7 Things Elegant Ladies NEVER Do In The Bedroom

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In today’s video I discuss the importance of bedroom etiquette. An elegant lady must act elegant everywhere!
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  • Antonia Uribe
    Antonia UribeΠριν 2 ώρες

    I bought a silk pillow case a few months ago and they got hot, went back to my cotton ones

  • H. Kay Dai
    H. Kay DaiΠριν 7 ώρες

    Feng shui tip... no windows or closet behind the bed

  • Lorraine
    LorraineΠριν 16 ώρες

    Perspire not sweat :)

  • V Vendetta
    V VendettaΠριν 4 ημέρες

    I loooovvveee her hair open.

  • Casie Perry
    Casie PerryΠριν 4 ημέρες

    I love number six.

  • 이소개팅이 재미없어 시작한 유튜브
    이소개팅이 재미없어 시작한 유튜브Πριν 8 ημέρες

    Oh Elegant Blair is also eat chocolate on her bed. 😆😆😆 She still elegant.

  • Kate Fisher
    Kate FisherΠριν 9 ημέρες


  • Monika Tomić
    Monika TomićΠριν 9 ημέρες

    I’m feeling attacted because of pyjamasssssssss :(

  • &&
    &&Πριν 11 ημέρες

    Where is she from?

  • Helsinha kandhai
    Helsinha kandhaiΠριν 11 ημέρες

    Check Marie Diamond's youtube video's about feng shui

  • Lilly Rosa
    Lilly RosaΠριν 12 ημέρες

    For 4:55 ish.... Because I live with other people sometimes I use my bed as an office. Even tho, I am working on this as much as I can. Also 8. (Sticking to the silk theme, just being silly lol) but own a silk eye mask to sleep. Because of little light I see in my room, as a single person. Or if you’re in a relationship or married, your partner might get up to use the bathroom which will cause them to have to turn on some light. That will block out any light hitting your eyes which could cause you to your brain to waking up. And scientifically, she is right about the active wear, majority of the time, when you wear tight leggings or tank top, it can cause your muscles to ache when you do wake up. Instead, I would prep not only your work clothes before you go to work but also prep your active wear, before you do anything active. There is common sense to what she’s saying

  • ItsJustABlankSpace Here
    ItsJustABlankSpace HereΠριν 16 ημέρες

    Me laying in bed eating hot Cheetos

  • Protopian Nelson
    Protopian NelsonΠριν 16 ημέρες

    Silk pillowcases has made such a difference to my skin, especially skin on the side of my face that I sleep on.

  • Radhika Gupte
    Radhika GupteΠριν 18 ημέρες

    Too many conditions for ladies and any for men 😂

  • Ms. Jones
    Ms. JonesΠριν 24 ημέρες

    I know you warned against this but, sleeping in active wear sounds like a great idea! Lol. I'm single anyway

  • SoramimiKeiki
    SoramimiKeikiΠριν 26 ημέρες

    But what if I want to stay warm? Silk makes me freeze to death, and I get ill quickly.

  • Elena Trejos
    Elena TrejosΠριν 26 ημέρες

    Loved this video 🥰, thank so much!!! I have few good advices for feng shui, I am not an expert but I have some general knowledge in the subject. Definitely use warm colors in the bedroom, don’t keep mirrors that reflect yourself while sleeping, have a real plant in your bedroom, open the windows sometime to let some fresh air in and new energy in and finally do not have your bed in front of the door that goes out of the room. I hope these helps 🌸❤️

  • Bihara
    BiharaΠριν 27 ημέρες

    You look pretty and young with this hair style.

  • Me __
    Me __Πριν 27 ημέρες

    sometimes my phone just lays around for days,the battery is emty and people think i´m dead, because i just forgot i even have a phone

  • Marjona Sadullayeva
    Marjona SadullayevaΠριν 29 ημέρες

    What is feng shui

  • StrangeEda
    StrangeEdaΠριν μήνα

    Me, watching your video in bed, using active wear as pijamas...

  • Maddie O.
    Maddie O.Πριν μήνα

    I appreciate how she values elegance in relation to self-care and empowerment. Every lady deserves to feel and be treated like a princess from time to time!

  • Alex L
    Alex LΠριν μήνα

    I do FengShui consulting :) but I’m based in London.

  • Full Moon
    Full MoonΠριν μήνα

    Love from India ❤️

  • chienandhang
    chienandhangΠριν μήνα

    Me too. I am planning to change that habit today.. thank you for sharing. Love your video ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • Gabriela Martiniuc
    Gabriela MartiniucΠριν μήνα

    A bedroom is a Sacred place. I learned in a marriage class to not have a TV in the bedroom. Also The bedroom is a place of serenity.

  • Aakanksha Singh
    Aakanksha SinghΠριν μήνα

    Silk pyjamas can be replaced with Satin ones?

  • pearl harbor
    pearl harborΠριν μήνα

    I never go to bed dirty. Even if I showered in the morning, I will still get into bed with my man, but not until I have had a shower. Even when I'm single. Also, I used to be bisexual, believe me when I say many women smell down there, do not wash properly. Many times I could not be intimate with a woman unless I bathed her myself.

  • Noa Strupler
    Noa StruplerΠριν μήνα

    "only sleep in your bed. don't do anything else in your bed" meanwhile films a video in bed

  • Julie Tillin
    Julie TillinΠριν μήνα

    Nobody asks about farting ?

  • LASHdaily
    LASHdailyΠριν μήνα

    I am a Singaporean Chinese who is Buddhist and into fengshui.

  • Nash k.D.
    Nash k.D.Πριν μήνα

    well my hair is curly and dry so i can only wash it three times a week! i can take a body shower everyday. have any comments on that?

  • Jaime Odom
    Jaime OdomΠριν μήνα

    I bought a silk style bedsheet set once and every morning, our pillows were on the floor, the fitted sheet with the comforter were on the floor, and the fitted sheet was always bunched up in the middle of our mattress! I thought, I am NEVER buying any material of silky feeling every again! It was just so slick, it was ridiculous.

  • Kara _keegan_22
    Kara _keegan_22Πριν μήνα

    I sleep on satin pillow cases and it is AMAZING! It's so good for your hair and skin and it feels really good and smooth. I'm getting a whole satin bed set for christmas

  • ScarletRoseLayoska
    ScarletRoseLayoskaΠριν μήνα

    I'll be sticking with cotton. Silk is too cold in the winter

  • 1313fina
    1313finaΠριν μήνα

    Anna, where do you charge your phone now?

  • 1313fina
    1313finaΠριν μήνα

    Watching this at my desk while dressed in gym clothes:P

  • Faith. Alimo. Ediu
    Faith. Alimo. EdiuΠριν μήνα

    I'm guilty of using my bed for more than sleeping.... I can literally live my day in the bed

  • Bronte Calligaro
    Bronte CalligaroΠριν μήνα

    Imagine thinking that having such a restrictive view on femininity equates to having superior self-respect.

  • Chhavi Goyal
    Chhavi GoyalΠριν μήνα

    I don't know much about feng shui but it does sounds similar to 'vastu shastra' which is an ancient science or method of making house maps. Like wht corner should bathroom be in or where the kitchen should be, what direction should the temple(worship place) face, etc.

  • thelaziestbee
    thelaziestbeeΠριν μήνα

    In fact, I'm very curious recently about feng shui also. If anybody could suggest a good info source for starters, would be amazing )

  • Rayatra
    RayatraΠριν μήνα

    elegant ladies dont work on their laptops on bed me : spent most of my 7 years of med school studying on bed :( :(

  • Nga Tran
    Nga TranΠριν μήνα

    Ladies, are there any school or course about Feng Shui in the US? Please let me know. Thank you 🙏🏻

  • Tiffany Putian
    Tiffany PutianΠριν μήνα

    But silk is too cold during winter. 😂

  • Katrena Avendano
    Katrena AvendanoΠριν μήνα

    Do you have kids Mrs.Anna?

  • SHP Services
    SHP ServicesΠριν μήνα

    Alternatively do what comes naturally. Too many so called "experts". Wear what you want, be natural.....only sheep follow fallen "experts". Why do so many Eastern European women chase the pants off British and American guys! It's NOT a game. I bring strawberries and cream to bed. I bring breakfast to bed on a Sunday. Materialistic fools spreading BS just because they themselves have fallen! Just be real, be yourself, let your relationship grow organically. Why is this theory not working if it's so perfect. BE YOURSELF!

  • Diana Smith
    Diana SmithΠριν μήνα

    2:05 AM: I am watching don't take devices to bed in bed.

  • H M
    H MΠριν μήνα

    Thank you very much, these suggestions are very useful and everyone should give it a try! Can you cover more contents on how feng shui has uplifted your energy? Can you share your thoughts? E.g. we should never put a mirror in front of or next to our bed. Love your videos.

  • Marie N
    Marie NΠριν μήνα

    Only using your bed for sleep is actually a really good advice, especially now when most of us work/study from home. Having a set workplace or study area in your home helps you focus, and using the bed only for sleeping makes the mind delineate which place is your work area and rest area. This isn't just about being elegant, it's also about preventing burn out because of working/studying from home. Also, you're inviting insects to your bed when you eat there 😅 It's quite unsanitary to do that, like not showering before bed.

  • Kritikitti
    KritikittiΠριν 2 μήνες

    Devices? Where else do you use "devices" but IN the bedroom? OH! You didn't mean THOSE "devices".😁

  • Michelle M
    Michelle MΠριν 2 μήνες

    Ya know... I def agree with using bed only for sleeping but.............. I am still single! LOL so I will continue to slighly do whatever i want in bed haha because its comfy

  • se. I.
    se. I.Πριν 2 μήνες

    I'm sorry but hella no I'm not gonna walk in a bedroom like a model while being single, f* that 😂

  • macpduff
    macpduffΠριν 2 μήνες

    I absolutely LOVE the way you address us as 'my dear elegant ladies'. Right there you lift our spirits :-). In the last generation we women have lost sight of the fact that our greatest strength is our elegance and feminism. Not beauty necessarily, but the magic of grace and feminism and elegance regardless of body shape.

  • Jeanette Green
    Jeanette GreenΠριν 2 μήνες

    *Reads number 3. Sees picture of both Audrey and Kate Heburn studying scripts in bed. Wanders away.*

  • Zeenat Hasan
    Zeenat HasanΠριν 2 μήνες

    What about a dr who is on call...they need to have it next to them and can't afford to keep the phone outside the bedroom.

  • Bernadette Hynes - Cafferkey
    Bernadette Hynes - CafferkeyΠριν 2 μήνες

    I always sleep 💤 😴 on my back, and have a silk pillowcase, not an expensive one, and it has done nothing for my hair, plus having to hand-wash it 🙃 , but wouldn't swap it, 😄😄😄

  • Redsquare
    RedsquareΠριν 2 μήνες

    I tend to shower 2 times a day. Morning after waking up, and evening, after working out. Both showers only take about a minute and I just love feeling clean 🥰

  • Gerlinda Ringe
    Gerlinda RingeΠριν 2 μήνες

    What about making your bed? It disgusts me when I see when people just hop in and out of bed for days, without shaking up the duvet or opening the window to let some air in.

  • tancereczka1000
    tancereczka1000Πριν 2 μήνες

    I agree with everythink you wrote except first. When l'm sick or have period l sleep in cotton pyjama.

  • kay phearse
    kay phearseΠριν 2 μήνες

    Oh!!! Anna you are so wise. Yes these are simple things, it is not common sense to all. Oh wow, thank you for sharing.

  • May C
    May CΠριν 2 μήνες

    Leave devices out of the bedroom 100%

  • Sarah Yap
    Sarah YapΠριν 2 μήνες

    Love that sex etiquette. What to do Annnnaaaaaa?

  • Rafaela Bode
    Rafaela BodeΠριν 2 μήνες

    There’s no etiquette in sex!

  • Lady Vegan
    Lady VeganΠριν 2 μήνες

    The sweetest lady ever♥️

  • Flow Thinks
    Flow ThinksΠριν 2 μήνες

    Sigh let me try this 😢

  • DarjeelingJelly
    DarjeelingJellyΠριν 2 μήνες

    I cant do this. Its too hot. I can only sleep on cotton in cotton. Its the most comfortable for me. I cannot sleep on silk, I've tried. Although I refuse having a TV or electronics in my bedroom.

  • mc23243
    mc23243Πριν 2 μήνες

    This is why it is good to be single

  • HighBrow
    HighBrowΠριν 2 μήνες

    I always dress for an airport. I think you should look chic in the airport. I can't tell you how many times I have had a flight run late and I am totally dressed and prepared to go directly to my destination. I just quickly freshen in the car/cab evian mist, lipstick, powder

  • AestheticLady
    AestheticLadyΠριν 2 μήνες

    I shower my hair and everything at night, getting rid of the germs from the day and then in the morning I only shower my body and not my hair to keep my hair healthy!

  • Suzi SaintJames
    Suzi SaintJamesΠριν 2 μήνες

    I was waking up with headaches every day. Come to find out, my bed was in the worst direction. So I switched the bedding head to foot... Not my best position but I haven't awoke with a headache since. ❤🌅🌵😷

  • Lenka Graner H.M.D
    Lenka Graner H.M.DΠριν 2 μήνες

    Feng shui has worked for my home, too!

  • Heidi Checketts West
    Heidi Checketts WestΠριν 2 μήνες

    Many women don't practice proper hygiene because of depression, but practicing proper hygiene helps lift your mood

  • Trinity Denise

    Trinity Denise

    Πριν 19 ημέρες

    Honestly so true definitely have to start getting back into self care🙏🏾💕

  • Lyssm Sarona
    Lyssm SaronaΠριν 2 μήνες


  • Lyssm Sarona
    Lyssm SaronaΠριν 2 μήνες

    The bed is only for sleeping

  • Marina Patenaude
    Marina PatenaudeΠριν 2 μήνες

    Omg!! haha I wear the ugliest pajama :'( I really need to work on that

  • Ashley Salazar
    Ashley SalazarΠριν 2 μήνες

    Currently eating in bed. 😬

  • Anna Martin
    Anna MartinΠριν 2 μήνες

    I always felt gross eating in bed

  • t Iqbal
    t IqbalΠριν 2 μήνες

    can i watch GRglo in bed? 🙊

  • noura almudaires
    noura almudairesΠριν 2 μήνες


  • video128
    video128Πριν 2 μήνες

    Before opening this video and just reading the title only, I was thinking of 2 answers: ladies do not fart and they don't finish last. Let's press play and see if I was right ✅ 😉

  • k gon
    k gonΠριν 2 μήνες

    Watching this video made me change my bed clothes right after.

  • Milena Bartoszewska
    Milena BartoszewskaΠριν 2 μήνες

    I really want use silk stuffs, but unfortunately I don’t have money for it. Maybe when I go to work when I’m finally adult (I’m 18) I will be able to get it.

  • Danique Visser
    Danique VisserΠριν 2 μήνες

    I study fashion and you might like to know that silk isn't only good for your skin because of the gliding. Cotton can absorb water and silk can't so your skin and hair stay hydrated during the night and your hair and skincare products don't disappear during the night. ❤️

  • Talent Takura
    Talent TakuraΠριν 2 μήνες

    So how many times a day should we shower???

  • Ashleigh Nunez
    Ashleigh NunezΠριν 2 μήνες

    Absolutely, silk pillow cases are the best for your skin, hair, and even respiratory system (concerning allergens). If you can afford it, get silk bedsheets too. But if you can’t get a whole sheet set in silk, then the pillow case is the most important piece, so do it. And you really need to hand wash your silk pillow cases in a mild, natural, hypoallergenic detergent/soap. Don’t dry in the dryer either, not even on delicate setting, unless you use a lingerie bag (bag you put your lingerie in before you put it in the washing machine). Also, you need to flip and rotate your pillow because you rub skin bacteria on your pillow case. So you don’t want to keep putting your face in the same spot every night. Also, wash your sheets every week, and put your pillow in the dryer on mild or delicate setting, each week for 30 minutes. It kills dust mites.

  • ShanForShort
    ShanForShortΠριν 2 μήνες

    I’m literally binge watching this channel 😫

  • Echosong 87
    Echosong 87Πριν 2 μήνες

    U not pray to God before u go to sleep? U don't really have to do anything physically... Really

  • Eyat Molaeb
    Eyat MolaebΠριν 2 μήνες


  • The Refinery
    The RefineryΠριν 2 μήνες

    You inspire us here at, The Refinery! Thank you x

  • Youtube Queen
    Youtube QueenΠριν 2 μήνες

    Very true

  • Honey Rose
    Honey RoseΠριν 2 μήνες

    Feng shui is not true and is haram

  • Simran Rana
    Simran RanaΠριν 2 μήνες

    I'm breaking all these rules here... Watching the video while lying on bed. ( Gonna follow these etiquettes from now on)

  • Dorota Anderson
    Dorota AndersonΠριν 2 μήνες

    Anna, I am very proud of you! It is a delight to watch a classy lady changing the world for the better. Please include lots of comments about good manners towards other people in a society. All the best wishes ❤

    LIGHT EMPIREΠριν 2 μήνες

    Elegant Ladies do not look for flaws or topics to shame another. I see so many spoke of her sitting in her bed/Room giving advice.. Could it be.. Did u stop to think.. It must be so. Because the nature of her topic.... That's it. EL do not learn from a person and try to shade or run the teacher down.. There is no elegance , class or beauty.. Without manners. Rule nber one. Dab a touch of soft fresh perfume. Just a dab. Behind ears at night. Sleep feeling n smelling beautuful.. Then wake up.. Learn to think beautuful. This is basic of elegance. Even before buying silk pj's n cases n sheets. Love

  • k
    kΠριν 3 μήνες

    Also something my grandmother has told me is: never place your feet on your pillow and the side of the bed where your head would be when sleeping!

  • Tristen James
    Tristen JamesΠριν 3 μήνες

    Omg love the advice. Thank you. 🙏🏽✨

  • Stephenie Mangharam
    Stephenie MangharamΠριν 3 μήνες

    “Dont do anything other than sleeping in your bed” Films a video on her bed

  • D D
    D DΠριν 3 μήνες

    4:33 Hit home

  • Cas J
    Cas JΠριν 3 μήνες

    This is so funny!! But so true!! I've seen many of these qualities in my mother

  • A.A. DM
    A.A. DMΠριν 3 μήνες

    wonderful colour for you..makes you glowing