5 Signs That Tell You’re Not Upper-class!

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Dear elegant ladies, welcome back to my channel! There are certain things that you might be doing that give away that you're not from the upper class. If you wan’t to have success in high society there are certain rules that you have to follow, we all have goals that we wan to achieve, that’s why I offer these types of videos, so you can easily navigate in the high-society circles.
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  • Jayla W.
    Jayla W.Πριν 17 ώρες

    Love you❤️🌏 1/26

  • money sun
    money sunΠριν 3 ημέρες

    Feminist need to watch this.

  • Birdyfi lovingheart
    Birdyfi lovingheartΠριν 5 ημέρες

    As much as I love you and the ideas of ladylike behaviour, when you finally leave this world you'll realise it was all for nothing.

  • agape _luv
    agape _luvΠριν 6 ημέρες

    You're gorgeous yet I've never understood how dark roots is classy .. please help

  • z a i n a
    z a i n aΠριν 6 ημέρες

    i came to watch this because my goal is to physically act super aristocratic, elegant, and upper-class (when it comes to movement and looks) but the second a word comes out of my mouth you realize i'm a street kid

  • s w
    s wΠριν 7 ημέρες

    I know it is a sensitive topic for women to talk but I want to know what kind of plastic surgery makes you look cheap and what makes you look rich. I have fat loss on my face and I feel that makes me look poor. I am going for fat grafting cause I think natural look makes someone look more rich, but I am not expert when it comes to affluence people.

  • Chantal Forgues
    Chantal ForguesΠριν 10 ημέρες

    Can't buy class....

  • Gerardo Munoz jr
    Gerardo Munoz jrΠριν 11 ημέρες

    Throughout the years i've noticed that there are more people that are non-talkers, anti-social, self- reserved as individuals than the actual energetic, outgoing social talker that engage in spontaneous conversations...

  • Jo
    JoΠριν 11 ημέρες

    These are all just good manners. Unfortunately, I find alot of people don't seem to care about manners these days.

  • Beth Johnson
    Beth JohnsonΠριν 12 ημέρες

    Oh my goodness, I am a little bit terrified by this... I actually AM a nice girl. And sadly, also perhaps a little bit boring. Help... how do I become "interesting and edgy"? Lol... Seriously.

  • Edmund007013
    Edmund007013Πριν 13 ημέρες

    Yes just be yourself. For men it helpful to wear a nice suit and tie. A good conversation has you talking about half the time and your partner talks about one half the time. Also be somewhat cheerful.

  • Theosis78
    Theosis78Πριν 15 ημέρες

    Actually I'm a gentleman, but I already learned a ton from this video and will stick with this lady's channel! 👌

  • Keliam
    KeliamΠριν 15 ημέρες

    In my world, all of these tips are collectively referred to as common sense. But that’s just me.

  • Uchechukwu Udeozo
    Uchechukwu UdeozoΠριν 15 ημέρες

    Excuse me, what's the damage control procedures for these points

  • Music Movement
    Music MovementΠριν 17 ημέρες

    7:40 hahahahahah Anna! 😂😢

  • ForThe People
    ForThe PeopleΠριν 18 ημέρες

    It's the voice and accent for me.💕

  • Iffat Baqi
    Iffat BaqiΠριν 21 ημέρα

    Can you get to the point please thank you

  • Victoria Presser
    Victoria PresserΠριν 22 ημέρες

    What about "Little Miss Trout Pout"? Is that a sign of affluence, or too much money in the hand of a wannabe influencer?

  • Kathy Perkins
    Kathy PerkinsΠριν 23 ημέρες

    Good, I didn't want to be their friends either!

  • Truth never changes
    Truth never changesΠριν 24 ημέρες

    Why everyone wants to be upper-class? Arrogant people..

  • Daša Gondova
    Daša GondovaΠριν 25 ημέρες

    Your chanel is great and helpful, thank you. But what I wanted to say. I am from Slovakia /former Czechoslovakia/ and I have this book called Lexicon of Social Contacts from 1972. And everything you have said about way of dressing too, it is there. My parents and grandparents dressed and behaved this way. Now I am 45 and trying to come back to these roots. We are not affluent, just middle class from a small town. That would be very nice if people behaved and dressed like real ladies and gentlemens.

  • ted loser
    ted loserΠριν 26 ημέρες

    Affluent does not equal upper class in the UK..

  • ted loser
    ted loserΠριν 26 ημέρες

    When I was interviewing Gorbachev..lol

  • AkeemHimself
    AkeemHimselfΠριν 26 ημέρες

    Is it a trait to have your head up your ass as a member of the "upper class". These are VERY general guidelines for average social interactions 😂😂😂

  • Jasmin Matridym
    Jasmin MatridymΠριν 28 ημέρες

    Can you make a video about how look upper class with short hair?

  • glad fer
    glad ferΠριν 29 ημέρες

    you are just a modern slave, but i think you're right, i drive my life with this so naive fire, who make me feel like a mess, i'm just a poor slave and you are the rich one, i was just misdjugded was life in fact is all about

  • D-Goms
    D-GomsΠριν μήνα

    That last point screams Meghan Markle, to a T. But there's always a Harry sucker out there LOL

  • M. D.
    M. D.Πριν μήνα

    So true. I made a life long friend of a young and handsome, wealthy man I met in Mykonos by getting his attention from a comment I made at a dinner we both attended. I had just read an article about the Greek stock market and when he made a comment about the market, I told him that it didn’t seem that they had one. He loved that I wanted to take him on, an economist from an old line London banking family he paid for my dinner and it’s over 14 years, and we’ve been friends ever since. Never a romance, though we discussed it, but an enduring friendship. Of course I’ve studied economics at the graduate level and have a Juris Doctor but he didn’t know that at the time.

  • A YouTuber At YouTube
    A YouTuber At YouTubeΠριν μήνα

    Are most affluent people, introverted, ambivers or extraverted🤔

  • Deborahlyn Hetherly
    Deborahlyn HetherlyΠριν μήνα

    Anna can you please tell me what to say instead of swearing when I really lose it?

  • Parul Sheth
    Parul ShethΠριν μήνα

    why so much emphasis on high society? Aren't those empty and artificial people?

  • Vellocent C.
    Vellocent C.Πριν μήνα

    She's right you know. Rich people are like everyone else, they care about character over all else. Every artist like myself knows every class of people and my friends from every class want me to be kind and be myself. Nobody likes goody two shoes, but everyone appreciates compassion.

  • Cherie Robinson
    Cherie RobinsonΠριν μήνα

    Thank you for helping us. You are beautiful and kind

  • Marsh53172
    Marsh53172Πριν μήνα

    Love your videos!

  • Sweet Moon
    Sweet MoonΠριν μήνα

    Good luck with getting this to stick with the younger “I just want to show the world my tush” group.

  • suzette roberts
    suzette robertsΠριν μήνα

    sounds alot like the Dale Cargagie training....

  • g ho
    g hoΠριν μήνα

    A friend of mine does that she always do the "who, how, what , when, where?" despite being told that is not nice. So i decided not to go out with her at all.

  • Carmen Freeman
    Carmen FreemanΠριν μήνα

    Thank you. 🙏

  • Lola Hey
    Lola HeyΠριν μήνα

  • Kristie Kogut Rodriguez
    Kristie Kogut RodriguezΠριν μήνα

    You help with some things.

  • Laura Thomas
    Laura ThomasΠριν μήνα

    I really like your way of beeing. Because I saw a lot of desperate Girls which to much make up which tried to impress mens only with beauty and showing too much skin. I think I never saw the Jetset-szene but lover levels and everything was just superficial to me. So I left the szene, because after a time it got boring to me.

  • sa
    saΠριν μήνα

    Upper class women don't use the term 'babe'.

  • MRooz


    Πριν 20 ημέρες

    It used to a be in lexicon of privacy till it got to the songs and the rest is history.

  • hydrolito
    hydrolitoΠριν μήνα

    Status said more like st at us not state us where I come from.

  • Krizelda Maris Manacop-Santillana
    Krizelda Maris Manacop-SantillanaΠριν μήνα

    These are simple decent behavior. My mother taught me this at a young age because she behaved that way, she set herself as an example. She told me that not behaving professionally and appropriately is bad for business opportunities. Unfortunately, some people cannot apply it even though it is easy. So does that mean I am affluent? Hahaha just kidding! (I'm not considered upper class, just in the middle class)

  • Word Ninja
    Word NinjaΠριν μήνα

    These are some of the things my grandmere taught me so I know you're speaking truth. Understated elegance and proper manners are essential.

  • Teresa Fontaine
    Teresa FontaineΠριν μήνα

    I have such bad social manners and narc traits from my father and step mom. They always one up people and talk about money & who they know. Yikes!

  • loud neo
    loud neoΠριν μήνα

    Im poor but learning to look in a good proper way🤣

  • Patriot Retiree
    Patriot RetireeΠριν μήνα

    Conflating economic upper class with character and behavior upper class.

  • Zach Tomlinson
    Zach TomlinsonΠριν μήνα

    5:34 " The key to success is truly networking, right?" Hmmm, that's debatable.

  • DelmarBD
    DelmarBDΠριν μήνα

    Thank you for the great tips. I have one too. "Watch or watched my videos", rather than washed. I love your accent, by the way. It's lovely. But careful to not mispronounce a word in a way that it has a different meaning.

  • Preiya Dovel
    Preiya DovelΠριν μήνα

    Ladies, just be yourself!!! Happy and proud about it

  • LEXXVERSE Diamond
    LEXXVERSE DiamondΠριν μήνα

    OMG- as soon as i heard that OBNOXIOUS THOAT WINE,,,, I knew you hadd noooo idea, about acting civil...

  • Michelle C
    Michelle CΠριν μήνα

    I was taught by Debretts from UK: the true good manner and class is how you can put the people at ease and comfortable when you are talking to them regardless their social class or standing, like those in Downton Abby .

  • bike suisala
    bike suisalaΠριν μήνα

    Would 1 be considered affluent if they made their money selling drugs? does that make them classy

  • ablong58
    ablong58Πριν μήνα

    Some really great advice and elegantly given .. I wish these 'affluent people' would take it too !

  • Melinda
    MelindaΠριν μήνα

    maybe you can teach people to function without their phones

  • rose Guber
    rose GuberΠριν μήνα

    Affluent and upper class are not the same thing...

  • stella59360
    stella59360Πριν μήνα

    Put pierce on the tongue it will suit you 😁

  • RS
    RSΠριν μήνα

    really liked the third point. Biggest pet peeve of mine too and the people show their real quality through this point. Once done, can be done by them again and again, despite telling them clear no. being alone rather than being with these people is much much better and peaceful.

  • evelyn baron
    evelyn baronΠριν μήνα

    I think these rules are essential no matter what your social status is to be a real human being. I grew up in a family where my father, my hero began after WW11 in his newly adopted country Canada to do at the age of 50 what he was born to do; he was an inspired architect and I and my sister benefited from the wealth that came with that success born of passion. He was also passionate about good government and began with another person the Canadian Institute for International Affairs. He treated me and my sister with the greatest respect and love and was always available and no we were not inundated with things at all; everything was about learning and experience so a walk in the park when I was very young might lead to Audebon guide to Birds or tracing the coast line of a country and travel of course was part of it. In his 80s he developed Alzheimers, and at first the signs were slight so through bad business decisions he went bankrupt under extreme circumstances and my mother and I got super organized to look after him until he passed away in his sleep in the middle of a February day with the light streaming in. Anything I own materially I have earned myself; I love the company of men and women who are authentic and have dignity and accountability no matter what their circumstances. I love your channel and you are very loveable indeed; these are just my thoughts on the matter.

  • AdrenochromeWitch MalibuNightsPublishing
    AdrenochromeWitch MalibuNightsPublishingΠριν μήνα

    I came to level-up.

  • Shandahl Ibarra
    Shandahl IbarraΠριν μήνα

    It is always good to be mindful when it comes to others.

  • Anna Marie Bolet
    Anna Marie BoletΠριν μήνα

    So basically this video is just describing a list of manners... which most people seem to have lost.

  • Nancy Noonan
    Nancy NoonanΠριν 2 μήνες

    Hello Anna Would you please define the term "high society"? You use the term frequently, but I'm not quite sure what you mean. Thanks.

  • Brat Baby
    Brat BabyΠριν 2 μήνες

    Lost in youtube 4a.m.

  • Ivan Totzev
    Ivan TotzevΠριν 2 μήνες


  • Ashley Salazar
    Ashley SalazarΠριν 2 μήνες

    Anna is a self made princess

  • Lucky U
    Lucky UΠριν 2 μήνες

    Reflection in glass was kind of distracting, thought you may want to avoid that in future videos.

  • hydrolito
    hydrolitoΠριν 2 μήνες

    Washed ironed and repaired own clothes also washed dishes, cooked and cleaned. Drive myself don't have a chauffer. Sometimes also walked and rode bicycle to work as could not afford a car at the time.

  • hydrolito
    hydrolitoΠριν 2 μήνες

    I helped brother stack hay in barn and dig post holes also helped coworker dig his post holes. I also helped brother put shed together and helped him with his business.

  • hydrolito
    hydrolitoΠριν 2 μήνες

    Worked for a living instead of having others do all the work. Helped dad reroof house and barn, carried wood for stove, feed and watered animals, put hay in barn, shoveled manure, worked different jobs doing manual labor, operated various machines at business, delivery man, cleaning, repairing, waiting on people, cooking, painted own shed, and so on. Rich people have others do all that for them.

  • agent4you2
    agent4you2Πριν 2 μήνες

    Some people want to be rich and fit in so badly they are pretentious. You can see right through them.

  • Ruby Espinal
    Ruby EspinalΠριν 2 μήνες

    Love your hair so fun and classy.😊

  • She Can Do It!
    She Can Do It!Πριν 2 μήνες

    I fail to understand how this is specific to the affluent. This is advice can be titled, How to be a well-rounded individual.

  • Penny Smith
    Penny SmithΠριν 2 μήνες

    An average Joe...not nice. You can't teach an old dog new tricks. All about silver spoon comes to mind. We all have flaws Don't be something your not. Thank you

  • Lady Diaspora
    Lady DiasporaΠριν 2 μήνες

    People who always talk about how much they have spent,or how much they pay for things? Or vice versa people who ask you how much you paid for something.

  • Gabhoru
    GabhoruΠριν 2 μήνες

    What to speak about myself infront of others without annoying them

  • julie Wallis
    julie WallisΠριν 2 μήνες

    Another video that takes forever to start!

  • Clare Zigner
    Clare ZignerΠριν 2 μήνες

    Thank you for your excellent videos,I am a preop transgender female ,who is trying to improve my feminine behaviour,I respect you as a marvelous teacher. You are giving me lessons I did not receive growing up since my people were working class,polite enough, but did not teach or practice what you teach. I,d like to place myself entirely in your capable hands and learn from your, but I don't know how to manage technology well enough to go on line; so I do what I can with your videos. Would you please make one addressing the problems of left-handed people?

  • Cherries Jubilee
    Cherries JubileeΠριν 2 μήνες

    Been there and done that in my twenties. Rich folk, especially those who have not made their own money, tend to be very insecure...as is demonstrated by your advice here. The wealthy are very aware of what people want from them. I walked away from this society decades ago, because I did not like the lifestyle...

  • Tracey Parsons
    Tracey ParsonsΠριν 2 μήνες

    I like what you bring to our attention, may I be permitted to also bring to your attention, a minor choice of words. When you say no one has "corrected" you. Perhaps you could rephrase that word corrected to no one has made you "aware" of this socially acceptable etiquette. So much less confronting speech pattern for elegant ladies.

  • div Thakur
    div ThakurΠριν 2 μήνες


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    Able Tashar NetworkΠριν 2 μήνες


  • Melanie Perrone
    Melanie PerroneΠριν 2 μήνες

    your light is showing on the picture on the wall :)

  • Adventure Cats
    Adventure CatsΠριν 2 μήνες

    yeah name dropping is the worst...

  • tamann7
    tamann7Πριν 2 μήνες

    ok is it big foot

    ELISABETH MΠριν 2 μήνες

    Thank you for this channel and series. It really helps for someone to simply reveal the ‘rules’ for personal excellence in this time of social change. I don’t know if you’ve approached this subject, but I’d like your opinion on how to interact with those who are helping you; what is the proper way to treat the help’ - from the concierge to the busboy and housemaid? I’ve seen perfectly appalling behavior that reveals horrible character flaws in those who ‘should know better’. My parents were from a refined background, but due to our financial situation we never had household help except when I was very small. As an adult my fortunes have changed, and I now find it quite challenging to create and maintain appropriate boundaries in such critical personal situations. People in service roles, like personal care aides and housekeeping assistance can be part of one’s most personal moments; they know all about you and yet they’re not simply friends because there’s a hierarchical financial dimension to the relationship. Any thoughts and advice you have would be much appreciated. Thank you .

  • Ber
    BerΠριν 2 μήνες

    I don’t feel bad about being working class, essentially poor. I’m proud of who I am and where I come from. If you knew the markup on everyday things I pay for, you’d think I was so rich to be able to afford things like a house or an education by how much I spend on them: my father’s life, my life, my sibling’s lives. We all pay for it. I have an emotionally absent father because he works such long hours I grew up not seeing him a lot. Us kids rarely got new clothes. We never used gov. assistance. But my father has no friends or hobbies bc he works all the time. 6 days a week for years. So I don’t need “the wealthy” to approve of me. The only thing I learned from this video is that the wealthy need to learn something from me, and what it means to have things like a home, a license, a passport, my family staying together. They could not last a day in my shoes, and I am part of the lucky percentage of the world population who has food, water, and internet. So yes, I will name drop, and share the contact info of someone I consider my equal. Why should it matter unless the person I’m speaking to considers me to be inferior or that I lack discretion? God forbid a poor touches them.

  • House of Obatala
    House of ObatalaΠριν 2 μήνες

    I can’t believe at some point I was interested in this?! High Society, if that exist, is limited to a very few. The rest of us are just well mannered decent people. What’s narcissistic is this video.

  • Cooking With Missi
    Cooking With MissiΠριν 2 μήνες

    Nice video Thanks

  • Carter S
    Carter SΠριν 2 μήνες

    Im a 17 year old dude howd I get here

  • Leila Glam
    Leila GlamΠριν 2 μήνες

    Actually being nice and sweet is not good! You aren't polite at all and all those advises is your point of view according to your experience as sugar baby but not all sugar babies are the same, if you watch the real wives or any reality in LA the super rich ladies speak with soft voice. Well they are famous ex sugar not you tubers from the Europe

  • DarjeelingJelly
    DarjeelingJellyΠριν 2 μήνες

    I guess I'll always be poor because I'm too nice and too much of a perfectionist...lol

  • Angelfire
    AngelfireΠριν 2 μήνες

    I have champagne taste. But kool-aid money. but Dawwrrlling I try.

  • jennifer86010
    jennifer86010Πριν 2 μήνες

    Of the 1 million plus viewers who watch this video, only a handful will ever encounter wealthy, powerful or really important people. And, if they do, it will probably not develop into a business or personal relationship. If it does, Anna's advice is unnecessary, since the important person in your relationship will soon make it known what he or she wants from you and how you should act when you are together.

  • jennifer86010
    jennifer86010Πριν 2 μήνες

    One of the WORST things you can do to anybody is to secretly video them or secretly photograph them, or even take "selfie" photos of yourself with them, without them knowing it and then post it on any social media. Famous or celebrity people usually don't have a problem with this, and you always have to ask permission, but with non-public people doing so is invading their privacy and they can sue you.

  • Helen Boula
    Helen BoulaΠριν 2 μήνες

    What is the clear-cut definition of class explain that to me and then I'll explain to you what class is.

  • Helen Boula
    Helen BoulaΠριν 2 μήνες

    I think we all know someone in this category men and women as well a lot of times a lot of people want to be somebody that they're not and they try so hard at it they would just need to relax and be themselves.

  • Helen Boula

    Helen Boula

    Πριν 2 μήνες

    I'll tell you something else a lot of people thank if you have a lot of money then you have class no you cannot buy class.

  • Deborahlyn Hetherly
    Deborahlyn HetherlyΠριν 2 μήνες

    Anna, wonderful work! Can you tell us what is elegant for bed, robes, slippers, pajamas? Can I go to bed without brushing my hair? What should I sleep in? I feel frumpy even though I bought matching pajamas pants and shirt but I still look awkward

  • Divine Angelic
    Divine AngelicΠριν 2 μήνες

    Hi Anna love this school you have. Do one for men too.