't threatened by that. He was comfortable with sitting back and letting the woman take charge. On the other hand, I've had dates with men who were bossy and always insisted on paying. Those are the men who think that because they bought the food means you owe them. Now I measure a man pretty quickly by offering to pay for the first or second date and see how he reacts. Is he threatened? Is he offended? Or is he cool and flexable? Reactions say a lot.

  • amadaria


    Πριν 15 ημέρες

    @Bungee I like your model. If both of you planned the date and both of you discussed where to go then there's no hard rule for who is supposed to pay.

  • Bungee


    Πριν 15 ημέρες

    As a dude I always split the bill on the first date and second date and then take turns paying after that..i think this is the best model tbh

  • Lin Lin
    Lin LinΠριν μήνα

    I think this is the first video I watched about dating. I never dated before so I never really think about much. I don't know what to expect or what is accepted. Never formed a standard or whatever. I thought I should just take what comes up to me. Thanks so much. Now I've watched so many videos on youtube and I changed my mind so much and I start to think more about what kind of men and what life I want with a man. I watched this video every few months just to refresh my mind.

  • SandraT
    SandraTΠριν μήνα

    She is genuine! Love her

  • Niki eberhardt
    Niki eberhardtΠριν μήνα

    ⚠️ ⚠️WARNING ⚠️ ⚠️ To all the women who think there's nothing wrong with them being the breadwinner of the family. 2 issues: it's the saddest thing when you have to leave your newborn baby and miss every milestone because you have to go back to work to keep a roof over your head. I had major complications after childbirth and was practically bedridden for a year and half. Thank God my husband made enough for all 3 of us plus all the medical and psychological care I needed. Issue no. 2. Experience has showed over and over that as a woman is getting ahead in her career and making more money, the husband starts feeling insecure and useless so to make himself feel better he'll start an affair. I have at least 8 living examples of this in my circle of friends and family so I'm not making it up.

  • Diananas


    Πριν μήνα

    Actually feminist even put pressure on women so they go back to work early, even if they don’t feel ready because of their health or their baby

  • Niki eberhardt
    Niki eberhardtΠριν μήνα

    A lot of times it's a matter of being selfish and not money. For example even 8f we assume the date at Macdonald didn't have a lot of money, perhaps he could be a gentleman and not selfish. He could have compromised and gotten her 3 chicken burgers and have 4 hamburgers himself. There's always a way. I feel so lucky all my exes were real gentlemen and we always broke up amicably and my husband was the best of all. I can't imagine ever being treated like these stories. When i was 17 my ex was 18. We went to a mall one day had pizza and bought a bunch of stuff and realized we barely have enough money to take a cab home and he was already worried he might not be able to leave a fair tip for the driver. As we came out a homeless person asked for money or food, we could see the need in his face. My ex asked me if I'm OK taking 2 busses home so we can help this guy. Of course I said yes and was so proud of him for being such a gentleman and so caring. So we bought the guy a sandwich and a drink and hopped on the bus. To this day it's one of the sweetest memories I have. I moved to a different country and now we each have our own families. I talked to his fiance before they got married and told her this guy is a gem. He might not be rich but he is a true gentleman and told her this story. They've been happily married for 10 years now and I am for 15. It's about the content of one's character not his bank account.

  • Leiddy Genao
    Leiddy GenaoΠριν μήνα

    This video came to my life too late.

  • jennifer petti
    jennifer pettiΠριν μήνα

    I dated a guy once, and it was always Dutch with everything .ugh .He also made way more $$ then me. And he was great for promising to buy me stuff and he never would.

  • kawi rash
    kawi rashΠριν μήνα

    As a mother u must teach your son how to respect women and teach your daughter how to get respect. Thats all 😏

  • ilovementhol
    ilovementholΠριν μήνα

    They're insecure and wanna take you down too, when you're coming in with a career, purpose, and a sense of humor.

  • RS
    RSΠριν μήνα

    When you read about McDonald’s, I was like wow. Similar but worse happened to my best friend, for her entire dating period of 8 years, her boyfriend took her to mall food courts, McDonald’s, burger king etc. not once they went to 5 star rather we have always seen him going to 5 star restaurants with his friends, with his family members. And that’s not even the worst part. Wait for it, .. she was married to this guy for 3 years.

  • Wendy Wendy
    Wendy WendyΠριν μήνα

    Can change, if he can't moves on. Generositý can be change & train. Just use a stack òf cash to give to the poor with your besþ manners. If you can give pŕoperly and continuous to give frequent, selfishness can be learn, chañge anď learn to bè generous physically.

  • Cath Locke
    Cath LockeΠριν μήνα

    Love these videos. Wonderful advice. Thank you.

  • emmie 6871
    emmie 6871Πριν μήνα

    Definitely agree, such a great closing example, this is not about money, this is about character. It is about showing love. It’s about not being blind as a women to see if there is a true care for her.

  • Yammy O
    Yammy OΠριν μήνα

    Hmmmmm...i don't know what to say. But everything i heard left me something to think about.

  • Violetta Taneva
    Violetta TanevaΠριν μήνα

    My now ex offered to pick me up from university (which is like a 2 hour drive) and after we got back he calculated how much money i owed him for gas... ignored that huge red flag and stayed with him... I can go on and on about a lot of situations like that... i was always expected to pay for myself even if it were small things and it's not like he couldn't afford it... believe me... On valentines day he invited me for a romantic dinner in a nice restaurant... after he got the bill and payed for it (knowing i didn't have money on me) he said "Don't worry, you'll pay me back when you get your salary" And at that point... i was done.

  • Linda Vel
    Linda VelΠριν μήνα

    A realized how much of a gentleman my guy friend is. My guy friend was going the opposite way on the bus. He said he will wait with me for my bus to come and then he will cross the street to take his bus. I told him that he may miss his bus if he does that. He said that it doesn't matter, he didn't want me waiting on a lonely street by myself....luckily later some friends gave us a ride home. But, I never forget how sweet he was.

  • Ilona Cheema
    Ilona CheemaΠριν μήνα

    As the saying goes "don't make someone your priority when you are only an option." I had some relationships like that. :(

  • Sheva Marc
    Sheva MarcΠριν μήνα

    I have my husband he is always complain he doesn't have money when we go out to shopping .he will buy everything he see for himself but i can't pick up anything.but one day we went shopping and i pout myself in the budget cause i want to by some good quality bras for my saggy breast but he said (there is no money now just get some at wal-mart( bras at wal-mart )and he always by i phone for him .android for me .

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    Rose StillARose

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  • Sandy Allsopp
    Sandy AllsoppΠριν 2 μήνες

    The last lady mentioned in the video hated being a breadwinner, because she found that in reality it was hard work, but took for granted that guys should always do this for her. Welcome to the real world feminism promised you ladies!

  • Nick Martin
    Nick MartinΠριν 2 μήνες

    The comments are far better content than her deluded drivel

  • Gold Pill Bill
    Gold Pill BillΠριν 2 μήνες

    LOL call your own damned Uber, how pathetic are you. And the low-grade woman in the helicopter should ofcourse have stayed in the back seat with the man instead of moving up in front leaving her partner alone. No class, no sense.

  • Eschatola Agapeo
    Eschatola AgapeoΠριν 2 μήνες

    Money... the only universal love language understood by AWOLs.

  • Onetruth
    OnetruthΠριν 2 μήνες

    Treat YOURSELF and others with generosity and respect and expect the same from others or else: Bye, bye for ever! End of the story.

  • Pamela Johnson
    Pamela JohnsonΠριν 2 μήνες

    Having a selfish man is sad to have.

  • Pamela Johnson
    Pamela JohnsonΠριν 2 μήνες

    Anna I think you would be great opening a dating service high quality men

  • Pamela Johnson
    Pamela JohnsonΠριν 2 μήνες

    Anna you should have an online dating service with high quality men only and also have international and American men

  • Pamela Johnson
    Pamela JohnsonΠριν 2 μήνες

    Anna I'm with you 1000 0/0

  • Belinda Garza
    Belinda GarzaΠριν 2 μήνες

    A man should pick you up and take you home. So he knows you’re safe.

  • tamara rezvova
    tamara rezvovaΠριν 2 μήνες

    This is WAY better and genuine than 'invest in tailor-made clothes'.I hear you, Anna

  • HDloly
    HDlolyΠριν 2 μήνες

    I can't understand how a person would invite another to come to him/her and pay the cheapest for the travel. Don't they know what consideration is? Don't they know that this speaks badly of their person? I would never get a person to go out with me and buy cheapest things for him/her. Don't they cherish the other? This men's heart of this video is already half-dead. There is joy in providing for a loved one, being family, friend or a flirt. When you have the money, why not to do it? If this happened to me, I would talk to the person and if I discovered they are unable to cherish me, I would never contact them again. How could you be a good company if you're cheap with the other?

  • Roberta Vileikyte
    Roberta VileikyteΠριν 2 μήνες

    I would really love to have video about how affluent men reacts if you already have children, or they have. How you need to have do much confidence in front of men when you always thinking about your children. It feels like i do not even have a time for a man.. but i am missing of it. Does anyone else have same doubts?

  • Roberta Vileikyte
    Roberta VileikyteΠριν 2 μήνες

    I would really love to have video about how affluent men reacts if you already have children, or they have. How you need to have do much confidence in front of men when you always thinking about your children. Does anyone else have same doubts?

  • B. Ince
    B. InceΠριν 2 μήνες

    Personally, I've found that learning about human biology and human nature is life changing. Biologically, men are driven to achieve success, and a huge part of that is receiving attention from women. When women are giving love, intimacy, and attention to men who haven't achieved anything it sends them a message that they are good enough already. Obviously, some men will be driven internally to achieve, but this is the exception. This is why we have a large majority of our men that are underachieving, unhappy, and acting like children. The reality is men who have nothing going for themselves, can be in a relationship with an attractive, financially independent woman. If these women were no longer interested in them....guess what they would be driven to succeed to get these type of women. Obviously, there would still be women that would make themselves available, but these would be less attractive women. Personally, I've seen a marriage in which the man was unemployed/underemployed but married to an attractive, smart, financially independent woman. Guess what, when that woman left him, he suddenly had a good job, and was driven to win her back by proving he was a better man. Ladies, the majority of men are biologically driven to prove to "us" they can provide. Accepting a man that hasn't reached his potential only hurts him. Men complain about "golddiggers" but we all know when a man encounters a pretty woman he automatically attempts to attract her with his wealth (real or imagined).

  • Diananas


    Πριν μήνα

    Life changing for me too! I study biology and since I quit feminism. We are so different that’s how we survived for millions of years. Couldn’t agree more with your comment.

  • keys2mypiano
    keys2mypianoΠριν 2 μήνες

    Love your videos and agree totally with you’re saying. I would never settle for less 😘

  • Lydia Horn
    Lydia HornΠριν 2 μήνες

    Teach me how to flirt

  • Kay Karahalis
    Kay KarahalisΠριν 2 μήνες

    Laughed my butt off about the McDonald’s thing, greedy

  • Anne Fisher
    Anne FisherΠριν 2 μήνες

    My husband insists on the high end uber. He treats me like a princess. :)

  • K
    KΠριν 2 μήνες

    A man that really wants you will pick up the stars if he has to...fluorescent ones to start off🤣

  • K
    KΠριν 2 μήνες

    The Uber trap got me sooo weak,at this point that's not a date but a set up💀

  • Ratna Ali
    Ratna AliΠριν 2 μήνες

    Stingy cheap average man belongs to hell. I adore my man he is willing to share anything he has even though he is not rich. I feel like a sexy queen x I do love your channel Ana. Inspiring

  • Ana Butyrski
    Ana ButyrskiΠριν 2 μήνες

    My husband had a couple of things like this when we first started dating, nothing as bad as these stories, but I set my boundaries and told him straight that I had certain expectations of my patter and that he could take it or leave it. He obvious work on changing them, and now he’s a changed men. I noticed how hard he tried and how much change he had actually made and up to today, I tell him that that’s is one of the top 3 reasons why I married him. Because I knew that he could change for me.

  • Sptheghost 2018
    Sptheghost 2018Πριν 2 μήνες

    I’m dating a man for 6 months , he never got me anything ever , I’m not used to have a man like this I ask multiple people about this and everyone told me to leave him .... When I offer to pay he let me , he ask to use my car and put the gas for only the days he need when I got my car back I had the same amount gas I left .... also I went to the clothing store with him he never ask me if I want anything for my self ... also he order things online for him self never order me anything!!!! I did a party for his 48 birthday I spend 600$ and he told me that he never spend 600 $ in a woman ever like I’m confused about everything because I care , I got him decorations for his house , curtains , lamps , picture holder and a side entryway table things to make his house look better since he is a single man and his house needs help , also I got grocery’s for his house all the Time almost every week and he never ever ask how much is the grocery and offer half the money !!! All he say was you so good to me and btw this man makes 200 thousand a year and I make 50 thousand... I’m so confused in what to do ..... we have a great time together and we smile together but I don’t want be wirh someone is so cheap for me I was married to a husband that never let me work and always make sure our bills was pay , after left my husband I meet this other man that always take care me to always offer money to me get my nails and hair done or whatever I say I want he always come up with half the money .... but I left this guy to be wirh my boyfriend lol smh

  • Rose StillARose

    Rose StillARose

    Πριν μήνα

    @Jacob Pflaum A text back is a bonus. You men are lucky to even get that lol

  • Jacob Pflaum

    Jacob Pflaum

    Πριν μήνα

    You shouldn’t be dating a person for physical things. Those things should be a bonus.

  • Rose StillARose

    Rose StillARose

    Πριν μήνα

    Yikes. You’re basically PAYING this man to be with you , you knw that right? Why complain...... then still stay? You can’t be this insecure. Yikes.

  • daniah ruhi
    daniah ruhiΠριν 2 μήνες

    I believe girls out there surely in need of your lectures!!thanks really.

  • Vecky M
    Vecky MΠριν 2 μήνες

    Hello beautiful girl I totally agree with you, love your dress .

  • Daily Daily
    Daily DailyΠριν 2 μήνες

    This is a small thing but shocked me. So this happenede twice, first with my ex and second with a guy i was dating. When we wanted to go with taxi, i actually opened tge car door for myself, buy they were the ones who went inside first 😂

  • Mindful Journey
    Mindful JourneyΠριν 2 μήνες

    Pls listen to Anna.

  • Mindful Journey
    Mindful JourneyΠριν 2 μήνες

    The last one is exactly me. I earn more than my partner. He constantly asks for money. We have 2 kids. I cant escape. He is vegan , spend 100% of his money on expensive foods lunches etc. Been on same salary past 12 years. Have zero friends. I feel as tho I am being just like him. How did i end up with him? What d hell was i thinking. Every one of my friends are getting ahead. I am busy paying off his debt. I feel ao depressed...

  • Mindful Journey
    Mindful JourneyΠριν 2 μήνες

    I wish i knew Anna before i met my now partner. He wants to marry me but no way i am marrying this cheap man who has 0 reapect for me.

  • Mindful Journey
    Mindful JourneyΠριν 2 μήνες

    A guy bought me a set of lingeries. I wanted to leave him then he asked for.hia gifts back...

  • Virgie Mata
    Virgie MataΠριν 2 μήνες

    The bible says... "God's destiny for us is to have a long good rich life." The enemy blocks us to achieve this with his negative lies. It's better to work as a housemaid because you can get paid $4000 a month with free board and lodging than be a slave with a cheapskate.

  • Julia Pieruzzi
    Julia PieruzziΠριν 2 μήνες

    I can not thank you enough for these wonderful videos. I learned so much from you! xx

  • Anushka S.
    Anushka S.Πριν 2 μήνες

    Love you again ♥️

  • Aramis Queen
    Aramis QueenΠριν 2 μήνες

    I know I’m a bit late for this but here is my story. Recently, I went shopping with a friend since I needed a few things to prepare for my graduation. And there was this guy who’s 30 of age who really wanted to invite me on a date. I swear I wasn’t playing hard to get. He invited me on a few date prior and I refuse because I had a few things career related to attend to. Surprisingly, when he heard I was going shopping with a friend, he insisted on coming. This, I found it to be really rude! And disrespectful toward my friend since I’d informed him about my alibi but never invited. After he insisted, my friend and I agreed to let him come. On that day, he’d said he’d meet us at 12:00pm. He arrives an hour late. Me and my friend hadn’t yet eaten since we thought it would be a disrespect toward him. The moment he gets on spot, he is shocked when he learns we haven’t eaten. Needless to say that i was annoyed at this point since he breached some of my standards for a man. The worse he did that day, was offer to pay for mine and my friend’s food and request for a refund afterward. I dumped him the said day and he pretended to be clueless about not knowing what he did wrong. The worse, was that he is a pretty rich guy and I realized that he purposefully came late on that day just so he wouldn’t have to pay for our foods.

  • macpduff
    macpduffΠριν 2 μήνες

    If a man buys the cheapest for his woman, then he is clearly demonstrating that he thinks his woman is comfortable with being cheap. It's disrespectful. Never marry a cheap man.

  • Jacob Pflaum

    Jacob Pflaum

    Πριν μήνα

    Or he is just the average guy trying to make ends meet. Maybe trying to save up enough money for something actaully important like his children’s college or a trip somewhere nice instead of trivial things that really don’t matter.

  • Chris Namaste
    Chris NamasteΠριν 2 μήνες

    Gentleman do not fall for this "a man must lay down his life for a woman on a first date" chivalric non sense. These women would have us fight each other in the collesum until death for the "privilege" of dating them. A high quality man does not need women's princess non sense. You all can get dropped too--bye bye.