"Be A Lady They Said" Took Down My Video!

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The team behind the project of Cynthia Nixon’s viral video “Be A Lady They Said” took down my video! I’m going to explain the drama behind the scenes & the hypocrisy of this “female empowerment” video taking down my female empowerment video. (Girls.Girls.Girls Magazine)
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  • Joan Eve Lomoljo
    Joan Eve LomoljoΠριν 3 ημέρες

    Ana angry but still delivered her point with GRACE! Kudos.....

  • MARINA Mel
    MARINA MelΠριν 5 ημέρες

    We r with you in this battle, Anna!!!! Let’s support each other in this sisterhood, ladies👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼💖

  • Chetna- Dethe
    Chetna- DetheΠριν 14 ημέρες

    I think as per my opinion the version they showed was more for teens not for elegant ladies and I find that you did a great job on the video that you recreated congrats

  • Melanie Gonzalez Art
    Melanie Gonzalez ArtΠριν 16 ημέρες

    Thank you for explaining yourself! Well done! I agree with your message Anna! Unfortunately I have no friends for the time being because I woke up and realized I was ignoring my femininity engaging with feminist lifestyles and ideas and I partook on a major life change to the path of embracing my femininity. I am anew and I love walking this path and relearning my feminine traits. So many people in the USA are obsessed with manmade systems and ignoring the natural order of things. Thanks for your content. I am learning with you and like-minded content creators.

  • Adina Lalu
    Adina LaluΠριν 17 ημέρες

    I doubt that they took it as empowerment and as a welcome addition to their video! Promoting the fact that it is nit fair that women are expected to do/earn as much as a man while also juggling family/ kids responsibilities may have come against their own message. They wanted women to be seen “strong” as men and your message probably was taken as “women are not equal to men, they shouldn’t have to go 50/50”. To be fair, considering unequal pay between men and women which puts women at a disadvantage, the expectation to go 50/50 and also the self care and grooming needs of a woman, one would have to earn pretty heftily to afford all that.

  • Pinkpoodle
    PinkpoodleΠριν 18 ημέρες

    Keep in mind... Cynthia Nixon is an angry person. Cynthia dislikes men and “real” women. You have inspiring video’s and have a great following. We support your knowledge, wisdom, and experience.👍🙏

  • Joanna Mlodzinska
    Joanna MlodzinskaΠριν 19 ημέρες

    I totally felt this way for so long too. How can we be expected to do all those things while looking beautiful and elegant at the same time? I believe I want to be a gracious housewife without stressing to provide as well. It should be a choice and a comfortable one for all women.

  • Jamie TV
    Jamie TVΠριν 19 ημέρες

    Love u Anna! Finally a genuine person!

  • Srabani Ghosh
    Srabani GhoshΠριν 20 ημέρες

    Being strong is about choice. If you do want to work full time, then work at home, and pay the bills yourself, then go ahead and do it. There's nothing bad about trying to be a independent woman. But dont do all these things by obligations or if you are forced by what the society says when you actually dont want to

  • Percy Vazquez
    Percy VazquezΠριν 20 ημέρες

    OMGoodness!! I have listened to you and Always appreciated your advices and opiniones, BUT NOW that I know what was done to you, for Expressing your opinion as an Independant Woman, I am your Fan!!! True feminism is the tolerance of a Woman opinion and the Recognition of a woman right to HER CHOICES.... And Ironically, "Feminist" dont recognize this.

  • Teresa Haven
    Teresa HavenΠριν 20 ημέρες

    I am sorry I didn't see the original video you posted. Also, even after all they put you thru you are STILL promoting their video. Being a strong woman is important. Standing up for all women is important I feel it is just some women take advantage of that

  • Olga RK
    Olga RKΠριν 21 ημέρα

    Is there a place to download the video??? Like a drop-box or google drive?? I would so love to see it.

  • Muneera Alsabah
    Muneera AlsabahΠριν 21 ημέρα

    Guys you are always mocking Islam religion before but now you agree on Anna’s topic which is actually written in Islam religion book called Quran. The Quran said that men would provide the money and needs of the house no matter how poor or wealthy they are. While women take care of the children and the house.

  • strawberry bangtan

    strawberry bangtan

    Πριν 4 ημέρες

    I know right !!! they be calling muslims women all kinds of names for being a house wife etc now that they marched to be at work they see they have a load of barge and reject now they want to get their femininity back 🙄

  • TheGoddessCaroline
    TheGoddessCarolineΠριν 22 ημέρες

    It was very lame of them because I saw that and your perspective was good and imagine the MAN didn’t want this. Lol, the Irony. Man shuts down a woman with a voice, again. It was never about the licensing it.

  • Rihanna Rih
    Rihanna RihΠριν 24 ημέρες

    Look as a feminist even if i don’t really agree with your views. i respect them since i think everyone is allowed to make their own choices. Like i am personally way too proud to be depending on anybody(like i don’t have much experience in relationships since i tend to friendzone all my potential boyfriends) but i don’t need anyone to complete me like for me relationships is too add something not to complete me like i’m complete by myself and my friends tend to make fun of me as i prioritize career and college over relationships.

  • Claudia Martinez Mullen
    Claudia Martinez MullenΠριν 25 ημέρες

    Dear Anna, I believe you are very courageous to be able to speak what is in your mind. It requires lots of self-determination, respect, and to be assertive, and secure of your own ideals and goals in life. Many women think like you, but they are scare to speak their mind and continue to be dominated by patriarchalism, corporate power and so on. I applaud you!!! We need more woman like you. :-)

  • Deanna Dobie
    Deanna DobieΠριν 27 ημέρες

    Hello from Montreal, Canada Anna. I along with many other Women (and some Men) stand beside you on this drama issue to put it politely. In my opinion Girls, Girls, Girls Magazine behind the scene people are envious of your successful Chanel Please and I know it's not an easy thing to do, feel all of us standing strong with you. I am a relatively new subscriber and am already putting your advice into practice. Because of you and your elegant creative teachings many, many, many of us are finding our voice as well. Thank you!! Deanna Lynn.

  • La Pequeña lulú
    La Pequeña lulúΠριν 27 ημέρες

    I totally agree with u. The problem is today feminists are going to far to the left and they completely forgot what’s to be a feminist. It’s not about equality, because women and men are not equal. It’s about what is fairness.

  • Lana Leon
    Lana LeonΠριν 28 ημέρες

    I am Latina and I live in Sweden, it is so common here to see Swedish women hating men and acting like men in work environments... Even tho Swedish women are beautiful physically, Swedish men don´t like them! because they are feminazis. I am so happy you are so feminine and I absolutely agree with you! and always have.

  • bach ba
    bach baΠριν μήνα

    Surprisingly, I'm on the same page. I'm all about being independent, I don't see myslef as a mother or wife (even to a rich man, haha), so I will probably for the rest of my life be responsible for my income. But I also think it's very unfair to make women who want to be mother and wife work just as hard as me. I don't risk my health to create humanbeing, I don't cook to anybody but my, I clean only to please my sense of cleanliness, so I can afford working hard and I actualy enjoy it.

  • grace janelle
    grace janelleΠριν μήνα

    she's right

  • Jocelyn Gouchenour
    Jocelyn GouchenourΠριν μήνα

    I appreciate your views and I thank you for expressing them.

  • Shelly Rhian Adeline
    Shelly Rhian AdelineΠριν μήνα

    Very angry on your behalf. Regardless of agreement or disagreement (and I do agree with you Anna), the bigger picture is one of A. Free speech debate, and that again this shows how speech is actually very expensive for women. And B. The lack of solidarity between women. When hostilities are directed horizontally at another woman, or women, then we are divided and not fighting the patriarchal arrangement in society. I may know some video editors. If I remember correctly, they used Adobe's video editing programme to put sound on first, then time the shots to the milliseconds of music high and lows. Secondly, Ani DiFranco will likely allow her music to be used/promoted for a reasonable percentage of any advertising revenue attached to your video. I suspect however, the issue came from Girls Girls Girls: they couldn't get you due to free speech laws, and rules centred around feminist debate (otherwise the whole system of academic peer review in subjustcs such as anthropology, history, sociology and English would be closed down).... So they got at you the only other way they could. Good luck Anna.

  • Arzu Kar
    Arzu KarΠριν μήνα

    They are basically jelous

  • Aubrey J.
    Aubrey J.Πριν μήνα

    I just love you Anna. All of us do. x

  • Miz Tenacious T
    Miz Tenacious TΠριν μήνα

    Cheering for you, Anna!

  • Katrina Delos Santos
    Katrina Delos SantosΠριν μήνα

    GRglo is full throttle liberal ...so much censorship. Sorry this happened to you, I would've loved to have seen that video

  • Charmaine RCE
    Charmaine RCEΠριν μήνα

    It is true what she said about the burden of women in society.

  • Laura Thomas
    Laura ThomasΠριν μήνα

    ther was a thing in feminism which really got wrong - we should fight for the regocnition for what our role is instead of working full time and doing all around homework for no regocnition. And giving all our energy.

  • ANA M.B. H.
    ANA M.B. H.Πριν μήνα

    I love your videos so much! I got a PhD and I am a mother and wife. There's nothing wrong in being classy and learning self value and self worth. THANK you You are the big sister we all need

  • ANA M.B. H.
    ANA M.B. H.Πριν μήνα

    They want cheap labor, thus women to be work force

  • Ivulka Polášková
    Ivulka PoláškováΠριν μήνα

    Well, as a proud feminist who completely disagree with almost anything Anna says in here videos (I saw only few) I need to say that I got pretty upsed by the message that no girl can be happyv being only with children, cleaning, without career. This has nothing to do with righteousness, this is realy just hypocrisy. Although I personally need the feeling I am co-responsible for financial burden I dont blame the others for different opinion. I would more likely go with "I disapprove of what you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it" quote.

  • Lola Canada
    Lola CanadaΠριν μήνα

    Thank you Anna for standing for all the ladies.

  • Stacy Flood
    Stacy FloodΠριν μήνα

    Anna, you have been a victim of the cancel culture. Thank you for being you. I love your videos

  • Lisa Nancollas
    Lisa NancollasΠριν μήνα

    Liberals only want to allow you to speak when you have their message. They believe only they should speak.

  • Lisa Nancollas
    Lisa NancollasΠριν μήνα

    You are so right!

  • Lisa Nancollas
    Lisa NancollasΠριν μήνα

    Liberals try to make real women feel guilty for being conservative and wanting to have manners and to act like women.

  • Lisa Nancollas
    Lisa NancollasΠριν μήνα

    They don't like you because you are not gay. If you were a transexual or gay they would have paid you money.

  • Lisa Nancollas
    Lisa NancollasΠριν μήνα

    Keep going. I enjoy your videos. I like your messages. You make women feel good to be a women with your videos.

  • Lisa Nancollas
    Lisa NancollasΠριν μήνα

    They didn't like your video because your not a liberal and you are pretty and smart.

  • Tumbagahon Grace
    Tumbagahon GraceΠριν μήνα

    society push itself too far, it's appear more toxic

  • Allison Welch
    Allison WelchΠριν μήνα

    Love you beautiful lady! I agree with this pov A LOT!

  • Cleo Vintora
    Cleo VintoraΠριν μήνα

    I never heard of this video untill this video😂

  • Cleo Vintora
    Cleo VintoraΠριν μήνα


  • keerthy Murthy
    keerthy MurthyΠριν μήνα

    I love u Anna 😘

  • Ahany ym
    Ahany ymΠριν μήνα

    If anybody wish to see the video, someone else uploaded on GRglo. Her name account is Emanuela Criscov

  • Elena levchenko
    Elena levchenkoΠριν μήνα

    I first saw Anna’s video then follow her link found Cintia video

  • Alice T
    Alice TΠριν μήνα

    Your own content is so much better.

  • Madam Rose
    Madam RoseΠριν μήνα

    Thanks for sharing. 🌲

  • C-arise D
    C-arise DΠριν μήνα

    Anna, You are an Original...you NEVER have to re-create behind anyone...trust me on this...I myself being an originator/ creator of artistic venues and content ..I would consider this a missed opportunity on their end and a lesson learned on your end....Stay Blessed, Stay Powerful, Remain Elegant🌟🙏🏽

  • dgjztl
    dgjztlΠριν μήνα

    "There is less pressure on men in our society" lmaoooooo

  • Malin Widerlöv
    Malin WiderlövΠριν μήνα

    Thank You! Så underbart att du vågar stå upp för detta oerhört viktiga i feminismen. Det är fruktansvärt att de som vill nyansera bilden av att vara kvinna, mamma, syster, dotter, maka.. blir hatad av dessa röst-starka krafter som kallar sig feminister och ”systrar”. Hemskt och jag har inte sett något liknande bland män.

  • standrew
    standrewΠριν μήνα

    I literally had to look up, "who is Cynthia Nixon", because although her name sounded vaguely familiar to me I didn't know who she was off the top of my head! So yeah, then I remembered why her name hit me like that, because she was on that awful program that used to be on HBO with Sarah Jessica Parker. That show was so awful!

  • TheArab Hippie
    TheArab HippieΠριν μήνα

    It was not plagiarism at all. It was a parody and that was very clever of you. Aggressive American feminists get out of control.

  • TWP
    TWPΠριν μήνα

    I totally agree with you.

  • Bets H
    Bets HΠριν μήνα

    Anna your 💯 ❤️👍🏼

  • Gacha_soba 0906
    Gacha_soba 0906Πριν μήνα

    Now I want to see this video😩😩

  • Cristiane Stancovik
    Cristiane StancovikΠριν μήνα

    Dear Ana, feminism doesn't want equality, they do not want to listen to other women, they do want to control everybody (men and women). I have no respect for this movement because of things like this that happened to you. Sorry about that!

  • Solodolo
    SolodoloΠριν μήνα

    They want women to be men. Real women don’t want to be men. We want to be appreciated as women.

  • Solodolo
    SolodoloΠριν μήνα

    They only want one feminine narrative. And that’s being manly. If you wanna be feminine, they silence you.

  • Rose Di Napoli
    Rose Di NapoliΠριν μήνα

    I’m 60 lady , I was lucky to come across your channel. I love your videos , your advices that help me to be a better woman. Thank you very much and a lot of gratitude ! Regards from Brasil , São Paulo

  • Swordchild001
    Swordchild001Πριν μήνα

    It’s a shame that your video is not available elsewhere.

  • Reetu Sharma
    Reetu SharmaΠριν μήνα

    I am glad that you talked about this. I also feels the same that women are doing lot more unpaid work than men. Unfortunately, there is no platform to raise this issue as it is considered taboo. It mostly depend on your partner or else just leave. It is my view that women should be paid by their partners because she is sacrificing her career and time. If the partner disagree, he just says to leave or abuse. If not, then women should be given equal right in property acquired after marriage in case it falls apart. But, this is not the case here. Just giving raw vegetables to cook food and may be a pair of clothes in a year, is it justifiable. There are no rules or laws about it either.

  • Josie Hernandez
    Josie HernandezΠριν μήνα

    You are very much appreciated!

  • Josie Hernandez
    Josie HernandezΠριν μήνα

    Well said I support you she was probably jealous of you !!

  • tamann7
    tamann7Πριν μήνα

    We appreciate what you do. It also takes a stronger person to look at and work with all sides of an issue.

  • Dalía
    DalíaΠριν μήνα

    Girls around me in high school look at me strangely and make jokes about me looking passive aggressive when I handle anger or similar situations like this lady. Now I understand why. I can’t stop watching your videos 🤍

  • Sabhyata Sahu
    Sabhyata SahuΠριν μήνα

    Add another caption "How to show your anger like a lady"

  • Sabhyata Sahu
    Sabhyata SahuΠριν μήνα

    Even being angry she is so darn classy. I totally lose my calm persona every time I get angry.

  • Rebecca Gilstrap
    Rebecca GilstrapΠριν μήνα

    Ms. Anna, I have found through experience that feminism is more about competing with other women and less about empowering other women. I have been more insulted by so-called "feminists" than any other women I've interacted with. I am sorry you have went through this as you do represent what I see as a positive force in the interest and the well-being of women even if you don't have the most popular message of the day. It is always refreshing for me to see a woman embrace and even enhance the traditional role that women often feel ashamed to embrace. For that, beautiful Ms. Anna, my hat is off for you. ❤️🦊

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    futsinenΠριν μήνα


  • burritoz
    burritozΠριν μήνα

    Ana, thank you for standing up to dumb distortions in the name of feminism!

  • Luciana Ardillita
    Luciana ArdillitaΠριν μήνα

    feminazis everywhere, Anna, don't pay attention to them, you're si above that

  • Ralitza
    RalitzaΠριν μήνα

    I guess you could also change the music on your video. But, yeah, they just don't like what you had to say.

  • bungalowdweller
    bungalowdwellerΠριν μήνα

    I just found Anna a few months ago and this video today. Keep it up, Anna. These are the women who are causing so much unhappiness and problems between men and women today. These women don't speak for me. They are hateful people with the idea that it is only their worldview that is valid. You're doing the right thing. Women of all ages have been unable to learn the very things that you're teaching----you are single-handedly bringing back the mystery and loveliness that is WOMAN. God bless you today.

  • Joy Murphy
    Joy MurphyΠριν μήνα

    Thank you Anna. We're behind behind you 100%.

  • Judy P.
    Judy P.Πριν μήνα

    I don't agree with you, anna , because I think you misunderstood the messages of the original video. The point is not that we (as women) have to ADD the "male responsibilities" to our "female ones", but to question that we have to carry this burden of "female responsibility " at all (alone). Well, my humble opinion. Open to discussion;)

  • Sarah Cluett
    Sarah CluettΠριν 2 μήνες

    The real reason they took down your video is because they have an agenda they are pushing. Making men like women and women like men and to breakdown the family. Women were never meant to fill that role! We have different roles than men.. and it’s beautiful!!! I want to be a homemaker, wife, mom and support my man!!!

  • kat hollywood rundlett
    kat hollywood rundlettΠριν 2 μήνες

    Love you dear Anna 🌼🌼💐💐💐

  • kat hollywood rundlett
    kat hollywood rundlettΠριν 2 μήνες

    Because we have to juggle so much And I kept thinking to myself ...am I crazy ? Am I the only one who thinks this way? Do men help women with carrying groceries caring for children on top of our careers ?

  • kat hollywood rundlett
    kat hollywood rundlettΠριν 2 μήνες

    You have helped me so much because I couldn't understand why I was so fatigued alot and I rarely had support male support in any way to help my life. Women seem to have taken so much ro do ..and I felt degraded by society tired all the time TIRED!

  • kat hollywood rundlett
    kat hollywood rundlettΠριν 2 μήνες

    You have alot of passion for improving women's careers and self worth

  • kat hollywood rundlett
    kat hollywood rundlettΠριν 2 μήνες

    Thank you so much Anna...I admire you alot. I appreciate your videos. You are an excellent teacher and inspirer professional I didn't think it was a big deal what you had done you were promoting ! Which is helpful !

  • kat hollywood rundlett
    kat hollywood rundlettΠριν 2 μήνες

    DEAR Anna .You are a very classy pretty helpful young beautiful woman! You are very intelligent and I enjoy your helpful videos!!!! I have practically watched most or all of them! You are kind to create videos to help women! I agree with what you say about what happened. I understand you totally! I thought you meant well and that exposing the meaning was beneficial to women. I totally agree with you. I don't think you did anything out of hand. Im sorry that this happened. I know you have compassion and your videos have HELPED me So much with your knowledge ! You are lovely so lovely woman!

  • Shruti Jain
    Shruti JainΠριν 2 μήνες

    Can I do 50:50 if my man cooks for me? because in our household, my husband does most of the cooking not all but most and does bit of household as well. So then is it justified to expect 50:50 split or atleast 40:50 based on who earns more?

  • Mikan Chan
    Mikan ChanΠριν 2 μήνες

    I want to see the video that anna made. Is it available anywhere?

  • Miss M. K.
    Miss M. K.Πριν 2 μήνες

    You are siimply amazing. Thank you!

  • Shtha Almzyd
    Shtha AlmzydΠριν 2 μήνες

    You are beautiful angry! Exciting!

  • Smoky The bear
    Smoky The bearΠριν 2 μήνες

    If feminism is promoting women to be more like men why not enforce equally more men doing “women duties” they should be making videos of men cooking taking care of kids being well groomed etc I saw no such vids. If women are taking “male” duties like providing and paying that only adds to women’s exceptions cause society and men isn’t accepting shaved armpits and body positivity at the same rate as women are accepting it. They pick and chose and we end up in a bad position. Men are all for women providing as long as they hold on to other aspects of femininity. While they are held to no such standard in fact they are jsut getting some slack if that. At what point is it counter productive? At what point do we realize this isn’t equality?

  • assyifa bintang
    assyifa bintangΠριν 2 μήνες

    Wait i'm late to the conversation. To clarify; Anna thinks women should not work and provide for household, right? And her video is being taken down. Is that correct?

  • Sara Puchalska
    Sara PuchalskaΠριν 2 μήνες

    GRglo is controlled by the left. Be careful, some opinions are not "left" enough. Doctors with experienced truths are even being censored on youtube throughout 2020, so it's only a matter of time before youtube controls the ENTIRE narrative.

  • Rochelle Ludick
    Rochelle LudickΠριν 2 μήνες

    I learned this the hard way and my friends are the same. We pursue high paying careers so we can be financially independent and I was proud to pay for half of the expenses, however it set the tone of my relationship. It put me under a lot of pressure to maintain my lifestyle, my priorities and maintain our household. It is true, we do carry more responsibilities. What made is worse was, because I was paying my way in our relationship, when I wanted a night out or be treated a bit, I was told you can do it yourself...

  • Smoky The bear

    Smoky The bear

    Πριν 2 μήνες

    You can definitely be successful and independent and have a high power career and not let that ooze into a relationship. You can be one way professionally and another personally. It definitely sets the tone. We can be equal in society and cared for in relationships. I don’t get the notion it has to be one or the other. If your man can’t provide like you can make sure he provides in other ways. No one is superwomen and can do both. If your really paying for the bills and hold that burden by yourself then he should be able to provide for eleborate dinners and stress about money coming in to treat you right. It takes less money but then the burden of the lifestyle and relationship is on you both.

  • Deanna Dobie
    Deanna DobieΠριν 2 μήνες

    Shame on them. I have learned so much from you and your videos. I admirer you standing up to the bullies and haters! ~ Deanna Lynn Montreal. Canada.

  • Martha Gee
    Martha GeeΠριν 2 μήνες

    I have been thinking alot about this video and now I get the point. The other women must be thinking that being feminine is being masculine hence this saying "what a man can do a woman can do better". I think it's not bad to be independent like pay your bills or whatever but when u have a man or husband in your life. Your money is not his but yours. His money is ours. What am I saying is let the man provide. We are spoiling this men by telling them we can do everything. We can cook,clean,give birth ,be an excellent lover and still provide. This is too much. We are tiring ourselves. I agree with Anna 100% let your man provide and spoil you. Men were born to be the providers ever since the beginning . These women tearing Anna down shows their ignorance and lack of information about what being feminine is all about.

  • Nicole moneymaker
    Nicole moneymakerΠριν 2 μήνες

    Love the Cynthia Nixon video but. Also completely agree w yr opinion on the financial

  • Cadence Sparx
    Cadence SparxΠριν 2 μήνες

    Preach!!!!! Your awesome.

  • Debbie Weiland
    Debbie WeilandΠριν 2 μήνες

    Did you ever get a chance to re-post this video Anna? I would love to see it.

  • M A
    M AΠριν 2 μήνες

    Yes we live in a World where censorship.... In the views the woke culture does not agree with

  • Caroline Rodriguez-Rivera
    Caroline Rodriguez-RiveraΠριν 2 μήνες

    Bravoooooo Anna 💕

  • Kathy McHale
    Kathy McHaleΠριν 2 μήνες

    I am 60 years old and have had trouble keeping a man....I refuse to pay for dates especially since I am considered dessert......I refuse to live with a guy and pay 50-50 for living expenses.....I refuse to agree politics....religious ....or any other opinion with a man just to keep him....it always happens the guys I dated always come back later and tell me how they regret leaving....cause they feel manipulated and used by the women they are with now....Just wanted to share