7 Brutal Dating Mistakes That Turn Men Off

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  • Kiana Lewis
    Kiana LewisΠριν ημέρα

    So when it comes to paying, what do you do if you're dating in Scandinavia? I travel there often and happen to date there as well, and if it's growing in acceptance for the woman to split the bill, won't I just seem rude if I don't?

  • Salwa Shami
    Salwa ShamiΠριν 3 ημέρες

    And Canada......... Guys expect women to pay or share the bill 🙄

  • D Mac
    D MacΠριν 6 ημέρες

    "50:50 is a very depressing direction to take in life" No words. None.

  • Sammy Jr
    Sammy JrΠριν 7 ημέρες

    Can't blame men for these things ladies. Feminism has changed things and men are getting smart to it.

  • Streetstylis
    StreetstylisΠριν 8 ημέρες

    Who else loves the introduction: “my dear elegant ladies”? 🤩

  • Naps _
    Naps _Πριν 10 ημέρες


  • Sam Dom
    Sam DomΠριν 11 ημέρες


  • Divine Angelic
    Divine AngelicΠριν 12 ημέρες

    Hi Anna mixed races couples I just don't get that either ?

  • Divine Angelic
    Divine AngelicΠριν 12 ημέρες

    Hi Anna your so correct. So many woman I know wind up with a guy who makes less than them and the marriage always is in strife or ends in divorce she sometimes winds up supporting him !? Not good at all as she just loses respect for him so no one wins

  • Sumin H.
    Sumin H.Πριν 13 ημέρες

    Ana, I need your opinion on how you would behave when you eat out with your male friend! Once I went out for a dinner with a friend (but more likely acquaintance). I found that he is at where I was for his job so that during the conversation, I offered him to meet to catch up. (Saying "let's have a dinner or sometimes!" is a phrase for a courtesy in my country but I guess it wasn't in his culture for sure haha.) So we end up having dinner. Since we did not have any romantic vibe for each other, we paid separately. But I can say it was a bit awkward. How would you behave if you were in that situation? Thank you!

  • Lailah Jones
    Lailah JonesΠριν 14 ημέρες

    omg she’s so funny & i love the editing

  • Ananya Tyagi
    Ananya TyagiΠριν 21 ημέρα

    In India i don't know it depends..but mostly men pay.

  • Fortunate Sambo
    Fortunate SamboΠριν 22 ημέρες

    This is going to be difficult but I hope I try I lost my way around of being elegant

  • Emma SC
    Emma SCΠριν 23 ημέρες

    Is so embarrassing and degrading for a man when he expects a woman to pay .

  • Priscila Monteiro Sanchez
    Priscila Monteiro SanchezΠριν 23 ημέρες

    Spanish men hates to pay the bills on a date, they only pay their part. That's all. You must see how upset they could get if they have to pay for a woman, even if it's a first date!

  • Chinmayee Jena
    Chinmayee JenaΠριν 24 ημέρες

    Ik gender roles are changing to..to..to🤣sis you're savage🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • tiffany Jones
    tiffany JonesΠριν 24 ημέρες

    I had a date with a guy where he paid for dinner (OF COURSE)!!!!!!! As we were leaving out, I thanked him for the meal, and he said "You're welcome. You got us next time." I laughed, thinking he was joking. He didn't call me for about three weeks (and I most certainly didn't call him). In the conversation, he said that he hadn't called because it was my "turn to call." I asked him why he felt that way, and he said that he believed that a relationship should be 50/50. I explained to him that I am not 50% woman. Needless to say, we never spoke again.

  • Anda Akd
    Anda AkdΠριν 25 ημέρες

    In Romania it is really common paying 50/50, but I've been in a relationship in which I used to pay for nearly everything. Sending you lots of hugs and a happy Merry Christmas! 🤍✨

  • Zoe Abrahms
    Zoe AbrahmsΠριν μήνα

    I went out with a swedish guy a few times in my mid twenties who, towards the end of our meal, politely brought up whether we split the bill. He said that it was customary where he's from but he knows it's traditional for the man to pay in the US. I told him that that is customary and that is be happy to split the bill on our second date. Went well :)

  • belle ojiaku
    belle ojiakuΠριν μήνα

    i’m american and it’s sooo annoying how women are expected to go 50/50 here

  • ama C
    ama CΠριν μήνα

    In the USA they have expression "let's dutch", which means "let's share a recipt/bill=I pay half and you pay half". It comes from Denmark, where I guess most of men are poor and they can't afford even simple dinner:) During my English class in NY the female teacher told our male colleagues, that in the US culture they take all recepits, when they're dating woman. If she said "let's dutch" it would mean "she thinks you're poor".

  • T L
    T LΠριν μήνα

    In Australia, a man has never expected me to pay EVER.

  • T L

    T L

    Πριν μήνα

    @James Coleman probably. Didn't happen haha.

  • James Coleman

    James Coleman

    Πριν μήνα

    He was probably expecting you to pay another way...

  • Katherine Schindler
    Katherine SchindlerΠριν μήνα

    How about being prepared to pay if you are not sure they will pull out their wallet.

  • Dhuha
    DhuhaΠριν μήνα

    Thank you dear .Very helpful video.🌸

  • Bahaleo Leosh
    Bahaleo LeoshΠριν μήνα

    Western women so pressed right now💀 because you’re speaking straight up faxxxxx 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • enchae_ nted
    enchae_ ntedΠριν μήνα

    South korea is included in 50:50, meh

  • Nana Abena Darkowaah
    Nana Abena DarkowaahΠριν μήνα

    Was born and raised in Germany. Then moved to Ghana (West Africa). It was interesting seeing men wanting to pay for me or give you money. I was like _I'm not used to that_ but I'm now getting into it. ✨

  • Nadia Gonsalvez
    Nadia GonsalvezΠριν μήνα

    Should I say good morning first?

  • jost deloney
    jost deloneyΠριν μήνα

    She is the type of girl I'd like to be friends with. You'll surely adopt that feminine aura.

  • Son
    SonΠριν μήνα

    I’m Asian and we expect men to pay 😄🦋

  • Sama Ashleigh
    Sama AshleighΠριν μήνα

    What is your take on paying when youre on lunch with a man who is strictly a your friend

  • Che'la
    Che'laΠριν μήνα

    This was amazing!! Outstanding job!!

  • 你好Safa
    你好SafaΠριν μήνα

    my mistake i pay 😥middleeast

  • Lic. Yesika De la paz
    Lic. Yesika De la pazΠριν μήνα

    Ohh I made Second Mistake!! and she is right.

  • Susan Tropeano
    Susan TropeanoΠριν μήνα

    You look amazing ! love the elegant top and earrings.

  • Nurhidayah Sham
    Nurhidayah ShamΠριν μήνα

    "The man should pay" Thank you!Hopefully you're message will get through to as many women as possible.

  • Rain Reimondo
    Rain ReimondoΠριν μήνα

    In Algeria we never pay for a meal no Matter how is the situation men always pay without even thinking

  • Justyna Wenecka
    Justyna WeneckaΠριν μήνα

    in Poland - depends. But I have a Norwegian man and that was a big case in our relationship:)

  • Sydney Moraa
    Sydney MoraaΠριν μήνα

    Date multiple men😂😂... I'm loving this talk

  • Danica Poitras
    Danica PoitrasΠριν μήνα

    What if he says next time you message me first? do you still wait?

  • Aya Ferrad
    Aya FerradΠριν μήνα

    The scenes at 12:42, what’s the film called please?

  • chelka7
    chelka7Πριν μήνα

    Why i watched this one after i made nearly All. Of the mistakes u mentioned with the guy I like 🤷🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

    SEWING WITH IFYΠριν μήνα

    I love this woman❤

  • Perdana KP
    Perdana KPΠριν μήνα

    I wished i knew this 20 years ago😢

  • Vita Buonavita
    Vita BuonavitaΠριν μήνα

    you are spot on with your information

  • The sun 1111Tarot
    The sun 1111TarotΠριν 2 μήνες

    I agree

  • Amanda Morton-King
    Amanda Morton-KingΠριν 2 μήνες

    OOps - over heavy earrings given the delicate elegant neckline; fabulous dress though, and V wise comments re: paying for dinner. A mean man is someone we can all do without!

  • PraiTRaX
    PraiTRaXΠριν 2 μήνες

    Real question. I understand a man should show he can provide, but shouldn’t you show that you provide something as well? Premarital sex becoming normalized has lessened the value of it. Shouldn’t a woman at least prove that she brings SOMETHING to the table?

  • Raine


    Πριν 2 μήνες

    I definitely agree. But if a man’s main focus isn’t sex and he actually views people as people, and not objects, he will see her for who she really is. He’ll see all of her good qualities. He’ll appreciate the fact she can hold a conversation, the fact that she truly cares about him more than anyone else on the planet does, he appreciates having her by his side because he’s not embarrassed of her. There are a lot of things that make a woman special and it’s the difference between her and other women that should make him see that her “difference” is what she brings to the table. It’s her individuality that she brings to the table.

  • womp womp

    womp womp

    Πριν 2 μήνες

    Dear, if you get with the right woman then everything she is, is what she brings to the table.

  • Nicole Rai
    Nicole RaiΠριν 2 μήνες

    Just wondering... if i'm married already, is it normal to leave tons of message like take care ,have a nice day! or hope you work today is great. Is these kind of message good for a married couple or should i stop? because my husband also replies. but i scared its not classy spaming like that?

  • Cooking With Missi
    Cooking With MissiΠριν 2 μήνες

    You have such a cute and funny way of explaining this Thank you I love this Sharing

  • Riya Jagtap
    Riya JagtapΠριν 2 μήνες

    You are really beautiful ♥️

  • HighBrow
    HighBrowΠριν 2 μήνες

    If you are having dinner with a gay man. Do they still pay?

  • Miss Shania
    Miss ShaniaΠριν 2 μήνες

    That dress is darling ✨

  • Mel
    MelΠριν 2 μήνες

    American men expect women to pay half or to not expect the man to pay

  • Ashley Salazar
    Ashley SalazarΠριν 2 μήνες

    Your editing is so funny

  • Krys Style
    Krys StyleΠριν 2 μήνες

    the united states expect you to pay or offer and I WILL NOT be a part of this just my preference

  • heather weber
    heather weberΠριν 2 μήνες

    When I was starting to dating I became very aware that some men think that by paying for dinner gave them the right to expect other things later. One thing I was told was that if a date was willing to sleep with you before marriage is a sign that he is willing to sleep with someone else after you are married. Doesn't dating several guys ( or the opposite men dating several girls) say the same thing? that we women are willing to be emotionally invested in a man that isn't our (future/present) husband? I don't want to be worrying about my date or husband when he is on that business trip or at the office.

  • Pilar Paredes
    Pilar ParedesΠριν 2 μήνες

    I have a handsome husband from Sweden, and He think that de are equis and he think that i have to pay. He is spoiled by sweden society? He is very Well educated, sweet and kind. And very glamorous with this nordic beauty. What to... do....😔

  • Electric Etaraz
    Electric EtarazΠριν 2 μήνες

    I loved this video you looked extra splendid and made me laugh more than once

  • Fernanda Moraes
    Fernanda MoraesΠριν 2 μήνες

    Wow dating more than one guy is such a waste of time. I rather spend all the time I have improving myself and being with my family and friends than with people I probably won't build any lasting relationship with. Also that's a great way of losing a decent guy in case you find one (which is a rarity nowadays)

  • Lauren Cunneen
    Lauren CunneenΠριν 2 μήνες

    This vid is actually so accurate, the minute I made all of these changes, I got a man to be very interested

  • Lyssm Sarona
    Lyssm SaronaΠριν 2 μήνες

    A some rich men can be dustys I learned that from Karine Alourde❤ so be careful ladies

  • womp womp

    womp womp

    Πριν 2 μήνες

    I enjoy watching her as well! 😊

  • K
    KΠριν 2 μήνες

    The emotionally detaching part is sooo true,until I'm officially asked out I'm single

  • Team Ground Zero
    Team Ground ZeroΠριν 2 μήνες

    It is interesting to see so many people upset with being treated as an equal.

  • Blanca Orozco
    Blanca OrozcoΠριν 2 μήνες

    Mexico, no way Jose! But the new generation are making the mistake to pay half or pay the diner.

  • sunshine drop
    sunshine dropΠριν 2 μήνες

    How to get out of my habit of wanting to pull out my wallet on dates???😭😭😭any tips

  • Thaina Glassen
    Thaina GlassenΠριν 2 μήνες

    Brazil is also expected to pay!

  • Pink Style
    Pink StyleΠριν 2 μήνες

    So glad I came across your page I love it. Great advice

  • Belle Lopez
    Belle LopezΠριν 2 μήνες

    Ok. I will start dating more than one man at a time. Lovely!

  • Joana’s World
    Joana’s WorldΠριν 2 μήνες

    Guys become arrogant when you show so much interest.

  • sakmax
    sakmaxΠριν 2 μήνες

    In Asia, a man is always expected to pay on a date. In fact, some high-end restaurants have "ladies menu" i.e. the menu has no prices. Only the gentlemen's menu has the prices listed.

  • Lulu Lulu

    Lulu Lulu

    Πριν 22 ημέρες

    I never been to restaurant with a menu like that. So interesting

  • Virgie Mata
    Virgie MataΠριν 2 μήνες

    Show the best version of your personality. You don't have to prove you are imperfect... smart men already know. But be in your best behavior showing you have self control.

  • Αστερινή Ουρικα
    Αστερινή ΟυρικαΠριν 2 μήνες

    Ure becoming my role model

  • Αστερινή Ουρικα
    Αστερινή ΟυρικαΠριν 2 μήνες

    Αα we need more of u

  • martha benner
    martha bennerΠριν 2 μήνες

    When someone takes another out to a restaurant they're expected to pay, It's only proper manners, it's they're treat, weather they let the other choose whare or not. Now is the woman taking the man out or the man taking the woman out, I really doubt it's the woman.

  • Tiara roma
    Tiara romaΠριν 2 μήνες

    No one's talking about how beautiful our elegant lady over here is looking in this vedio ❤️ 😘👌👌👌

  • Gigi detreb
    Gigi detrebΠριν 2 μήνες

    Thank God I'm gay

  • Just Luna
    Just LunaΠριν 2 μήνες

    I LOOOVEEE her omg! 💗 💗 😂

  • Janet Besing
    Janet BesingΠριν 2 μήνες

    chasing a man is a no no...its cheap and downgrading too

  • Ailyn Ramos
    Ailyn RamosΠριν 2 μήνες

    Here in Peru a lot of men want woman pay the food, and the cinema every date, there are just some men who are gentleman

  • Yeyi
    YeyiΠριν 2 μήνες

    If i am in a serious, stable relationship should i date multiple men to not just focus on my boyfriend? Or that just applies for singles who are just dating and meeting new people?

  • Dimitra Kamba
    Dimitra KambaΠριν 2 μήνες

    And what about holidays? Who is going to pay? What is your opinion?

  • Makoa Quest
    Makoa QuestΠριν 2 μήνες

    Minute 2:31 slow motion “EVER” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • LifeasDayanara
    LifeasDayanaraΠριν 2 μήνες

    That news report at the beginning 😂

  • Despina Kosmidou
    Despina KosmidouΠριν 2 μήνες

    4.34 greek subtitles hahaha

  • Xolovetari
    XolovetariΠριν 2 μήνες

    everytime i want to text my crush first , i heard “dear elegant ladies” then i stopped. lol

  • Grace L

    Grace L

    Πριν μήνα


  • redkamozo


    Πριν μήνα

    I also think I will start doing this

  • Dhuha


    Πριν μήνα

    Love it.👍🏻

  • Hinyikiwile Mithi

    Hinyikiwile Mithi

    Πριν μήνα


  • C J

    C J

    Πριν 2 μήνες

    This comment! Hahaha high five

  • Valentina Ferrer
    Valentina FerrerΠριν 2 μήνες

    I pay when I don't like the man. That way he kows he is on the friend zone and gets the message that he is not to going any further with me

  • Buniii
    BuniiiΠριν 2 μήνες

    10:48 Thats a slap

  • Caitlin Klein
    Caitlin KleinΠριν 2 μήνες

    Can you do a video about finding elegant friends?

  • Agata Inventio
    Agata InventioΠριν 2 μήνες

    if a man proposes to go 50/50, that shows so much of his character - girls, don't date selfish men!! it's always the little things. If he doesn't hold the doors for you, doesn't want to buy you anything, doesn't treat you in a protective manner - run away! it's not going to end well for you. Please.

  • C E

    C E

    Πριν 2 μήνες

    How is it selfish to go 50/50? If a girl refuses that it is a serioua red flag. I personally feel cringy paying becauae it feels like buying a girl.

  • got no name
    got no nameΠριν 3 μήνες

    11:52 What's a girl next door flavor? Can someone explain please

  • Martha Gee
    Martha GeeΠριν 3 μήνες

    Men have become too much. I mean do we really need to do all this (aka what Anna is talking about) just for men. I give up. I think I'll get married to a robot

  • WhoCares!!! 29
    WhoCares!!! 29Πριν 3 μήνες

    Just came up on this video and I find it funny that I have to message a woman first after I spent money on her ? Yes I am a hunter but doesn't mean she is not allow to say thank you. I will kiss her first no problem, but women can show a little appreciation is that too much to ask ? Men channels get it wrong and women channels get it wrong as well.

  • C E

    C E

    Πριν 2 μήνες

    @Cranium Commando she is making bundle tho for sure! She is the Rich Cooper of women

  • Cranium Commando

    Cranium Commando

    Πριν 2 μήνες

    Not all women are like this. Don't listen to her, lol

  • Watercolours
    WatercoloursΠριν 3 μήνες

    Wish I had saw this before I texted him first 🙄 so cliche but can’t argue the experience I had. Good date be damned, doesn’t matter

  • Madeous
    MadeousΠριν 3 μήνες

    Love you ♥️👌

  • World Wide2
    World Wide2Πριν 3 μήνες

    I literally also don’t want to be associated with “Gender equality”

  • Moon Shot
    Moon ShotΠριν 3 μήνες

    I seriously love her she knows her stuff!

  • Stuart Hastie
    Stuart HastieΠριν 3 μήνες

    Its okay for a woman to offer to split the bill on a fist date but the man shouldss refuse unless the date went badly.

  • m j
    m jΠριν 3 μήνες

    Okay I won't do all that ☺️☺️thank you.

  • Thong La
    Thong LaΠριν 3 μήνες

    1.3K feminists disliked this video