I bought a silk pillow case a few months ago and they got hot, went back to my cotton ones

Feng shui tip... no windows or closet behind the bed

Perspire not sweat :)

I loooovvveee her hair open.

I love number six.

Oh Elegant Blair is also eat chocolate on her bed. 😆😆😆 She still elegant.

CANNOT GO TO BED WITHOUT A SHOWER 😱

I’m feeling attacted because of pyjamasssssssss :(

Where is she from?

Check Marie Diamond's youtube video's about feng shui

For 4:55 ish.... Because I live with other people sometimes I use my bed as an office. Even tho, I am working on this as much as I can. Also 8. (Sticking to the silk theme, just being silly lol) but own a silk eye mask to sleep. Because of little light I see in my room, as a single person. Or if you’re in a relationship or married, your partner might get up to use the bathroom which will cause them to have to turn on some light. That will block out any light hitting your eyes which could cause you to your brain to waking up. And scientifically, she is right about the active wear, majority of the time, when you wear tight leggings or tank top, it can cause your muscles to ache when you do wake up. Instead, I would prep not only your work clothes before you go to work but also prep your active wear, before you do anything active. There is common sense to what she’s saying

Me laying in bed eating hot Cheetos

Silk pillowcases has made such a difference to my skin, especially skin on the side of my face that I sleep on.

Too many conditions for ladies and any for men 😂

I know you warned against this but, sleeping in active wear sounds like a great idea! Lol. I'm single anyway

But what if I want to stay warm? Silk makes me freeze to death, and I get ill quickly.

Loved this video 🥰, thank so much!!! I have few good advices for feng shui, I am not an expert but I have some general knowledge in the subject. Definitely use warm colors in the bedroom, don’t keep mirrors that reflect yourself while sleeping, have a real plant in your bedroom, open the windows sometime to let some fresh air in and new energy in and finally do not have your bed in front of the door that goes out of the room. I hope these helps 🌸❤️

You look pretty and young with this hair style.

sometimes my phone just lays around for days,the battery is emty and people think i´m dead, because i just forgot i even have a phone

What is feng shui

Me, watching your video in bed, using active wear as pijamas...

I appreciate how she values elegance in relation to self-care and empowerment. Every lady deserves to feel and be treated like a princess from time to time!

I do FengShui consulting :) but I’m based in London.

Love from India ❤️

Me too. I am planning to change that habit today.. thank you for sharing. Love your video ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

A bedroom is a Sacred place. I learned in a marriage class to not have a TV in the bedroom. Also The bedroom is a place of serenity.

Silk pyjamas can be replaced with Satin ones?

I never go to bed dirty. Even if I showered in the morning, I will still get into bed with my man, but not until I have had a shower. Even when I'm single. Also, I used to be bisexual, believe me when I say many women smell down there, do not wash properly. Many times I could not be intimate with a woman unless I bathed her myself.

"only sleep in your bed. don't do anything else in your bed" meanwhile films a video in bed

Nobody asks about farting ?

I am a Singaporean Chinese who is Buddhist and into fengshui.

well my hair is curly and dry so i can only wash it three times a week! i can take a body shower everyday. have any comments on that?

I bought a silk style bedsheet set once and every morning, our pillows were on the floor, the fitted sheet with the comforter were on the floor, and the fitted sheet was always bunched up in the middle of our mattress! I thought, I am NEVER buying any material of silky feeling every again! It was just so slick, it was ridiculous.

I sleep on satin pillow cases and it is AMAZING! It's so good for your hair and skin and it feels really good and smooth. I'm getting a whole satin bed set for christmas

I'll be sticking with cotton. Silk is too cold in the winter

Anna, where do you charge your phone now?

Watching this at my desk while dressed in gym clothes:P

I'm guilty of using my bed for more than sleeping.... I can literally live my day in the bed

Imagine thinking that having such a restrictive view on femininity equates to having superior self-respect.

I don't know much about feng shui but it does sounds similar to 'vastu shastra' which is an ancient science or method of making house maps. Like wht corner should bathroom be in or where the kitchen should be, what direction should the temple(worship place) face, etc.

In fact, I'm very curious recently about feng shui also. If anybody could suggest a good info source for starters, would be amazing )

elegant ladies dont work on their laptops on bed me : spent most of my 7 years of med school studying on bed :( :(

Ladies, are there any school or course about Feng Shui in the US? Please let me know. Thank you 🙏🏻

But silk is too cold during winter. 😂

Do you have kids Mrs.Anna?

Alternatively do what comes naturally. Too many so called "experts". Wear what you want, be natural.....only sheep follow fallen "experts". Why do so many Eastern European women chase the pants off British and American guys! It's NOT a game. I bring strawberries and cream to bed. I bring breakfast to bed on a Sunday. Materialistic fools spreading BS just because they themselves have fallen! Just be real, be yourself, let your relationship grow organically. Why is this theory not working if it's so perfect. BE YOURSELF!

2:05 AM: I am watching don't take devices to bed in bed.

Thank you very much, these suggestions are very useful and everyone should give it a try! Can you cover more contents on how feng shui has uplifted your energy? Can you share your thoughts? E.g. we should never put a mirror in front of or next to our bed. Love your videos.

Only using your bed for sleep is actually a really good advice, especially now when most of us work/study from home. Having a set workplace or study area in your home helps you focus, and using the bed only for sleeping makes the mind delineate which place is your work area and rest area. This isn't just about being elegant, it's also about preventing burn out because of working/studying from home. Also, you're inviting insects to your bed when you eat there 😅 It's quite unsanitary to do that, like not showering before bed.

Devices? Where else do you use "devices" but IN the bedroom? OH! You didn't mean THOSE "devices".😁

Ya know... I def agree with using bed only for sleeping but.............. I am still single! LOL so I will continue to slighly do whatever i want in bed haha because its comfy

I'm sorry but hella no I'm not gonna walk in a bedroom like a model while being single, f* that 😂

I absolutely LOVE the way you address us as 'my dear elegant ladies'. Right there you lift our spirits :-). In the last generation we women have lost sight of the fact that our greatest strength is our elegance and feminism. Not beauty necessarily, but the magic of grace and feminism and elegance regardless of body shape.

*Reads number 3. Sees picture of both Audrey and Kate Heburn studying scripts in bed. Wanders away.*

What about a dr who is on call...they need to have it next to them and can't afford to keep the phone outside the bedroom.

I always sleep 💤 😴 on my back, and have a silk pillowcase, not an expensive one, and it has done nothing for my hair, plus having to hand-wash it 🙃 , but wouldn't swap it, 😄😄😄

I tend to shower 2 times a day. Morning after waking up, and evening, after working out. Both showers only take about a minute and I just love feeling clean 🥰

What about making your bed? It disgusts me when I see when people just hop in and out of bed for days, without shaking up the duvet or opening the window to let some air in.

I agree with everythink you wrote except first. When l'm sick or have period l sleep in cotton pyjama.

Oh!!! Anna you are so wise. Yes these are simple things, it is not common sense to all. Oh wow, thank you for sharing.

Leave devices out of the bedroom 100%

Love that sex etiquette. What to do Annnnaaaaaa?

There’s no etiquette in sex!

The sweetest lady ever♥️

Sigh let me try this 😢

I cant do this. Its too hot. I can only sleep on cotton in cotton. Its the most comfortable for me. I cannot sleep on silk, I've tried. Although I refuse having a TV or electronics in my bedroom.

This is why it is good to be single

I always dress for an airport. I think you should look chic in the airport. I can't tell you how many times I have had a flight run late and I am totally dressed and prepared to go directly to my destination. I just quickly freshen in the car/cab evian mist, lipstick, powder

I shower my hair and everything at night, getting rid of the germs from the day and then in the morning I only shower my body and not my hair to keep my hair healthy!

I was waking up with headaches every day. Come to find out, my bed was in the worst direction. So I switched the bedding head to foot... Not my best position but I haven't awoke with a headache since. ❤🌅🌵😷

Feng shui has worked for my home, too!

Many women don't practice proper hygiene because of depression, but practicing proper hygiene helps lift your mood

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Honestly so true definitely have to start getting back into self care🙏🏾💕

Noted

The bed is only for sleeping

Omg!! haha I wear the ugliest pajama :'( I really need to work on that

Currently eating in bed. 😬

I always felt gross eating in bed

can i watch GRglo in bed? 🙊

SHE'S FILMING THIS IN BED....

Before opening this video and just reading the title only, I was thinking of 2 answers: ladies do not fart and they don't finish last. Let's press play and see if I was right ✅ 😉

Watching this video made me change my bed clothes right after.

I really want use silk stuffs, but unfortunately I don’t have money for it. Maybe when I go to work when I’m finally adult (I’m 18) I will be able to get it.

I study fashion and you might like to know that silk isn't only good for your skin because of the gliding. Cotton can absorb water and silk can't so your skin and hair stay hydrated during the night and your hair and skincare products don't disappear during the night. ❤️

So how many times a day should we shower???

Absolutely, silk pillow cases are the best for your skin, hair, and even respiratory system (concerning allergens). If you can afford it, get silk bedsheets too. But if you can’t get a whole sheet set in silk, then the pillow case is the most important piece, so do it. And you really need to hand wash your silk pillow cases in a mild, natural, hypoallergenic detergent/soap. Don’t dry in the dryer either, not even on delicate setting, unless you use a lingerie bag (bag you put your lingerie in before you put it in the washing machine). Also, you need to flip and rotate your pillow because you rub skin bacteria on your pillow case. So you don’t want to keep putting your face in the same spot every night. Also, wash your sheets every week, and put your pillow in the dryer on mild or delicate setting, each week for 30 minutes. It kills dust mites.

I’m literally binge watching this channel 😫

U not pray to God before u go to sleep? U don't really have to do anything physically... Really

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You inspire us here at, The Refinery! Thank you x

Very true

Feng shui is not true and is haram

I'm breaking all these rules here... Watching the video while lying on bed. ( Gonna follow these etiquettes from now on)

Anna, I am very proud of you! It is a delight to watch a classy lady changing the world for the better. Please include lots of comments about good manners towards other people in a society. All the best wishes ❤

Elegant Ladies do not look for flaws or topics to shame another. I see so many spoke of her sitting in her bed/Room giving advice.. Could it be.. Did u stop to think.. It must be so. Because the nature of her topic.... That's it. EL do not learn from a person and try to shade or run the teacher down.. There is no elegance , class or beauty.. Without manners. Rule nber one. Dab a touch of soft fresh perfume. Just a dab. Behind ears at night. Sleep feeling n smelling beautuful.. Then wake up.. Learn to think beautuful. This is basic of elegance. Even before buying silk pj's n cases n sheets. Love

Also something my grandmother has told me is: never place your feet on your pillow and the side of the bed where your head would be when sleeping!

Omg love the advice. Thank you. 🙏🏽✨

“Dont do anything other than sleeping in your bed” Films a video on her bed

4:33 Hit home

This is so funny!! But so true!! I've seen many of these qualities in my mother

wonderful colour for you..makes you glowing