You should always communicate this to the friend though

I hate myself after recognizing myself there in these descriptions. But good that realize it at least, right? (Asking myself).

I am not a good friend. I know it. I am trying to do something with it by doing something with myself. Become better version of myself, but for now I had better be by myself. I don’t want to make anyone feel bad by my presence in their lives.

Hmmm... my mother is all of these.😅😅

I was a very toxic friend for a very long time. It’s only after I started putting my life together and focusing on my betterment that I realized how trashy and horrible I was being and started working on fixing that.

I'm surrounded by all these ppl ugh

Came here for validation about some of my thoughts towards a gal pal.. Found out I’m also a few of these. 🥴 Cheers to self growth moving into 2021!

A Lone Wolf in the room 😊

I’ve encountered many of these women in the workplace.

The comparing and competing .... the reason I don't have female friends. Is so hard to find real female friends.

To be honest am number 7 hahahaha

I have ended two friendships this past year due to recognizing their toxic behavior. One was constant issues. Everyday there was some self inflicted damsel in distress, along with her allowing men from her past to hover and come back into her life. The second is older than me. She has jealousy issues and seems to favor my being single since she has been divorced for so long with no marriage suitors. My dating life has actually accelerated even more since I have stopped spending time with her.

What about women who are constantly trying to talk over you in conversations

I have a friend who’s suffering with depression and often I feel like everything I do isn’t enough. I sometimes dread being around her but there are good days where things are going great. And I’ve been there for her for about a year but only now I’m feeling like it’s affecting me. What can I do? Does anyone have experience with something like this?

Thank You Mz.Anna For Sharing~I'veJustLearnedThatIHaveToTakeCareOfMyself~IKnowWhoIAm&ThatIsAllThatMattersThatICan'tLetTheToxicEnergyFromThoseEffectMe~I💗HowYouInfluenceMe💖💖💖

Hi Anna, just a question: What do you do, if that toxic person happens to be a FAMILY member, and they constantly want to visit with you, text you, send you pictures of their babies, they need attention, validation, approval, brag, & complain (vent)?? When I try to talk to them about me being annoyed by them, and needing space, they get sensitive and give me the guilt trip for not being supportive... I feel very drained with these type of family members. So, what do you do in a situation like this, especially since you can't avoid them entirely, because they are family?? Anna, any tips you can give me, will be helpful.💚

Looks nice! Nice video :)

How about learning how to deal with each of them instead of cutting ties?

Niggita Dragun

Πριν 14 ημέρες

The solution is communication, honesty and self awareness

I adore your outfit!

Thank you, Anna, for this video. I loved it and somehow it removed all traces of guilt I had with letting them go. Chances should be given within limit. 🙏♥️

I absolutely adore you and your channel.

I had a friend who moved in with me after breaking up with her boyfriend. In the course of about 5 years, she ruined my finances, college, and career aspects. Turns out she is a textbook narcissist. There is no phycological or medication treatment that can fix narcissism. It's a permanent personality disorder. I got out of the friendship and out of the place we shared and never looked back. My life has been rapidly improving ever since. Got my finances back under control. I'm going back to college. And my career is taking off again. I believe you when you say that just being around negative people and their horrible, cloying, sucking, draining energy can energetically block or destroy your own investments from bearing fruit.

OMG binwatching this channel is everything!!! Thankyou !! love all Your content 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💕💕💕

Me: infj safe Ahahaha

You are a wonderful human being Anna. Keep doig it. God bless you.

I love your blouse, Anna. Where did you get it?

Great channel!

Maria Yoder- now Maria T :))

I’m my own best friend and men think this is weird but I guess they don’t know women and I’m not having fake friends. My last best friend who was kind to me and genuine completely was when I was twelve and lived with the Mennonite and life was simple and innocent

I usually have one friend

Absolutely difficult to find strong, positive female friends

I wish i had these videos in my teens and twenties....these r things that every young lady and woman needs to hear

You are awesome.

What to do when they are your sisters ? Lol

I am really happy I came to this channel and learn these things when I am still a teenager(16 year)

These types are actually family members

The negative Nancy reminds me of the Keeping up with the Kardashians when Koko, Kourt, Scott, Kenny and Kylies💀were calling Kiki (Kim) Fancy Nancy cause she was very critical Oh my 🤭time really does fly

It’s not only about the female friends, but male friends also. And I know a person who has just all these traits 😂😂😂 and unfortunately enough, I had to work with this person for a long long time, despite trying to get away from that person a lot of times and damage was already done. But I am glad that the person is now out of my life, the one thing that 2020 has brought. 😃

💖💖💖🦋 I can’t agree more.

I can count my friends with less fingers that in one hand, if that makes sense.

Another stunning tunic blouse

Keep sharing this type of content! I hope everyone can watch you. I love it!! 🥰

I love it! Very true! Great video!

Thr jelousey is an irritating feeling! Well put!

😂...""Ears are bleeding""...😂 i love anna! Before i distance myself from these types, my go--to line is always...."""the world would be a much more awesome place if everyone received regular psychological counseling, it's truly stress relieving.""

You guys have friends?

Number 4: the Negative Nancy I feel like I should make the point that being around someone who seems negative can sometimes feel draining, and you have every right to leave a relationship. However I also think there should be some understanding of those suffering from illnesses, namely mental illnesses. Those people are not inherently undeserving of good friends, in fact many of those people tend to self isolate in fear of pushing others away. Self isolation can lead to physical health conditions, premature death and sui*ide I feel that outright cutting someone out of your life because they’re showing signs of depression is a very shallow or emotionally unintelligent reaction. Why not instead direct them to therapy, or actually figure out what’s going wrong in their life. Their mental illness does not define what kind of person they are. Studies also show that those who have higher IQs are more likely to be pessimistic. So you’re potentially cutting someone out of your life that has high intellect 😉

So true! This is what I needed to here! How about a subject “ how to keep your wealth life or hubby?”

Monica Davis

Πριν 2 μήνες

Also, thanks for this video, I needed to here it!

My BEST FRIEND for 4 years, now that i truly am sure, is all kinds of toxic. Im sooooo irritated and cant even sleep well. Judges me all the time. Jealous of my belongings . Whatever. Dont know what to do.

Una ves invite a mi amiga a ir a comer con nosotros. En el viaje entero actuó diferente y súper elegante 🤣 entonces ordenamos la comida 🥘 y en la forma que comía era con tanta delicadeza 🍴🥢🍽 que jamás la avía visto comiendo de esa forma! (Ella come hasta con las👋🏼) En ese momento no mire todo eso, por que jamás pensé nada mal de ella.Mucho tiempo después , yo pensando 💭 🤔 por que ella actuó con tanta delicadeza frente a mi hombre ? En otra ocasión , reunidos en su casa, empezó a bailar tirandose en el piso moviendo las 🍑 y tratando de llamar la atención 🤦🏻‍♀️. Ella dijo mi esposo me deja hacer lo que yo quiera y no es celoso como el tuyo. después mde decía tu hombre es feo que le viste ? Tu eres mucha cosa para el. Paso tiempo, y nos separamos con mi pareja. Entonces un día ella me dice oh mire a tu ex se mira tan lindo 😍😍 !! Moral de la historia.. no lleves amigas con tu hombre. Por que son 🐍

There seems to be a common problem that many girls face with other girls. I think that there’s immaturity and lack of priorities. Some DONT even have these negative traits in high school/O Levels but some do and don’t grow up, well into their 20’s and 30’s. Just like some guys don’t grow up, post gym selfies, DM girls on Instagram, chase girls, go out with their friends to smoke every other day, unemployed, active in group chats, keeping tabs on who’s doing what and why, etc. Behaving like teenagers who haven’t grown up. It’s exhausting how childish, unaware and unsophisticated some people can be. How little self respect they can have for themselves to not even try to be better. To not be in control of their own lives. Such people have always put me off. I didn’t even start drama or get involved in it, as a teenager. And I couldn’t stand others doing it.

If certain people bring out the worst in you or cause you to have to defend yourself, then don’t talk to them. Not even if it’s family members. You shouldn’t sit with people who bring out the worst in you. Sit with people who inspire you to be better. People who are productive and people who don’t depress you. When you’re around your type, most of your depression will decrease. Environment plays a big role on our moods. People who bring out your worst mood, are not the type you should be around. That’s not a healthy environment that brings out the best in you. See how you respond to your environment and sit with that type, only. Also, make life decisions accordingly.

Avoid girls who lie, start drama and girls who want your life or CANT handle your blessings. Eventually, their resentment will grow and they’ll throw you under the bus. Avoid girls who do something but take your name and blame you for it.

Love it. This is just common sense ladies. Work on yourselves.

I have always wondered why I have never really had female friends at this time I only have one and we have been friends for about 4 years. I don't know if I'm always wearing a BS filter to protect myself or what but it just seems that my life is easier without female friends. I tend to gravitate towards male friends. I'm not really sure why this is. even though I'm a long-haul truck driver I'm not a masculine person at all but for some reason there is a block when it comes to having female friends I think it may be because internally I feel everything that you just said and that instinct is preventing me from forming female friendships I am friendly to the other women and I am supportive of other women and I wish them the best but I don't feel the need to have female friends around me. I don't know if there's something wrong with me or if that says something about my relationship with my mother or anything like that. It's just something I've always wondered about. When I was younger I did have female friends but it would be very limited like maybe one or two. I just can't stand hearing about their drama. I used to get so angry while I was sitting and listening to them talking about problems with their boyfriend and I was like the whole time why are you putting up with that? If you're not going to teach people how to treat you then it's your own fault. I guess that ended some friendships. Too many women just don't take up for themselves and I guess I have no tolerance for that in my life. Life is just too short to surround yourself with people who insist on living Pat Benatar songs LOL. I love that you were able to put all this into words.

Now we just need to procure not to be that kinda friend lol...

I had 2 female friends who have 8 out of 10 of what’s mentioned. They were the most toxic poisonous to be around. Like...gave me anxiety. That’s how bad they are. Ended the friendships. Sad thing is these 2 got along so well due to the similar traits.....but they’d be catty behind each other’s backs. Kinda sad.

Omg I use the same phrase "emotional blackmail" I love this channel already!

i had a "friend" that has all these traits. 🤢

I can count my friends on one hand. I had to cut many friends out because they were so toxic. I would love to have more positive people in my life, it’s just so difficult to find good people.

Yass that’s why I don’t have any female friends long term, they all fail the “entry to my home” I haven’t invited one into my house since getting married, oh no I did invite one ☝️ but then she wanted to bang a couple two weeks before her wedding to a sweet guy she used for money so I left that thing. Last one texted me “I am so jealous you create content” and I know she’s jealous of everything and I get it, my man is a provider and yours is a junkie, I mean, how can we be friends? We can’t. In fact, both husband and I strongly believe only weak and incomplete people keep “friends” as every friend is a fried end and every friend has an end. Another example of a women who literally said “let me show you what a real friend is” and that second I read the semantics “let me show you what a real end is” and since seeing her hubby said “you won’t speak to her in two months” and sure enough within that time it got so bad I went from “the best thing that happened to her since moving here two years ago” to “you’re the worst person I’ve met in my life and I will sue you” 😆 it was like she wanted to destroy me for all the things she envies, she did say “birch how can you look so good in everything” but boo it’s not my problem you ate yourself into 80lbs overweight obesity... she truly despised me, and she did do that “evil eye” thing as she practiced witchcrafts oh gosh... energy vampires 🧛‍♀️ are real. This channel is 50% absolutely bullshit damaging to women to listen to and 50% genuinely good content helpful to anyone, it’s an odd combo, I wish the young girls in the chat to find their way to matriarchal wisdom without falling for nonsense as there’s loads of bad advice here too, especially on how and what to speak of and what not to speak of. Anyway, take care everyone. I am not a lady, I am a fierce female, fierce mother, and a fierce wife, I am my husbands lady when we go on dates, and I am a lady for some younger human to seek advice with, but overall, I suggest women to strive to be a Fierce Female first and a Lady second. I am trained in martial arts, self defence and handling weapons, I can cook, garden, birth and breastfeed children, be my husbands counsel and confidant, and be his earned enemy to demolish his ego when necessary, I am the flower and I am the Queen, being a LADY is only one aspect of being a Woman, and you should learn from women who are Full Spectrum, and I promise you they’re in a different age bracket as the speaker in this video, she’s of good energy signature but she is lifeless too, I see talk but I don’t see content. It is easy to be making videos from cleaned hotel rooms, I’ve done it while modelling in youth myself, but being a LADY who’s raising children (and not feeding emergency foods as staples to kids or family) keeping healthy sex life & having that alpha providers ego in check with grace, that’s when you grow into a lady, young girls are not ladies, you can be “groomed” but you’re not a lady, you’re a sophisticated chick 🐣 and chicks aren’t ladies, married women with children that treat their bodies and minds with respect and respected by their husbands and children, Those (in my not at all humble) opinion are Ladies. And as I said, I am my husbands lady, but for the world, I am whatever I need to be as such is the wild power of insatiable mouth 👄 of Maya that is the universe and the woman herself. Melania Trump is a lady. And Melania Trump is FIERCE, she is truly Vicious Hardcore woman. And only a Lady can understand why and how. 😉👑🐍🌪

My life drastically improved after cutting out negative people! This video is so relatable.

What f the narcissistic person is your mother. You can't run away then. How do you protect while still being for them when they need you?

#1 when it's your own mom! Also I found being positive is what attracted many narcissists and other wounded people, they seemed to be attracted to my energy like a moth to a flame. Meanwhile the more negative women get the really nice men and they type of men who are helpers.

Types 2-9 are all in one of my ex-friend and unfortunately a colleague. So glad she's not is my life as much as she used to be 🙏🏻

Jealous is not correct; the word's envious

My name is Nancy. Could you use the phrase negative NOODLE or something like that instead? LOL

Imagine Elizabeth II gossiping about Kim Kardashian 💀

I recently ended a friendship with a girl who had almost all of these traits and I have to say it honestly feels like a big weight has been lifted off of my shoulders. I feel like I'm moving forward faster now.

I don't have any friends now a days 🤣🤣...they all r jealous and gossiping girls...I'm happy after cut them out from my life...❤❤ u from Rome Italy...

We should be cultivating empathy, understanding and forgiveness, rather than labelling and rejecting people. You are an extreme case of internalized misogyny.

M Bash

Πριν 2 μήνες

First off, you sound like a hater and you’re misinterpreting the video completely. She talks about empathy and forgiveness. I don’t think you understand the point of this video. She mentions that some people come from a tough background or are insecure in themselves, and in that case to try to help them if they’re open to it and give second chances. What she is saying is that no one owes any toxic person any loyalty and we shouldn’t have to bend to people who are making us constantly miserable. I dealt with really toxic people in my life who took complete advantage of me and my kindness and depleated me as a result. Your comment is the extreme one.

hina shah

Πριν 2 μήνες

@Sarmad Owais I love you too 😳

Sarmad Owais

Πριν 2 μήνες

I love you

What about the type of woman that pretends to look down on you and pretends to look down on brands. I think the only person worse than a condescending person is the person who pretends to look down on a person who they actually think is equal to them.

M Bash

Πριν 2 μήνες

I had a friend just like you’re saying.. she’d look down on me if I ever treated myself to anything « branded » and I never bragged nor anything. She was the type to splurge 100 bucks weekly in primark and I’m the type to buy one quality thing that I love for that same sum or save my money. Never had I ever criticized her lifestyle, but she completely made me out to be a snob/reckless spender while she was actually the one throwing money around on useless things and wasting 10x more money than me. I think it’s funny now that I think about it.. either way, it’s a big sign of jealousy/narcissism (trying to make you feel bad about yourself) and I think now I’ll avoid women like this like the plague.

Wow I just cut ties to all of my "friends" LMAO

Can I cut my family? I relate to everything but with my parents

These were on point.

I really enjoyed this video, thank you.

I'm a negative Nancy. I'm a little better than before, and still working it out for my own self ❤️

You forgot the "friend" who has drama following her.

when you are an orthodox Christian watching this: o_0

My friend of 15 years always opposes everything I say even if she contradicts herself just for the sake of disagreeing with me. I went to college and make good money, live on my own, and I look younger because I take care of myself. She dropped out of school and still lives with her parents.

By watching this video. I realized some things. Thank you❤️

Oh, thank you Anna!

it's me, i'm negative nancy

I'm generally rather jealous of people so I do a lot of comparisons. I'm working on improving myself and thus find contentment and quit experiencing feelings of inferiority.

Can we discuss if its right to have a best friend who has other multiple other best friend who aren't your friends?

Confirmation... after watching I realized I have 0 friends

I have a singular friend who fits all of these traits... maybe it’s time to distance myself

I do agree with her. I have been with some negative nancies and drama queens and I am so tired listening to them. They always complain about living in Germany, but they don´t want to move to another country lol

Hi I’m new on your friend

Me clicking praying she says stuff that doesn’t sound like me

Hi Anna suppose they aren't aware of what they are doing ? You turn in the news or any TV movies etc and this is all you hear and see ...maybe they just don't realize what they are saying doing. ....to be a good friend talk with them about what they are saying and doing. Help them change in a Subtle way Than make a decision either way

“This type of woman (Attention Seekers) sacrifice their dignity to get that kick of validation.” That is so true. Many of these women have psychological and emotional issues (like traumatic experiences, lack of nurturing in childhood) and should seek help for themselves.

I like you beautiful 😘

It is a must know topic because it some times effect our career growth also Love the Vedio

Hi Anna!! I'm such a big fan of your videos! But I'm new in your channel so I still have maaaaaany to watch. Do you have any about how to know who to trust? Because I have some issues when it comes to trust...I really don't know how to identify trustworthy people (well sometimes...but mostly I get disappointed) and I have trouble sometimes because of that. Help please! :)

You described a lot of my friends ahahh

I love this video and watching it again.❤

I have an associate that falls in more than one category.

Goodness, I know “friend “ that has all these traits 😳

Imagine a person with all those characteristics. I've met one, true horror!